Three Day Rule is a tech-enabled personalized matchmaking company headquartered in Los Angeles. We have matchmakers in Los Angeles, San Francisco Bay Area, New York City, Chicago, Boston, and Washington, D.C. We are the exclusive provider of white glove, personalized matchmaking services to Match and are backed by IAC.
Our team of world-class matchmakers and dating experts combine technology with intuition to vet potential matches for our clients. We help singles outsource their love lives and make dating easier for them. Our matchmakers are known for their compassion, trustworthiness, and genuine desire to help their clients find meaningful, committed relationships. Most of our matchmakers have had successful corporate careers before transitioning to matchmaking and come from Fortune 500 companies like Google, Microsoft, and NBCUniversal. They were educated at schools like Harvard Business School, UCLA, Brown, and NYU.
Our world-class matchmakers provide clients with personalized attention, hand-selected matches, and valuable date coaching. TDR's matchmakers combine proven matchmaking techniques with cutting-edge, facial recognition technology to ensure we introduce you to your ideal match.
We have matchmakers in Los Angeles, San Francisco, New York, Chicago, Boston, and Washington, D.C.
With a degree in Sociology/Anthropology, Clancy has always had a penchant for understanding people. She is always ready with great dating advice, whether it be 'what to wear on a first date,' or 'the perfect ice-breaker in a crowded bar.' Born in Los Angeles and raised partially in Dallas, Clancy has a strong understanding of diverse types of people, as evidenced by her warm, social nature. She enjoys hiking with her dog, trying new restaurants, and has traveled to every continent except Antarctica (it’s next on her list!).
As an art history major at Princeton University, Marisa sees relationships through an creative, artistic lens. Motivated by a yearning to utilize her skills as a natural connector, Marisa worked in recruiting for various renowned corporations in Los Angeles. In her spare time, Marisa pursues her passion for fine art through painting, crafting, and jewelry-making. She is an avid reader and movie fan and serves as a board member of the Princeton Club of California. Marisa's ease in engaging with all types of people makes her an exceptional matchmaker.
After finishing her Masters in International Business, Natalie traveled the world, spending time in Panama, and then Argentina, where she worked at the US Embassy. After returning home, she held a position in Strategic Partnerships at a well-known tech firm. Her realistic, direct approach and incredible work ethic has made her one of Los Angeles’ most sought after matchmakers. When she isn't matchmaking, you can find Natalie surfing, crafting a new salsa recipe, or volunteering at a local nonprofit.
Brianna began her career as a recruiter for technology executives in Silicon Valley, demonstrating her ability to connect people and build a strong network. Voted “Friendliest Personality” in high school, Brianna is warm-hearted and sincere, and maintains unparalleled dedication to her craft. In her free time, she loves music trivia and meditation, and loves traveling, having visited 40 of 50 states. She truly listens to her clients, and has an amazing ability to help them develop an understanding of what exactly they are looking for in a partner.
The first American born in her Russian family, Adelle is incredibly extroverted and fun to be around. Before TDR, she had a successful career in Entertainment PR and Brand Marketing with companies including NBC and DIRECTV. However, it wasn’t until she found the love of her life through TDR that she knew she had to help others find the same happiness. When she’s not matchmaking, this real-life TDR success story can be found dancing (ballet and hip hop) or diving into sci-fi and comic books. Adelle has even performed on Broadway!
Laura has always had a flair for human connection. An “off the charts extrovert” she harnessed this energy towards relationships and academics, eventually landing at Claremont Graduate University where she earned a master’s degree and is currently pursuing her Ph.D. in positive psychology. Laura’s research focuses on how adults create life narratives embedded with positive emotions, social impact, and meaningful relationships. She combines her expertise in psychology with her natural ability to strike up conversation and help others discover what it is that they really want. Excited at the opportunity to apply her knowledge, Laura will thoughtfully use her research skills and intuition to find the absolute best match possible.
After graduating from the University of San Diego, Lindsay obtained her Master’s in Clinical Psychology, making her an ideal matchmaker and dating coach. She is zealous in her desire to learn about relationships empower others to be their best selves, and is currently writing her dissertation on the Millennial Generation and the current climate of relationships and dating. Lindsay enjoys helping others discover love connections by merging her education with her inherent intuition and ability to connect people.
With roots in England, Australia and Malaysia, Karen has always been at ease connecting with people of various backgrounds and cultures. After graduating from Haverford College and later UCLA School of Law, Karen spent several years as counsel for start-ups, all while rapidly expanding her professional and personal network in Los Angeles. She is hard-working and dedicated, and has a reputation for stopping at nothing to find her clients their perfect match. Karen has successfully matched many of her clients, as she is incredibly detail-oriented, and makes it a point to form meaningful relationships with each and every one of them.
After graduating from Penn State University, Erika began her career in publishing, working for Rolling Stone, Us Weekly and Men’s Journal. Erika left corporate America behind to feed her passion of connecting people. When not matchmaking, Erika loves volunteering, yoga, and exploring her city. She also has a certified therapy french bulldog, who helps people all around New York. Erika’s clients have said that her intuition, warm nature and transparent way of working enables them great success and personal growth.
Originally from Alaska, Nora naturally gravitates toward the outdoors - she loves snowboarding, fishing, and SCUBA diving. After graduating from The Ohio State University, Nora moved to New York to pursue a career in IT staffing. After successfully managing key accounts including JPMorgan Chase, Credit Suisse, and Bank of America, Nora realized her true passion was in managing relationships between her friends and colleagues. Nora is an avid reader (both fiction and nonfiction), live music aficionado, and has sailed all around the world - from Singapore to South Africa. Nora is incredibly upbeat, and her positive attitude can cheer any gloomy day.
Originally from Southern California, Elizabeth has always had an interest in meeting people and connecting friends. An avid traveller from an early age, Elizabeth started her undergraduate degree in International Relations at the American University of Rome (Rome, Italy), and finished her degree with Richmond, the American International University in London (London, UK). After finishing school, Elizabeth spent time in New Delhi, India, Washington D.C., and Laguna Beach. Now a New Yorker, Elizabeth worked in the financial sector before deciding to pursue her career in full-time matchmaking with Three Day Rule. When she’s not chasing down potential matches, Elizabeth can be found wandering around Central Park, drinking a glass of white wine at her local bar on the Upper West Side, or reading the news over an extra large cappuccino.
After graduating from UC Berkeley with a degree in Psychology, Louisa worked in retail management for various luxury retail companies before joining TDR. Her vast network, infectious personality, and genuine desire to help others make Louisa a natural matchmaker. A past winner of Miss Asian America and Miss San Francisco Chinatown, Louisa enjoys volunteering in the Bay Area and mentoring young women.
Holly has always had a warm, intuitive approach to making lasting connections. Since graduating from Western Washington University, she knew she was a natural matchmaker, but her first step towards a career at TDR was actually matching professional nannies with high profile families all over the US and abroad. Holly has lived in Seattle, San Francisco and now New York City, where she brings to TDR her passion for listening and learning about people to make to bring them success in their relationships and dating lives.
Caitlin began her career in fashion at FIDM in Los Angeles, creating womenswear for a private label collection. Later, after graduating from The Institute of Integrative Nutrition in NYC, she built a thriving health coaching business, teaching people how to live, look and love from a holistic health perspective. She is passionate about ayurveda, meditation, and teaching people what those things are, as well as baking and swimming. Caitlin is a firm believer that everyone deserves love and happiness, and she is grateful that her path ultimately lead her to TDR where she can impact her clients every day.
With years of successful New York dating experience under her belt, Robyn is excited to share her insights with her clients to help them find love. After graduating from the College of Charleston, Robyn began a career in sales and marketing for shoplet.com and Lifebroker. Among her friends, Robyn has always been known as the "connector,” and in her free time she enjoys pilates, spending time at the beach, and cooking. Over the years, Robyn's friends have credited her with helping them find roommates, job opportunities, and of course, romantic matches.
After graduating with her B.S.B.A. in marketing from Duquesne University in Pittsburgh, Devin was drawn to the energy and excitement of Washington, DC. A natural chameleon, Devin has built a strong network within the creative, political and tech scenes throughout the city. With a background in fashion and PR, it became clear that Devin's natural abilities and passions were communicating and bringing people together. She thrives on making connections across different circles in DC and creating positive relationships.
A North Carolina native, Callie is outgoing and upbeat, and has always had a passion for meeting new people. During college at UNC, she lived in Bejiing, and is always pushing herself to try new things (like bungee jumping!). Callie previously worked at a technology start-up, and her robust network of tech professionals and political influencers in DC make her the perfect Matchmaker for the nation’s capital. When she’s not helping people find love, Callie spends her time traveling to the National Parks, attending live music events, and volunteering at her local soup kitchen.
After meeting the love of her life in DC, Jaime decided she wanted to help other singles in the city meet their match. Jaime completed her MA in Communications from University of Akron, and later moved to DC, working in the nonprofit sector. Eager to combine her penchant for helping others and her ability to relate to people from all walks of life, Jaime turned to matchmaking as a full-time career. Her honest, but sincere approach to matchmaking makes her both a great matchmaker, as well as a trusted confidant.
Born and raised in Chicago, Casey is a true Midwesterner at heart. She prides herself on her extensive network of Chicago singles and her ability to connect like minded people. Casey is a true extrovert, and understands a complexity of interests and people. For instance, she enjoys baking just as much as a good sports game or a boxing session, and has a love of vintage muscle cars. While Casey's determination and go-getter mentality are two of her best attributes, her ability to make people feel comfortable and at ease make her one of TDR's most sought-after matchmakers.
Heather has always been interested in human interaction. After receiving her BFA from Minnesota State University, Heather built one of the most successful wedding venues in Minneapolis. Her experience working with over 500 successful couples gave her incredible talent for spotting chemistry between two people. After finding her own match, Heather moved to Chicago where her passion for the city takes her to all the amazing neighborhoods and events around town. She loves traveling the world, with recents adventures to Macau, Iceland, and Bangladesh, and is also an accomplished visual artist.
One of the company’s first matchmakers, Carla is passionate about making the dating process easier for busy professionals in high-powered Silicon Valley. After graduating from UC Boulder, she worked for seven years at Google before running her own online advertising agency. Although she has lived and traveled all around the world, Carla is a true SF Bay Area native, and she leverages her wide social network to benefit her clients. With a unique blend of intuition and an analytical approach, Carla has seen incredible success as a matchmaker. To her, there is no work more fun and satisfying.
A Newport Beach native, Morgan has experienced all the best that California can offer and more. After graduating from the University of San Diego, she felt the pulled to the city by the Bay. When she’s not effortlessly finding you the perfect match, you can find her having an adventure every moment. A lover of both the city and the outdoors, Morgan is just as comfortable dancing among throngs of revelers at music festivals, or sipping a quiet glass of wine in San Francisco, her trusty DSLR ever present at her side.
Allison attended the College of Charleston, where she developed an interest in human interaction in particular environments and its implication on society as whole. After working in community relations for an NFL team, she began facilitating weddings at one of the most premiere wedding venues in the country. After getting to know so many couples who had achieved happiness in their relationships, she developed a unique ability to determine what makes a good match. Allison uses this background to help her clients find incredible matches within the community of singles in the Bay Area.
Hannah, a long time Boston resident, graduated from Boston College with a degree in Human Development and Organizational Studies. It was there that she developed a strong interest in understanding and analyzing human behavior and what makes people tick. She originally narrowed her focus on fashion at a shopper insights firm where she analyzed consumer habits. It wasn't long before Hannah realized she had a strong intuition for recognizing what makes relationships lasting and sucessful. Hannah is excited to combine her analytical mindset and passion for helping others to connect her clients with their ideal match.
Jody, a lifelong Boston resident, knows the city inside and out. Upon graduating from UMass Amherst, Jody returned home to Boston to begin a successful recruiting career. During her ten years as a corporate recruiter, Jody refined her people skills and truly identified what makes others tick. In her personal life, Jody always considered herself a romantic, and joined TDR for the opportunity to combine her professional skills with her personal passion for helping others find "the one". Jody's clients trust that Jody's kind heart, energy, honesty, and passion will help to guide them towards their soul mate.
Among her friends, Kate has always been known as the "dating expert." While working at advertising agencies, Publicis and JWT, her co-workers flocked to her for love advice. She also found herself playing matchmaker for her colleagues at Facebook while she was working there as a marketer. All of these experiences helped Kate realize that matchmaking is her true calling. With a B.A. from Brown University and an MBA from UCLA Anderson, Kate's professional expertise in entrepreneurship and technology make her the ideal fit for Three Day Rule.
Allie's own personal success story as a client with Three Day Rule inspired her to quit her lucrative career as a pharmaceutical sales executive to join the TDR team. While working with Talia as her matchmaker, Allie was introduced to her now-husband, Rick, who she happily married in 2012. Today, Allie works an incredibly fulfilling job as a matchmaker and is TDR’s Director of Premium Services. A graduate of Harvard Business School, Allie combines her rigorous work ethic with her warm personality to find clients their ideal match.
Talia is the CEO and founder of Three Day Rule, and has been featured on Good Morning America, Fortune, USA Today, Los Angeles Times, and The Huffington Post. In 2012, while working as a TV producer at E! True Hollywood Story, Talia quickly became the office dating expert, setting up many co-workers with matches and handing out insightful dating advice from her cubicle. Recognizing her hidden talent,, Talia began hosting popular singles events and offering personalized matchmaking services, and Three Day Rule was born. After receiving an investment from Match/IAC in 2014, Talia has also secured partnerships with OkCupid, JDate, Christian Mingle and The League. Leveraging her extensive network of successful, attractive singles, Talia has found matches for hundreds of clients, including top executives, entrepreneurs, and celebrities. She has made it her mission to help clients on their quest to find true love, and is thrilled that her work allows her to make a difference in people's lives. Talia lives in Los Angeles with her husband and two children.
When Talia, our CEO, founded Three Day Rule, her mission was to create a much more enjoyable, stress-free dating experience for both men and women. Here’s how we do it:
It’s dating, made simple.
We train every matchmaker in our Los Angeles headquarters to assure that our matchmakers are positive, empowering, and personalized in their approach to finding you a committed relationship.
You have two options: free and paid. In either option, the first step is to take our short quiz. This will take you less than five minutes. (You can add more depth as you go.) Completing the quiz puts you in our free database and lets our matchmakers search for you as a potential match for their clients. It also assigns you a personal matchmaker.
If you would like to explore the option of becoming a TDR paid client, you can request for your personal matchmaker to contact you, or you can go straight to scheduling an informal coffee meeting. Your matchmaker will meet with you to learn about your preferences and show you first-hand how we vet your matches. This initial meeting is free and no obligation.
Our packages including a certain number of vetted matches, personalized attention, and surprise perks from our partners.
Our most popular package is our 6-month personalized matchmaking package that includes:
Our 3-month personalized matchmaking package includes:
We also offer a multi-city package tailored to those who believe their best match could be anywhere and are willing to make the effort to find out. We accept clients who live outside our current service areas who are willing to travel for vetted matches.
Just call us TDR. TDR believes that antiquated notions like the “three day rule” don’t reflect the desires and realities of today’s singles. Dating should not be dictated by games or myths about when you should make the first move. Instead, Three Day Rule aspires to create a fun and delightful dating experience for our members.
Not yet, but hopefully soon! Please take our quiz and we will keep you posted on our launch date in your city.
Absolutely. Our pool tends to range in age from 25-65, however we are always on the lookout for quality singles of any age. Should you decide to work with one of our Matchmakers, they will go to great lengths to ensure that they find amazing matches that are within the specific age range you are looking for.
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Talia is the CEO and founder of Three Day Rule. After studying communication at Tulane University, Talia worked as a TV producer at E! True Hollywood Story, where she quickly became the office dating expert, setting up many co-workers with matches and handing out insightful dating advice from her cubicle. Recognizing her hidden talent for matchmaking, Talia quit her full-time job and began hosting popular singles events and offering personalized matchmaking services. Three Day Rule was officially created in 2013, allowing Talia to turn her lifelong hobby of matchmaking into a thriving business. After receiving an investment from Match/IAC in 2014, Talia has secured partnerships with Match, OkCupid, JDate, Christian Mingle and The League. Talia has appeared on Good Morning America, and has been featured in Fortune, USA Today, Los Angeles Times, The Huffington Post and more. Leveraging her extensive network of successful, dynamic singles, Talia has found matches for hundreds of clients, including top executives, entrepreneurs, celebrities, and everyday young professionals. She has made it her mission to help clients on their quest to find true love, and is thrilled that her work allows her to make a difference in people's lives. Talia lives in Los Angeles with her husband and two children.
Andy is the CTO and technical co-founder of Three Day Rule. Before joining with Talia to build TDR's online presence, Andy was the founder and CEO of Labcoat LLC. a digital agency specializing in developing web applications for startup and media companies, including Technicolor, Digital Domain, and Fox. Andy began his technical career at a boutique web development agency called Citrusbyte where he helped conceptualize, build, and launch, venture-funded startups. His extensive experience building online businesses from the ground up has given him a unique insight into the startup life-cycle, allowing him to provide leadership in product strategy, product marketing, and technical strategy. Andy is a graduate of the University of Arizona and holds a Masters of Arts in Screenwriting.
A graduate of Harvard Business School and UC Berkeley, Tina previously worked as a brand marketer for leading Fortune 500 consumer products companies, including The Clorox Company and Del Monte Foods. As a brand marketer, Tina managed marketing initiatives across TV advertising, digital, and consumer promotions, launched five new products, and led the day-to-day business management of multi-million dollar businesses. She joined TDR as its first marketing hire and developed the playbook for the company's expansion, leading TDR's successful launches into Boston and Washington DC. She is thrilled to be working at TDR, and feels truly fulfilled helping others find love.
Kelli Stember is Three Day Rule's Director of Events. An LA native and Pepperdine University graduate, Kelli spent five years working for 20th Century Fox TV, where she was immersed in the high-caliber, red carpet events that define the entertainment industry. With a growing desire to bring people together through her own events, she then launched two of her own companies; Kelli Jane Events, a boutique event planning company with a focus on weddings, and In Pursuit Networking, an activity-based social networking club, primarily for singles. Kelli then managed the Los Angeles Rewards program for Thrillist Media Group, sourcing food, beverage, and lifestyle packages for exclusive events. Kelli is excited to continue her passion of bringing people together at TDR, and thrives on the many Three Day Rule success stories that come out of these events.
With years of successful New York City dating experience under her belt, Robyn is excited to share her insights with her clients to help them find love. After graduating from the College of Charleston, Robyn moved to New York and began a career in sales and marketing for shoplet.com and Lifebroker. Among her friends, Robyn has always been known as the "connector." Over the years, Robyn's friends have credited her with helping them find roommates, job opportunities, and of course, romantic matches. As a matchmaker at Three Day Rule, Robyn is excited to combine her business experience with her ability to bring people together and make love connections.
Katie is Three Day Rule's Membership Coordinator. A graduate of Oregon State University with a degree in Speech Communications, Katie hit the ground running when she moved to Los Angeles and began a career at Hulu. Not only has Katie's depth of experience at Hulu enabled her to provide valuable technical support to the TDR matchmaking team, but her background in PR, recruiting, and customer service and support make her a valuable asset to the team. With a sincere interest in others and true joie de vivre, Katie is a 'go to' professional for clients and matchmakers alike.