Advice for the Guys from the Ladies
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She gives you her number, now what?
Listen up, gentlemen. If we meet you out and you're our type, we will give you our real number. Trust us when we say we don't freely dole out our digits to any Tom, Dick, or Harry. If we give you our digits, we want you to contact us...but, not too much in the first 24 hours.
An open letter to men: Games are lame
We want to share a secret with men: women don't like games. While you may think we enjoy reading your mind or the hidden meaning behind your texts, we don't. And, while we are problem-solvers by nature, we don't enjoy deciphering your behavior, comments, status updates, etc. with our girlfriends at dinner. Believe it or not, much like you, we like straight-forward communication.
Friend Zone
I recently experienced the best weekend of my life. The last four days have been a blur with lectures, events, dinners and other various intellectually and socially stimulating activities. In the midst of it all, a good friend made the decision to “spill the beans” that he is attracted to me over text. I responded that I appreciate his continued encouragement and support.
But I’m Such a Nice Guy!
I remember reading an article in Esquire a while back. The author began saying that 2007 is the year of the “nice guy”. This statement hit close to home for me. Over the years, the art of seduction has evolved into a complicated, subversive strategy. The vast majority of women will attest that we are done playing games, presenting the perfect opportunity for the nice guy to enter the scene.
Give us a compliment already!
The old adage is not true. Flattery will get you everywhere. Well, okay, maybe not everywhere or everything, but if I like you, it will get you far enough with me.