How it works

  1. Fill out a private profile
    Answers are for our matchmakers only—there are no online profiles.
  2. Meet your personal matchmaker
    We'll assign you a personal matchmaker that will be in touch within 48 hours.
  3. Get matched
    Once we've met you in person, if we think you're a fit with our premium members, we'll match you for free.

Get started with a free membership!

Should I Join for Free or Become a Client?

You have two options: free and paid. In either option, the first step is to fill out our quick private profile. This will take less than five minutes, but you can add more depth later on. Signing up puts you in our free database and lets our matchmakers search for you as a potential match for their clients. You must meet with a matchmaker in-person to be eligible to be matched. And remember, as a free member, our matchmakers aren’t actively searching for you. They’ll only reach out if they have a client who is a potential match.

If you would like to explore the option of becoming a TDR paid client, sign up and set up time with your matchmaker. She’ll sit down with you over coffee, get to know about you and your match preferences, and show you first-hand how we carefully vet your matches. The initial meeting is free and no obligation - we’re never sales-y or pushy, because we want all of our clients to approach the process with an open mind and heart.

Why is TDR different?

When Talia, our CEO, founded Three Day Rule, her mission was to create a much more enjoyable, stress-free dating experience for both men and women. We train every matchmaker to ensure they are positive, empowering, and personalized in their approach to finding you a committed relationship. Here’s how we do it:

  • We are real people who meet you and all of your matches in person.
  • We find potential dates and ask them the hard questions, face-to-face.
  • We only introduce you to the most compatible matches, saving you from bad first dates.
  • You go on dates and give us feedback, so we get even better over time.
What types of singles do you work with?

We work with quality singles of all ages, but most of our clients are between the ages of 25-70. Should you decide to work with one of our Matchmakers, they will go to great lengths to ensure that they find amazing matches that are within the specific age range you are looking for.

How does Three Day Rule find matches?

We find matches in a multitude of ways. First and foremost, we use our own curated database. Over the years, we have built an incredible network of amazing singles. We not only have some of the highest quality singles in our cities, we also have access to the largest network of singles of any matchmaking company out there.

Second, we use the world at large. By that, we mean that we see the world as our oyster and are not afraid to approach anyone that could be a good match. We host our own events, where we will recruit promising matches for our clients. Our Matchmakers also regularly attend and scour the hottest events in their city, and have even been known to chase people down on the street for a client. Our team is fearless and we'll do everything from introduce ourselves to singles in line at Whole Foods or attend a morning yoga class to meet a health-conscious match for a client who values physical fitness.

Finally, we use our unique partnerships with some of the hottest online dating sites and apps. We are the only company that has partnerships with these dating sites, which gives us the exclusive ability to use their platforms when a client is looking for something specific. Regardless of how we originally meet a match, we always vet them specifically for you.

Does Three Day Rule offer LGBTQ+ Matchmaking?

Yes! We are growing our pool of LGBTQ+ singles in all ten of our cities and have Matchmakers actively working with clients in Los Angeles, San Francisco, and Chicago. Tell your friends to sign up now - we can't wait to match you!

What cities are you located in?

We are currently located in Los Angeles, Orange County, San Francisco, Silicon Valley, Chicago, New York, Boston, Washington DC, Philadelphia, and Seattle. If you are not currently in any of these metropolitan areas, you can still sign up for our database and we will reach out to you as soon as we launch in your city!

When will you come to my city?

We launch new cities each year, depending on the demand. If you are interested in working with a TDR matchmaker, but we are not yet in your city, please sign up for our database and we will reach out to you as soon as we launch in your city!

What are the costs for your services?

We have a number of different packages for both matchmaking and dating strategy sessions. Prices vary depending on the package you choose, so please reach out to your matchmaker to set up time to discuss options in person.

We’re never sales-y or pushy, as we want all of our clients to approach the process with an open heart and open mind, so you can be sure your meeting with a matchmaker will be fun, insightful, and confidential.

I have additional questions. Who can I talk to?

For answers to any other questions, please email