About Us

A new dating experience

Three Day Rule is a new take on online dating that eliminates the hassle of traditional dating sites. We are a selective online dating platform built with the professional, single in mind. Busy professionals often focus on their career and have little patience for picking up singles at bars and wasting time on traditional dating websites.


Selective Membership

Anyone who has tried online dating is familiar with its problems: messages from strangers you are not interested in, exaggerated or fake profiles, and an overload of options that makes meeting singles online more like online shopping.

At Three Day Rule our matchmakers personally review and select only the best singles for the community. The result is a highly compatible dating pool consisting of exceptional singles.

Member Benefits

Our members enjoy unprecedented benefits and concierge-like amenities to meet their needs. While other online dating sites simply help couples meet, we take it a step further by introducing our members in the real world through events, experiences, and dating activities. This allows our members to experience life together.

Three Day Rule has also cultivated partnerships to bring our members unique perks from some of the most sought-after travel, lifestyle, and entertainment brands. Three Day Rule is your passport to a better dating life.

No Hassle

Becoming a Three Day Rule member is hassle-free. Singles can apply for membership in under five minutes.

Unlike other dating sites, you don't have to go through thousands of profiles to find a match. Once approved, you can sit back and relax because we send you compatible matches daily. Members can also easily meet offline at exclusive events.

Most importantly, because we are selective, you will find real people and better dates, rather than the noise and inactive profiles found on traditional online dating sites.

  • What is the Three Day Rule?

    The Three Day Rule is when guys think that they should wait three days before they call a girl. We are turning that rule on its head and debunking the myth that anyone should wait. We're creating a dating atmosphere where games no longer exist and finding your perfect match has no rules attached.

  • Why is ThreeDayRule different?

    Imagine a dating site with a pool of exceptional hand-picked singles. Enter ThreeDayRule, a first-of-a-kind invitation-only online dating community. Because all members must be invited or go through an application process, our dating pool consists of only A-list singles.

    Membership also has its privileges. Our members enjoy access to exclusive events, unprecedented perks, and concierge-like amenities to meet their needs.

    Think of ThreeDayRule as your passport to a better dating life.

  • How do I join?

    You can apply to join on the Three Day Rule homepage. Your application will be carefully reviewed by one of our Matchmakers. You will receive an email letting you know that you have been accepted, wait-listed, or denied.

    Most Three Day Rule members are referrals from existing members. When applying, make sure to tell us who sent you.
  • How much does it cost?

    We currently offer a month-to-month recurring subscription plan for $49.99.
  • How do you select members?

    We review every member through the lens of quality. Each member must possess the criteria that furthers our mission to create an online dating community with relationship-minded singles who are engaging, accomplished, and have a passion for non-work related pursuits.
  • Why is ThreeDayRule selective?

    By being selective, we create an exceptional pool of hand-picked singles, rather than a shopping cart of complete strangers. Restricting membership also removes the noise and inactive profiles found on traditional online dating sites.
  • What does wait-listed mean?

    If you are placed on the wait-list, we believe you possess many qualities that we desire in Three Day Rule members. We place you on the wait-list to ensure you have a positive experience. We will add you to the website when we have the best matches for you.
  • Once I become a member, how does it work?

    It's simple. Members receive a dossier of matches based on type. All members can send messages and compliments to one another. Members can also meet one another at social outings.
  • Do you offer personal matchmaking?

    Yes we do. Read more about our matchmakers on our Meet Our Matchmakers page.

    If you are interested in one-on-one matchmaking, contact us at matchmaker@threedayrule.com
  • Do you serve the LGBT community?

    Not yet, but hopefully soon! We will launch that division as soon as we have enough LGBT members in our curated pool. Fill out a profile and we will keep you posted on our launch date.
  • What if I have additional questions?

    For additional questions, email us at support@ThreeDayRule. support@threedayrule.com.