About Three Day Rule

Three Day Rule is a tech-enabled personalized matchmaking company headquartered in Los Angeles. We have matchmakers in Los Angeles, San Francisco Bay Area, New York City, Chicago, Boston, and Washington, D.C. We are the exclusive provider of white glove, personalized matchmaking services to Match and are backed by IAC.

Our team of world-class matchmakers and dating experts combine technology with intuition to vet potential matches for our clients. We help singles outsource their love lives and make dating easier for them. Our matchmakers are known for their compassion, trustworthiness, and genuine desire to help their clients find meaningful, committed relationships. Most of our matchmakers have had successful corporate careers before transitioning to matchmaking and come from Fortune 500 companies like Google, Microsoft, and NBCUniversal. They were educated at schools like Harvard Business School, UCLA, Brown, and NYU.

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Meet the Matchmakers

Our world-class matchmakers provide clients with personalized attention, hand-selected matches, and valuable date coaching. TDR's matchmakers combine proven matchmaking techniques with cutting-edge, facial recognition technology to ensure we introduce you to your ideal match.

We have matchmakers in Los Angeles, San Francisco, New York, Chicago, Boston, and Washington, D.C.

Cayla Buetter

New York

Cayla has been known to have a rolodex-like memory for the passions of every person she’s met. She graduated from the University of Connecticut with a B.F.A. in Acting, where she earned a reputation for connecting her friends in artistic collaborations and even set-up her first romantic match that led to marriage. She then moved to Western Massachusetts, where she worked and lived at an estate rented as a “destination wedding venue." She assisted the soon-to-be newlyweds and their families in creating unforgettable ceremonies, inspired by each unique love story. Since moving to New York, she has had 5 years of successful corporate experience working across various industries from law to entertainment to private equity. After receiving her yoga teacher certification, she felt a strong pull to make relationships and love her life's focus. Cayla’s sharp intuition and sincerity make her a caring member of the team. She loves helping people to find their personal, passionate match.

Karen Law

Los Angeles

With roots in England, Australia and Malaysia, Karen has always been at ease connecting with people of various backgrounds and cultures. After graduating with a degree in psychology from Haverford College, Karen decided to combine her logical mind and people skills to obtain a law degree at UCLA School of Law. She then spent several years counseling start ups, all while rapidly expanding her professional and personal network in Los Angeles. Karen is known by her friends as a connector who has a penchant for putting people together. Her bright and intuitive nature combined with her passion for helping people find happiness through love makes her one of TDR's most successful matchmakers.

Erika Gershowitz

Senior Matchmaker, New York

After graduating with a degree in Public Relations from Penn State University, Erika moved to NYC to pursue a career in publishing and entertainment. As a publicist for US Weekly, Rolling Stone, and Men’s Journal magazines, Erika’s job was to connect outlets with information and content. However, her true passion was being a connector among her friends and those in her network. As a TDR matchmaker, she leverages her professional background and warm nature to match quality singles together.

Adelle Gomelsky

Los Angeles

As the first American born in her Russian family, Adelle has always had an interest in meeting new people. Before TDR, she had a successful career in Entertainment PR and Brand Marketing with companies including NBC, FOX, and DIRECTV. However, it wasn’t until she found the love of her life through TDR that she knew she had to help others find the happiness that she had found. Adelle is one of Three Day Rule’s real-life success stories, and is dedicated to helping others also find their ideal match.

Kira Elkind

New York

After graduating from George Washington University with a degree in Business Administration, Kira moved to New York City to pursue a career in advertising sales. While establishing herself in the industry, Kira missed the personal connections her career was lacking. Applying her special ability to network, meet people, and make connections, Kira became a recruiting coordinator for Goldman Sachs. In her personal life, Kira was a matchmaker for her friends and family, and had introduced many successful relationships before recognizing that matchmaking was her true passion. Kira not only brings matchmaking experience, but a vast network to TDR in New York.

Kate Edwards

Los Angeles

Among her friends, Kate has always been known as the "dating expert." While working at advertising agencies, Publicis and JWT, her co-workers flocked to her for love advice. She also found herself playing matchmaker for her colleagues at Facebook while she was working there as a marketer. All of these experiences helped Kate realize that matchmaking is her true calling. With a B.A. from Brown University and an MBA from UCLA Anderson, Kate's professional expertise in entrepreneurship and technology make her the ideal fit for Three Day Rule.

Louisa Liu

San Francisco Bay Area

After graduating from UC Berkeley with a degree in Psychology, Louisa worked in retail management for various luxury retail companies before joining TDR. Her vast network, infectious personality, and genuine desire to help others make Louisa a natural matchmaker. A past winner of Miss Asian America and Miss San Francisco Chinatown, Louisa enjoys volunteering in the Bay Area and mentoring young women.

Tess Allen

Los Angeles

Throughout her life, Tess has always possessed the inherent ability to connect people. She has a diverse background, having traveled all over the world to experience people of different cultures, religions and walks of life. After graduating from Pepperdine University with a minor in Psychology, Tess had a successful career in marketing and media strategy. Tess's desire for a position where she could utilize her education, intuition and worldly experience led her to Three Day Rule. She is truly passionate about getting to know people and using her knowledge and experience to find them the love that they are looking for.

Trish Encina

Boston

During her 10 years in corporate careers spanning from pharmaceuticals to wealth management, Trish spent most of her "free time" networking and playing Love Doctor to her friends and co-workers. Known as a straight shooter, her transparency when dealing with people always helped her gain the trust of her peers. Trish's insatiable desire to help people find happiness and love, always made creating relationships effortless. After finding true love herself and getting married, she realized there's a lot more to life than the corporate world had to offer. She followed her heart and took the plunge in leaving her executive position at an investment firm to begin her dream career. With already a handful of personal success stories under her belt, Trish began a career a TDR, exhilarated to help others find true love.

Lindsay O'Shea

Los Angeles

After Graduating from the University of San Diego and studying abroad in Barcelona, Lindsay obtained her masters in Clinical Psychology. It was Lindsay’s passion for understanding people and relationships in conjunction with her ability to empower others to be their best self that led her to pursue a career in matchmaking. She is zealous in her desire to learn about relationships and is currently writing a dissertation on the Millennial Generation and the current climate of relationships and dating. Lindsay enjoys helping others discover love connections by merging her education with her inherent intuition and ability to connect people.

Nora DeKeyser

New York

After graduating with a dual-degree in Psychology and Strategic Communication from The Ohio State University, Nora moved to New York City to pursue a career in Information Technology staffing and Account Management. After successfully managing relationships with her key accounts including JP Morgan Chase, Credit Suisse, and Bank of America, Nora realized her true passion was in managing relationships between her friends and colleagues. Her background in Clinical Psychology and Communications combined with her extensive travels through Europe, Australia, and Africa, taught Nora that relationships can truly happen anywhere. Nora’s honest and sincere Matchmaking abilities have always been a strength in her personal life and prove to be a strength for both her clients and Three Day Rule today.

Morgan Jones

Los Angeles

After graduating from the University of San Diego, Morgan worked for a prestigious commercial real estate brokerage firm. She learned that she has a unique ability to bring people together, connect with people from different backgrounds and walks of life and spread her positivity and zest to others. Although Morgan has traveled the globe, she has strong roots and an extensive network in Los Angeles. It was her passion for connecting others and penchant for helping those around her navigate their relationships that led her to her dream job at Three Day Rule.

Mary Stuart Deibel

Los Angeles

As the daughter of a flight attendant, Mary Stuart grew up traveling the world, allowing her to easily connect with people from diverse backgrounds and cultures. Given her desire to study personal relationships and dynamics, she received her BA in Interpersonal Organizational Communication from the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill and an A.A.S. in Culinary Arts. She leveraged both degrees to launch a career in event planning before moving to Los Angeles to work in television production. Throughout her career, she has realized that her greatest strength lies in matching and connecting people together from every corner of her life. Mary Stuart's friendly and trustworthy nature instantly puts her matchmaking clients at ease, and allows her to be successful in her on-going quest to help her clients find true love.

Beth Heller

Boston

After graduating from the University of Massachusetts, Amherst with a B.A. in Communication, Beth built a successful career as a film and entertainment publicist. Her background in public relations, combined with her experiences living abroad in Australia, have taught her how to easily establish new connections with others. Beth is dedicated to helping singles in Boston find meaningful, fulfilling relationships.

Anna Leifeste

Chicago

Anna has the ideal mix of natural intuitive skills, combined with the disciplined training of a therapist. Having graduated with a Masters in Psychology from Northwestern University, she has a profound understanding of people and relationships. She is warm, empathic, knows how to ask the important questions and to truly listen to her clients to get to the bottom of what they are looking for and what they need in a partner. Anna combines all of her skills and experience as a therapist to delve into the minds and hearts of her clients to propel them to find true love.

Heather Noman

Chicago

Heather has always been interested in human interaction. After receiving her Bachelor of Fine Arts in Acting from Minnesota State University, Heather began her career by building one of the most successful wedding venues in Minneapolis. Her experience working closely with over 500 successful couples gave her incredible insight and a talent for spotting chemistry between two people. Heather thrives on bringing together friends, colleagues, family and even distinctly different cultures. After finding her own match, Heather made the move to Chicago where her passion for the city takes her to all the amazing neighborhoods and events around town. She loves traveling the world, embracing different customs and new experiences. To her, creating a genuine bond and truly understanding someone is the most meaningful experience. Heather’s fierce passion for people and making connections are what make her an excellent matchmaker.

Christine Gomolka

New York

Christine has always had a penchant for understanding people. As a Woman Studies major at Pace University in New York City, Christine developed an interest in learning about the women's movement and it's implications on dating and relationships. Upon graduation, Christine embarked on a career in marketing/advertising. Throughout her life, Christine has matched many of her friends and colleagues, as she has always been driven by her desire to help people achieve success in relationships. Christine is grateful to have the opportunity to turn her passion for connecting people into a career.

Jaime Bernstein

Washington, D.C.

After meeting the love of her life in DC, Jaime decided she wanted to help other eligible singles in the city meet their match. Jaime completed her MA in Communications from University of Akron. Shortly after, she moved to DC where she started a career in the nonprofit sector. Her experience gave her the opportunity to work with individuals from all over the world. Eager to combine her penchant for helping others and her ability to relate to people from all walks of life, Jaime turned to matchmaking as a full-time career. Her honest, but sincere approach to matchmaking makes her both a great matchmaker, as well as a trusted confidant.

Carla Swiryn

San Francisco Bay Area

One of the company’s first Matchmakers, Carla is passionate about making the dating process easier for busy professionals in high-powered Silicon Valley. After graduating from the University of Colorado at Boulder in Advertising, she became an online marketing expert, working for seven years at Google AdWords before running her own online advertising agency. She then shifted from promoting products and services to promoting people, joining Three Day Rule in 2013 and helping with the local launch. An SF Bay Area native, she leverages her wide social and professional network to benefit her clients. She also has the ability to identify the best in everyone, and uses her strong intuition to make the right match. To her, there is no work more fun and satisfying.

Callie Harris

Washington, D.C.

Callie has always had a passion for meeting new people. During college, she lived in Bejiing, while working for a start-up and studying Mandarin. After graduating from the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill, she accepted an offer to work at a technology start-up as their publicist. Callie’s robust network of tech professionals and political influencers in DC combined with her innate ability to connect people make her the perfect DC Matchmaker.

Allie Alvarez

Los Angeles

Allie's own personal success story as a matchmaking client with Three Day Rule inspired her to quit her successful, lucrative career as a pharmaceutical sales executive to join the TDR team as a matchmaker. While working with Talia as her personal matchmaker, Allie was introduced to her now-husband, Rick, who she happily married in November 2012. After Allie's life-changing experience as a Three Day Rule client, she realized that helping others find love was her new calling. Today, Allie works an incredibly fulfilling job as a matchmaker and is Three Day Rule's Director of Premium Services. A graduate of Harvard Business School, Allie combines her rigorous work ethic with her warm personality to find her clients their ideal match.

Talia Goldstein

Los Angeles

From her humble beginnings organizing blind dates from her cubicle to co-founding popular dating site Three Day Rule in 2013, Talia has matched everyone from top executives to entrepreneurs to models to everyday young professionals who find it difficult to find the time to find love. She's mastered the art of matching by "type" and prides herself in helping her clients find the one. Talia lives in LA with her husband (who is her "type").

Robyn Swider

New York

With years of successful New York City dating experience under her belt, Robyn is excited to share her insights with her clients to help them find love. After graduating from the College of Charleston, Robyn moved to New York and began a career in sales and marketing for shoplet.com and Lifebroker. Among her friends, Robyn has always been known as the "connector." Over the years, Robyn's friends have credited her with helping them find roommates, job opportunities, and of course, romantic matches. As a matchmaker at Three Day Rule, Robyn is excited to combine her business experience with her ability to bring people together and make love connections.

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Testimonials

What our clients are saying about TDR's personal matchmaking

Working with Carla, my Three Day Rule matchmaker, was the best! She spent the time to get a sense for who I was and introduced me to great matches. Her feedback and advice after dates were always spot on. Out of all the matchmakers I worked with, she had the most genuine sense of empathy and professionalism.
Bryan, 33
TDR ended up matching me up with someone who couldn't be more perfect for me. He exceeded, and continues to exceed, every expectation I have for an amazing partner. Our first date was the best date that I had ever been on, and 6 months later we were engaged. And, exactly 53 weeks after our first date, we got married. Thank you TDR!
Taryn, 36
Talia has a natural talent for knowing how two people connect. She takes setting people up very seriously and made the effort to get to know so much about me – my likes, dislikes and preferences (both physical and personality). Her suggested matches for me were right on! Thank you for helping me get closer to being in the relationship of my dreams!
Aaron, 36
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Chris & Roni. Married, August 2014
Three Day Rule singlehandedly changed my life for the better! I used to be fixed up constantly, but with all the wrong men. Then, thanks to the spot-on instincts of Talia, TDR's founder and matchmaker extraordinaire, I met the man of my dreams and finally went on my LAST first date! We've been married now for over a year, and not a day passes where I don't think about how grateful I am for Talia and TDR. I've never been happier, and still, to this day, can't believe how lucky I was to meet such an incredible man. I now encourage everyone I know who's single and hoping to meet someone special to look into TDR matchmaking ... you have nothing to lose and everything to gain!
Allie, 39
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Allie & Rick. Married, November 2012
For a long time, I was experiencing dating disaster after dating disaster. I tried everything, but usually my first dates ended with a handshake and my deleting their phone number. When I met Allie, one of the expert matchmakers at Three Day Rule, I could tell right away that TDR was different. I appreciated their unique matchmaking model and special one-on-one attention. And low and behold, my first date through Allie and Three Day Rule ended up being my last first date.  My boyfriend and I just celebrated our 1-year anniversary! I am so grateful to Three Day Rule for bringing such an amazing man into my life.
Kit, 28
Three Day Rule's events are great. Rather than being formal, matchmaking functions, they are more laid back and there is no pressure to walk out with a phone number or talk to anyone you don't want to. You can literally go to an event with the sole purpose of having fun with your friends and there is a good chance you will just end up in a conversation with a like-minded member of the opposite sex. That's what happened to me. I met an interesting girl at a TDR event and we are now engaged!
Dan, 35
It was almost a year ago that I came to the girls of Three Day Rule with a broken heart. They listened to me and figured out that I was dating the wrong guy types for my personality.  They set me up with the most wonderful man I've ever met. He's my soul mate and best friend — and everything else I didn't even know I was looking for.  I am so grateful that TDR encouraged me to step outside of my comfort zone and throw caution to the wind.  Thank you TDR for making me so blissfully happy.
Tracy, 28
I thought the difference between having a matchmaker and doing self-directed dating would be like the difference between recruiting employees yourself and using a professional recruiter.  But after experiencing TDR's matchmaking, I realized it's a much bigger difference because TDR eliminates a lot of stress, anxiety & decision points. The user experience for your personal matchmaking is incredibly delightful. I couldn't be more satisfied with the whole process.
Ron, 47
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Ashley & Harrison. Married, November 2013
I was extremely lucky to meet the ladies of TDR. It can be so hard meeting quality men and these girls have a black book full of them!  I'm not the type to go out to bars in search of someone.  The ladies of TDR have introduced me to quality people and I look forward to meeting even more.
Carrie, 28
My favorite part about Three Day Rule is the openness of its members.  Everyone I've met is very honest and forthright about who they are and what they want.  I think most people dislike the "game-playing" that happens in dating, and I've experienced none of that here.  Also, the people I've been matched with are intelligent, motivated and professional; exactly the types of people and qualities I would look for on my own.
Edward, 37
I am very grateful that I met Talia.  Her matchmaking service is so wonderful and personable.  I originally had a great deal of hesitation about being fixed up through a matchmaking service because I felt there was a stigma attached; however, it has been one of the best experiences!  My FIRST match was with an amazing guy whom I'm still currently dating. I'm extremely happy, and I owe it all to Three Day Rule!
Jenny, 35
After a friend's suggestion during a dating slump, I met with the TDR team and told them what I was looking for in a match. After just one meeting, they definitely understood what I wanted and set me up with great guy. We are going on date 5, and I'm really excited for more to come. I am grateful I took my pal's advice so take mine: reach out to the women of 'Three Day Rule' if you are ready to get serious about meeting your match.
Erin, 27
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Adelle & David. Engaged, November 2014
I'm so grateful for the women of Three Day Rule and their ability to successfully put people together. They took the qualities I was looking for, listened to the type of guy I wanted in my life, and like magic, found a perfect match! They pick your brain and dedicate their time to you. I'm madly in love, completely fulfilled and incredibly happy. I highly recommend letting these ladies get to work to find your soul mate!
Jennifer, 31
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Jessica & Jack. Engaged, November 2014
Back in September, I attended one of your seminars in San Francisco. Your matchmakers shared great dating advice, including girls wanting guys who were 80% nice and 20% edgy/interesting. That Friday, I had a really good first date. Taking your advice about sharing something interesting about myself, I told her that I played the piano. I normally don't think to share that on dates, but you were right - she liked that. For the second date, I invited her to come watch me play at a piano gig. She sat at the bar and got free wine while I played. People kept coming up to her asking who I was and it made me look good. She was impressed and really liked the whole evening. It ended up being an awesome date...and we've been dating ever since! I wanted to say thanks again. You guys rock!
Andre, 32
Talia has an exceptional ability to read people and figure out what they want in relationships. Her open, supportive, judgment-free manner puts you at ease immediately. She sent me many excellent matches that I would have never met on my own.  I attended several TDR events and across the board, the guys were smart, attractive, and successful professionals (which is not easy to find in LA!) Having TDR in my back pocket also took away the pressure of "having to meet someone." Knowing that Talia had my back and was working to find me matches actually helped me enjoy myself when I went out and put me in a better mindset to meet men organically. I'd recommend TRD without hesitation to any of my single friends.
Kiera, 32
After recently getting divorced, I tried the online dating thing...Tinder, Match, okcupid, among others. I found that I wasn't meeting the caliber of women that I wanted to meet or date. After filling out an application for TDR, I met up with TDR matchmaker, Louisa, who worked to set me up on a date with an awesome woman that I am currently dating. Thanks, Louisa, and thanks, TDR!
Mark, 46
I joined TDR in late 2014. I was extremely skeptical of the process and fell more into the idea simply based on the energy, optimism, and positive attitude of my matchmaker, Erika. She was a pleasure to work with and made the process feel more like two friends gabbing, which inherently made me more comfortable! By February of 2015, I met my current boyfriend through TDR and am still very happily and exclusively dating him. The experience itself was eye-opening and helped me out of my comfort zone and on dates I may not have pursued through an online dating profile.
Madeline, 37
Last year, I knew that I wanted to meet someone great, but I didn’t know how to! I hadn’t clicked with anyone I met through online dating and, even after years of living in NY, I still didn’t know where all the engaging and age-appropriate men were hiding. I saw an article about TDR on a blog, and I decided to reach out. I met with Robyn, and she seemed to really understand me and what I was looking for. Plus, she would do the awkward introductions necessary for me to meet someone! For my second date, Robyn set me up with Ben. Ben won me over with his cute smile, great energy and positive attitude. We’ve been together 7 months already, and we’re both so thankful that I signed up for TDR.
Mary, 31
I’m not known to gloat over people so I will keep my comments brief. In my profession as well as my personal life, I come across various people from all walks of life – most are forgettable. Mary Stuart is not. Mary Stuart is an exceptional individual – highly intelligent and thoughtful; professional yet extremely personable. My recommendation – hang on to her and don’t let go.
Jordan, 41
When Talia and I started TDR, our mission was to help single women in L.A. find love. Though I knew we would help other single women, I had no idea TDR would be the way I would ultimately meet my Mr. Right. I was so focused on helping our clients that I never realized I would meet a very dapper/handsome/musical/intelligent/ jetsetting fellow who was my exact "type" through our service unexpectedly. After a couple of emails and phone conversations, we went on our first date. Since that date, we have been inseparable. With that, I can personally attest to the fact that TDR's matching works. The quality of the matches and matching create a familiarity between two people that makes you feel like you've known the other person for years. This is not just because I am a founder, but, because I am a very happy client.
Val, 36
After several unsuccessful attempts using other matchmaking services, It was an understatement to say I was not particularly interested in trying another. I spoke with Jaime several times over a 3 week period, including a long session to cover the failures of the past and my concerns moving forward. Jaime was encouraging, had excellent questions, and presented different scenarios so that she could determine a truly exceptional match. I was impressed with the profile of my first date- but still slightly skeptical. While Melanie and I have only been out on two dates (planning our third), I am extremely optimistic. TDR was able to introduce me to wonderful women who is a match intellectually, emotionally and athletically, and is truly beautiful on the inside and out. I see a very bright future!
Matt, 53
I’ve gotten a few messages from other matchmakers recently (though I’ve unsubscribed from them now), and I have to say your profile descriptions, profile building, and your whole process was so much better. Everything about my TDR experience with Louisa seemed so much more personal and genuine, whereas their messages felt very formalized/templatized. If I know anyone in the market in the future, I will definitely not hesitate to refer them your way.
David, 42
TDR's date coaching is the added dimension. Implementing the advice that I got and putting it into practice has been very beneficial.
Jackie, 35
Louisa did a great job selecting Cathy, and the time with her was very helpful, doubling my previous experience record (from two dates with the same girl to four). It was also very helpful in helping me find out what's important to me in dating.
Albert, 26
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FAQ

What makes Three Day Rule's personalized matchmaking different than other matchmaking companies?

When Talia, our CEO, founded Three Day Rule, her mission was to create a much more enjoyable, stress-free dating experience for both men and women. Here’s how we do it:

  • We are real people who meet you in person.
  • We find potential dates and ask them the hard questions, face to face.
  • We only introduce you to the most compatible matches.
  • You go on dates and give us feedback.

It’s dating, made simple.

We train every matchmaker in our Los Angeles headquarters to assure that our matchmakers are positive, empowering, and personalized in their approach to finding you a committed relationship.

How does TDR's personalized matchmaking service work?

You have two options: free and paid. In either option, the first step is to take our short quiz. This will take you less than five minutes. (You can add more depth as you go.) Completing the quiz puts you in our free database and lets our matchmakers search for you as a potential match for their clients. It also assigns you a personal matchmaker.

If you would like to explore the option of becoming a TDR paid client, you can request for your personal matchmaker to contact you, or you can go straight to scheduling an informal coffee meeting. Your matchmaker will meet with you to learn about your preferences and show you first-hand how we vet your matches. This initial meeting is free and no obligation.

What does TDR's personalized matchmaking service include?

Our packages including a certain number of vetted matches, personalized attention, and surprise perks from our partners.

Our most popular package is our 6-month personalized matchmaking package that includes:

  • An initial, in-depth session with your matchmaker to determine your preferences
  • 6-12 vetted introductions
  • Ongoing, personalized feedback sessions with your matchmaker after every date
  • Free access to TDR events
  • A complimentary photography session
  • A complimentary styling session with an expert fashion consultant
  • Additional date coaching from one of our dating experts

Our 3-month personalized matchmaking package includes:

  • An introductory meeting with your matchmaker
  • 3-6 vetted introductions
  • Ongoing, personalized feedback sessions with your matchmaker after every date
  • Free access to TDR events

We also offer a multi-city package tailored to those who believe their best match could be anywhere and are willing to make the effort to find out. We accept clients who live outside our current service areas who are willing to travel for vetted matches.

I saw Shark Tank – what’s up with the name?

Just call us TDR. TDR believes that antiquated notions like the “three day rule” don’t reflect the desires and realities of today’s singles. Dating should not be dictated by games or myths about when you should make the first move. Instead, Three Day Rule aspires to create a fun and delightful dating experience for our members.

Do you serve the LGBT community?

Not yet, but hopefully soon! Please take our quiz and we will keep you posted on our launch date in your city.

Do you work with singles above the age of 45?

Absolutely. Our pool tends to range in age from 25-65, however we are always on the lookout for quality singles of any age. Should you decide to work with one of our Matchmakers, they will go to great lengths to ensure that they find amazing matches that are within the specific age range you are looking for.

I have additional questions. Who can I talk to?

For answers to any other questions, please email support@threedayrule.com

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Management Team

Talia Goldstein

Chief Executive Officer

Talia is the CEO and founder of Three Day Rule. After studying communication at Tulane University, Talia worked as a TV producer at E! True Hollywood Story, where she quickly became the office dating expert, setting up many co-workers with matches and handing out insightful dating advice from her cubicle. Recognizing her hidden talent for matchmaking, Talia quit her full-time job and began hosting popular singles events and offering personalized matchmaking services. Three Day Rule was officially created in 2013, allowing Talia to turn her lifelong hobby of matchmaking into a thriving business. Leveraging her extensive network of successful, attractive singles, Talia has found matches for hundreds of clients, including top executives, entrepreneurs, and everyday young professionals. Among her clients, Talia has been recognized for her strong instinct for what drives lifelong connections between two people. She has made it her mission to help clients on their quest to find true love, and is thrilled that her work allows her to make a difference in people's lives.

Andy Schmidt

Chief Technical Officer

Andy is the CTO and technical co-founder of Three Day Rule. Before joining with Talia to build TDR's online presence, Andy was the founder and CEO of Labcoat LLC. a digital agency specializing in developing web applications for startup and media companies, including Technicolor, Digital Domain, and Fox. Andy began his technical career at a boutique web development agency called Citrusbyte where he helped conceptualize, build, and launch, venture-funded startups. His extensive experience building online businesses from the ground up has given him a unique insight into the startup life-cycle, allowing him to provide leadership in product strategy, product marketing, and technical strategy. Andy is a graduate of the University of Arizona and holds a Masters of Arts in Screenwriting.

Kelli Stember

Director of Events

Kelli Stember is Three Day Rule's Director of Events. An LA native and Pepperdine University graduate, Kelli spent five years working for 20th Century Fox TV, where she was immersed in the high-caliber, red carpet events that define the entertainment industry. With a growing desire to bring people together through her own events, she then launched two of her own companies; Kelli Jane Events, a boutique event planning company with a focus on weddings, and In Pursuit Networking, an activity-based social networking club, primarily for singles. Kelli then managed the Los Angeles Rewards program for Thrillist Media Group, sourcing food, beverage, and lifestyle packages for exclusive events. Kelli is excited to continue her passion of bringing people together at TDR, and thrives on the many Three Day Rule success stories that come out of these events.

Tina Wie

Director of Marketing

A graduate of Harvard Business School and UC Berkeley, Tina previously worked as a brand marketer for leading Fortune 500 consumer products companies, including The Clorox Company and Del Monte Foods. As a brand marketer, Tina managed marketing initiatives across TV advertising, digital, and consumer promotions, launched five new products, and led the day-to-day business management of multi-million dollar businesses. She joined TDR as its first marketing hire and developed the playbook for TDR's expansion plan, leading the company's successful launches into Boston and Washington DC. She is thrilled to be working at Three Day Rule, and feels truly fulfilled helping others find their love connections.

Kate Edwards

Director of Partnerships

As Director of Partnerships, Kate manages partnerships, affiliates, and other growth opportunities. Kate graduated from Brown University and has an MBA from UCLA Anderson, with specialties in technology and entrepreneurship. Kate previously worked at advertising agencies JWT and Publicis for brands at Procter & Gamble and Johnson & Johnson, and also worked on the business marketing team at Facebook. Kate began at Three Day Rule as a matchmaker, and has spoken on numerous panels, podcasts, and events as a dating expert. An outgoing personality and natural connector, Kate combines her unique background of matchmaking know-how and business growth expertise, and is excited to take on new challenges for the company.

Robyn Swider

East Coast Regional Manager

With years of successful New York City dating experience under her belt, Robyn is excited to share her insights with her clients to help them find love. After graduating from the College of Charleston, Robyn moved to New York and began a career in sales and marketing for shoplet.com and Lifebroker. Among her friends, Robyn has always been known as the "connector." Over the years, Robyn's friends have credited her with helping them find roommates, job opportunities, and of course, romantic matches. As a matchmaker at Three Day Rule, Robyn is excited to combine her business experience with her ability to bring people together and make love connections.

Marly Steinman

West Coast Regional Manager

Born and raised in Orange County, Marly is a Southern California gal at heart. Throughout her life, Marly has always had a deep interest in psychology and a penchant for relating to and understanding people. Marly has a Masters in Clinical Psychology and interned as a Marriage & Family therapist. Her strong intuition combined with her real-world experience helping people successfully navigate their relationships allows her to understand the needs of her clients. She has had the opportunity to create many love connections through her network of established singles. Marly believes that love and companionship are the keys to happiness in life, and there is nothing that brings her more joy than helping others find their ideal match.

Katie Kaynor

Membership Manager

Katie is Three Day Rule's Membership Coordinator. A graduate of Oregon State University with a degree in Speech Communications, Katie hit the ground running when she moved to Los Angeles and began a career at Hulu. Not only has Katie's depth of experience at Hulu enabled her to provide valuable technical support to the TDR matchmaking team, but her background in PR, recruiting, and customer service and support make her a valuable asset to the team. With a sincere interest in others and true joie de vivre, Katie is a 'go to' professional for clients and matchmakers alike.