Lara Dykstra


A passionate and dedicated Matchmaker, Lara lives a purposeful life with empathy, confidence, and a love for helping others figure out the qualities of what they’re looking for in a partner. She is an incredible partner to her clients in their search.

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A Matchmaking Expert

With past experience as a professional athlete, Lara has connected with a variety of people, mastered communication skills and leadership abilities. In Matchmaking she is a true teammate, guiding clients through the dating process and helping them accomplish their goals while listening to feedback to build on the process together.

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Your Personal Wingwoman

Lara has a natural eye for making great connections. Thoughtful and motivated , she always has her client's best interests top of mind.

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Hear From Our Members & Matches

The women I met were lovely, successful, and refined! My last match Christine is beyond a dream come true, because I never would have dared to dream of a woman like her... And I never would have met her if it wasn’t for Three Day Rule!

Chris, 54

Thanks Three Day Rule, I’ve met a man who has swept me off my feet. She listened to what I was looking for in a man when I didn't know Chris even existed. I am so grateful Three Day Rule came into my life - they truly know what they are doing!

Christine, 31

I am beyond impressed with the professionalism and quality of Three Day Rule. Not only did the man I meet through Three Day Rule impress me with the quality of the personnel that Three Day Rule interacts with, but Three Day Rule helped me to find my soulmate.

Daia, 33
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