Mary Herigstad-Franz

New Member Strategist

As a New Member Strategist, Mary is the ultimate wing woman. She has no problem walking up to anyone, anywhere, and making new friends.

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Nationwide Dating Expert

Her warm and genuine nature makes it easy to open up to her. It’s no surprise that she is the go-to expert for her friends. She knows what questions to ask to help weed through the superficial to get to core wants and needs.

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Your Personal Wingwoman

You are in great hands with Mary! She will get to know you and what you are looking for in a match and connect you with the matchmaker that is the best fit for your needs.

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Our Matchmakers help you figure out what you are really looking for and then match you with people who fit those important qualities.

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