How it works

  1. Fill out a private profile
    Answers are for our matchmakers only—there are no online profiles.
  2. Meet your personal matchmaker
    We'll assign you a personal matchmaker that will be in touch within 48 hours.
  3. Get matched
    Once we've met you in person, if we think you're a fit with our premium members, we'll match you for free.

Get started with a free membership!

Should I Join for Free or Become a Client?

You have two options: free and paid. In either option, the first step is to fill out our quick private profile. This will take less than five minutes, but you can add more depth later on. Signing up puts you in our free database and lets our matchmakers search for you as a potential match for their clients. You must meet with a matchmaker in-person to be eligible to be matched. And remember, as a free member, our matchmakers aren’t actively searching for you. They’ll only reach out if they have a client who is a potential match.

If you would like to explore the option of becoming a TDR paid client, sign up and set up time with your matchmaker. She’ll sit down with you over coffee, get to know about you and your match preferences, and show you first-hand how we carefully vet your matches. The initial meeting is free and no obligation - we’re never sales-y or pushy, because we want all of our clients to approach the process with an open mind and heart.

Why is TDR different?

When Talia, our CEO, founded Three Day Rule, her mission was to create a much more enjoyable, stress-free dating experience for both men and women. We train every matchmaker to ensure they are positive, empowering, and personalized in their approach to finding you a committed relationship. Here’s how we do it:

  • We are real people who meet you and all of your matches in person
  • We find potential dates and ask them the hard questions, face-to-face
  • We only introduce you to the most compatible matches, saving you from bad first dates
  • You go on dates and give us feedback, so we get even better over time
What types of singles do you work with?

We work with quality singles of all ages, from 25-65. Should you decide to work with one of our Matchmakers, they will go to great lengths to ensure that they find amazing matches that are within the specific age range you are looking for.

I have additional questions. Who can I talk to?

For answers to any other questions, please email