Meet the Matchmakers
Our world-class matchmakers provide clients with personalized attention, hand-selected matches, and valuable date coaching. TDR’s matchmakers combine proven matchmaking techniques with cutting-edge technology to ensure we introduce you to the best possible matches.
All of our matchmakers come from impressive corporate backgrounds, but realized their true passion for connecting people and helping singles find lasting love. They are outgoing, inquisitive, and demonstrate relentless dedication to their roles as matchmakers.
Read more about what our clients say about our matchmakers here.
Lauren Hickey
Lauren had her own wedding planning business prior to being a matchmaker, so one thing is for sure - Lauren loves love! Originally from Hawaii and a former Miss Hawaii, Lauren graduated from the University of Colorado, Boulder prior to moving to Orange County. A true extrovert and connector, Lauren is the perfect matchmaker to launch our new Orange County region.
Alisa Purifico
From hosting fitness infomercials to working at Beachbody and Zumba, Alisa's career path has always focused on helping people improve their lives. With experience in media and fitness, and a degree from Rutgers, Alisa has always been the matchmaker in her group of friends. When not matching, Alisa loves musical theatre and is always in the dance studio or training for her next fitness competition.
Clancy Cauble
With a degree in Sociology, Clancy has always had a penchant for understanding people. She is always ready with great advice, whether it be 'what to wear on a first date,' or 'the perfect ice-breaker in a crowded bar.' Born in Los Angeles and raised partially in Dallas, Clancy has a strong understanding of diverse types of people, as evidenced by her warm, social nature. She enjoys hiking with her dog and has traveled to every continent except Antarctica.
Marisa Reisel
As an art history major at Princeton, Marisa sees relationships through an creative, artistic lens. Motivated by her skills as a natural connector, Marisa worked in recruiting for various renowned corporations. In her spare time, Marisa pursues her passion for fine art through painting and jewelry-making. She is an avid reader and serves as a board member of the Princeton Club of California.
Christie Tcharkhoutian
An LA native, Christie is a "Triple Trojan" with her bachelors, masters, and PhD from USC. She began her career as a marriage and family therapist before becoming a professional matchmaker. When she isn't matching and meeting new people, she loves playing guitar, songwriting, and traveling for international mission work.
Natalie Smith
After finishing her Masters in International Business, Natalie traveled the world, spending time in Panama and Argentina, where she worked at the US Embassy. After returning home, she held a position in Strategic Partnerships at a well-known tech firm. Her realistic, direct approach has made her one of Los Angeles’ most sought after matchmakers. When she isn't matchmaking, you can find Natalie surfing, crafting a new salsa recipe, or volunteering at a local nonprofit.
Nora DeKeyser
Nora previously worked as a TDR Matchmaker in New York, but she now lives and works in sunny Los Angeles. Originally from Alaska, Nora naturally gravitates toward the outdoors - she loves snowboarding, fishing, and SCUBA diving. After graduating from The Ohio State University and a career in IT staffing, Nora realized her true passion was in managing relationships. Nora is an avid reader, live music aficionado, and has sailed all around the world. Nora is incredibly upbeat, and her positive attitude can cheer any gloomy day.
Morgan Jones
A Newport Beach native, Morgan has experienced all the best that California can offer and more. After graduating from the University of San Diego, she felt the pulled to the city by the Bay. A lover of both the city and the outdoors, Morgan is just as comfortable dancing among throngs of revelers at music festivals, or sipping a quiet glass of wine in San Francisco, her trusty DSLR ever present at her side.
Rachel Moss
Human interaction has always been a passion for Rachel, so much so that she made it the entire focus of her education and career. Her background as a psychotherapist uniquely equips her with the tools for discovering the potential for love in anyone. Originally from Chicago, she now resides in the Marina, and has traded in her snowboots for hiking shoes. This go-getter has completed an ironman triathlon, and even an ultramarathon, so you know that she'll never stop chasing after that perfect match.
Natasha Cooper
With a background in education and social service, Natasha has a knack for helping others learn and grow. Originally from Southern California, Natasha now lives in Mill Valley with her family. Natasha has an extensive travel background and loves to see new places around the world. When she's home in the bay area, you might find her cooking for her family, or snapping pictures of her two "Instagram- famous" Bernese Mountain dogs!
Allison Gerrits
Allison attended the College of Charleston, where she developed an interest in human interaction. After working in community relations for an NFL team, she began facilitating weddings at one of the most premiere wedding venues in the country. After getting to know so many couples who had achieved happiness in their relationships, she developed a unique ability to determine what makes a good match.
Carla Swiryn
One of the company’s first matchmakers, Carla is passionate about making the dating process easier for busy professionals in high-powered Silicon Valley. After graduating from UC Boulder, she worked for seven years at Google before running her own online advertising agency. Although she has lived all around the world, Carla is a true SF Bay Area native. With a unique blend of intuition and an analytical approach, Carla has seen incredible success as a matchmaker.
Danika Zias
With a Master’s degree in Behavior Analysis, Danika has extensive knowledge of how our behavior plays a part in relationships with others. Danika specializes in identifying barriers that may be leading to unsuccessful dates and coaches her clients using strategies to improve dating skills. She has a passion for helping others and always makes clients feel immediately comfortable by being a great listener. When Danika isn’t matching clients, she enjoys hiking with her two dogs, practicing aerial yoga, exploring new restaurants and bars, and traveling to new places.
Erika Kaplan
After graduating from Penn State, Erika began her career in publishing, working for Rolling Stone, Us Weekly and Men’s Journal. Erika left corporate America to feed her passion of connecting people. Erika loves volunteering, yoga, and exploring her city. She also has a certified therapy french bulldog, who helps people all around New York. Erika’s clients have said that her intuition and transparent way of working results in great success and personal growth.
Devyn Simone
Devyn’s knowledge of the dating landscape, her passion for helping others, and her down-to-earth demeanor make her the perfect Matchmaker. Even as a young girl, Devyn was determined to find a formula for healthy relationships, and this Kansas City native often spent her allowance on psychology and self-help books. Today, Devyn is a renowned dating expert who has been featured on Good Morning America, The Rachael Ray Show, and Nightline. Her advice has been featured in The New York Post, Yahoo News, and The Huffington Post, and has served as the inspiration for the dating and makeover show Love At First Swipe on TLC.
Candice Enriquez
With a Masters in International Relations and previous experience working with the UN, Candice uses her skills in diplomacy to maneuver every possible dating scenario. Known as the spontaneous, caring one in her group of friends, Candice love kickboxing, hosting parties, and has even traveled to Cameroon! Always learning and discovering, this matchmaker is at ease wherever she goes.
Elisa Del Castillo
With a degree in Communications, Elisa has always had an understanding and natural ability to connect with others. Prior to matchmaking, she worked in industries such as marketing, media relations, and staffing. Within different projects, she has always had the same common goal: focus on her clients' needs and surpass expectations. In her spare time she is an avid reader and writer with a specific passion for poetry. Miami raised now living in Manhattan, this city girl has traded oranges for apples.
Becky Porter
Born in Boston, Becky made her way to New York after receiving her degree in Communication Disorders from Bridgewater State University. Always one to be up for a challenge and put others first, Becky began her career as a 1st and 2nd grade teacher in Brooklyn. Becky has always been a connector, so no one was surprised when Becky joined TDR. You can find Becky recreating Pinterest recipes, discovering the next big musician, or practicing yoga.
Brian Feinstein
When he’s not playing with his therapy dog Leo the Lab, or discovering new steakhouses and bourbons, Brian is always seeking out the perfect match for his clients. This NYU Tisch School of the Arts alum previously worked at Atlantic Records and composed musicals, so his ear for finding romance is pitch perfect.
Holly Bammert
Since graduating from Western Washington University, Holly knew she was a natural matchmaker, but her first step towards a career at TDR was actually matching professional nannies with high profile families all over the US and abroad. Holly has lived in Seattle, San Francisco and now New York City, where she brings to TDR her passion for listening and learning about people to make to bring them success in their dating lives.
Sonya Mishra
After receiving her degree from Georgetown University, Sonya pursued a career as an investment banker, working for a variety of firms. Ever the entrepreneur, she began a consultancy service, training university students to succeed in banking interviews. Realizing her passion for helping others, Sonya now helps singles put their best foot forward in the dating world. Sonya also has a passion for the arts, having founded her own dance company at the age of 16. Sonya also enjoys traveling, and has taken three solo backpacking trips across Europe. She has most recently traveled to Thailand and Bali.
Caitlin Cooper
Caitlin began her career in fashion at FIDM in Los Angeles, creating womenswear for a private label collection. Later, after graduating from The Institute of Integrative Nutrition, she built a thriving health coaching business, teaching people how to live, look and love from a holistic health perspective. She's passionate about teaching ayurveda, heathy living, and meditation to deepen holistic healing Caitlin is grateful that her path ultimately lead her to TDR where she can impact her clients every day.
Kristen Stewart
As a Psychology major at Bucknell University, Krissy developed a keen interest in the nature of people and relationships. After a role with L’Oreal in Customer Marketing and Sales, Krissy realized she wanted to spend her days making a difference. When Krissy isn’t matchmaking, you’ll find her dancing, meeting her friends at their favorite spots, or being a tourist in her own city, always looking for the places and people she hasn’t met.
Callie Harris
A North Carolina native, Callie is outgoing and upbeat. During college at UNC, she lived in Bejiing, and is always pushing herself to try new things (like bungee jumping!). Callie previously worked at a start-up, and her robust network of tech professionals and political influencers in DC make her the perfect matchmaker for the nation’s capital. Callie spends her time traveling to the National Parks, attending live music events, and volunteering at her local soup kitchen.
Sarah Levitt
A born social butterfly, Sarah was destined to end up a matchmaker. With a Business and Communications degree and experience working at LivingSocial, Sarah is known among her friends as loyal and adventurous. When not helping people find love, Sarah loves to travel the world (she adores Spain!), play soccer, and explore local DC brunch spots.
Jaime Bernstein
After meeting the love of her life in DC, Jaime decided she wanted to help other singles in the city meet their match. Jaime completed her MA in Communications from University of Akron, and later worked in the nonprofit sector. Eager to use her penchant for helping others, Jaime turned to matchmaking as a full-time career. Her honest, but sincere approach to matchmaking makes her both a great matchmaker, as well as a trusted confidant.
Julie McKee
Coming from an entertainment background, Julie had the opportunity to work with singles looking for love on reality TV. Julie has been working in the dating space for years, but her tenacity and 'feisty' nature make her a great matchmaker - she will stop at nothing to find the perfect match. In her spare time, Julie is a huge animal lover and can be found trekking her golden retriever all over Chicago. She also loves discovering new restaurants and is always on the hunt for the best pizza in town.
Brittney Smiejek
With a Master's Degree and background in social work, Brittney is famous for really getting to the heart of what (and who) her clients are looking for in a match. Her patience and her dedication to getting a match 'just right' make her a stellar matchmaker. Brittney is a social butterfly by nature. You can always find her at the latest restaurant launch, networking event or charity gala.
Casey McDonald
Born and raised in Chicago, Casey is a true Midwesterner at heart. Casey is a true extrovert, and understands a complexity of interests and people. For instance, she enjoys baking just as much as a good sports game or a boxing session, and has a love of vintage muscle cars. While Casey's determination and go-getter mentality are two of her best attributes, her ability to make people feel comfortable and at ease make her one of TDR's most sought-after matchmakers.
Heather Noman
Heather has always been interested in human interaction. After receiving her BFA from Minnesota State University, Heather built one of the most successful wedding venues in Minneapolis. Her experience working with over 500 successful couples gave her incredible talent for spotting chemistry between two people. She loves traveling the world, with recents adventures to Macau, Iceland, and Bangladesh, and is also an accomplished visual artist.
Caitlin Bergstein
After graduating from FSU, Caitlin began her career at Aflac before returning to school for her MBA. She then began working in corporate partnerships at Ironman, and later moved to Boston to work for the New England Patriots, combining unparalleled people skills with her lifelong passion for sports. Caitlin uses this passion, along with her natural intuition, outgoing personality, and tireless work ethic to help clients find their perfect match.
Hannah Hagan
Hannah, a long time Boston resident, graduated from Boston College with a degree in Human Development and Organizational Studies. She originally worked in fashion at a shopper insights firm where she analyzed consumer habits. It wasn't long before Hannah realized she had a strong intuition for recognizing what makes relationships successful. Hannah is excited to combine her analytical mindset and passion for helping others to match her clients.
Nikki Hurst
After earning a degree in International Business and Finance, Nikki uncovered a special interest in the behavioral psychology of business professionals that lead to a publication on Cultural Intelligence (CQ). It was this curiosity that lead her to leave her successful career on the trading floor and take her passions back home to Boston. Nikki is always seeking out her next adventure, from sandboarding in Dubai to bungee jumping in Ecuador. She is a self-proclaimed burger connoisseur and lover of craft beers and live music.
Management Team
Talia Goldstein
Talia is the CEO and founder of Three Day Rule. After studying communication at Tulane University, Talia worked as a TV producer at E! True Hollywood Story, where she quickly became the office dating expert, setting up many co-workers with matches and handing out insightful dating advice from her cubicle. Recognizing her hidden talent for matchmaking, Talia quit her full-time job and began hosting popular singles events and offering personalized matchmaking services. Three Day Rule was officially created in 2013, allowing Talia to turn her lifelong hobby of matchmaking into a thriving business. After receiving an investment from Match/IAC in 2014, Talia has secured partnerships with Match, OkCupid, JDate, Christian Mingle and The League. Talia has appeared on Good Morning America, and has been featured in Fortune, USA Today, Los Angeles Times, The Huffington Post and more. Leveraging her extensive network of successful, dynamic singles, Talia has found matches for hundreds of clients, including top executives, entrepreneurs, celebrities, and everyday young professionals. She has made it her mission to help clients on their quest to find true love, and is thrilled that her work allows her to make a difference in people's lives. Talia lives in Los Angeles with her husband and two children.
Tina Wie
A graduate of Harvard Business School and UC Berkeley, Tina previously worked as a brand marketer for leading Fortune 500 consumer products companies, including The Clorox Company and Del Monte Foods. As a brand marketer, Tina managed marketing initiatives across TV advertising, digital, and consumer promotions, launched five new products, and led the day-to-day business management of multi-million dollar businesses. She joined TDR as its first marketing hire and developed the playbook for the company's expansion, leading TDR's successful launches into Boston, Washington DC, Orange County, and Silicon Valley. She is thrilled to be working at TDR, and feels truly fulfilled helping others find love.
Kelli Stember
Kelli Stember is Three Day Rule's Director of Events, having joined the team in 2012. An LA native and Pepperdine University graduate, Kelli spent five years working for 20th Century Fox TV, where she was immersed in the high-caliber, red carpet events that define the entertainment industry. Kelli then managed the Los Angeles Rewards program for Thrillist Media Group, sourcing food, beverage, and lifestyle packages for exclusive events. Kelli is excited to continue her passion of bringing people together at TDR, and thrives on the many Three Day Rule success stories that come out of these events.
Robyn Raynes
With years of successful New York City dating experience under her belt, Robyn is started her career at TDR sharing her insights with clients to help them find love. After graduating from the College of Charleston, Robyn moved to New York and began a career in sales and marketing for shoplet.com and Lifebroker. Among her friends, Robyn has always been known as the "connector." Over the years, Robyn's friends have credited her with helping them find roommates, job opportunities, and of course, romantic matches. As the Director of Matchmaking at Three Day Rule, Robyn is excited to combine her business experience with her ability to bring people together and make love connections.
Katie Kaynor
Katie is Three Day Rule's Senior Membership Coordinator. A graduate of Oregon State University with a degree in Speech Communications, Katie hit the ground running when she moved to Los Angeles and began a career at Hulu. Not only has Katie's depth of experience at Hulu enabled her to provide valuable technical support to the TDR matchmaking team, but her background in PR, recruiting, and customer service and support make her a valuable asset to the team. With a sincere interest in others and true joie de vivre, Katie is a 'go to' professional for clients and matchmakers alike.
Andy Schmidt
Andy is the technical co-founder of Three Day Rule. Before joining Talia to build TDR's online presence, Andy was the founder and CEO of Labcoat LLC. a digital agency specializing in developing web applications for startup and media companies. Andy began his technical career at a boutique web development agency called Citrusbyte where he helped conceptualize, build, and launch, venture-funded startups. His extensive experience building online businesses allows him to provide leadership in product strategy, product marketing, and technical strategy. Andy is a graduate of the University of Arizona and holds a Masters of Arts in Screenwriting.
