Erika Kaplan

Vice President of Membership

Erika began her career in publishing and public relations, working for Rolling Stone, Us Weekly, and Men’s Journal. Erika left corporate America to feed her passion of connecting people.

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Over her long tenure with Three Day Rule, Erika’s clients have said that her intuition and transparent way of working results in great success and personal growth.

Erika & Her Team of Matchmakers

Working with Erika has been such a pleasure.

That was when I met the love of my life. He was my last match and I was his first. Without Erika, I'm not sure this could have happened. I have never been so happy in my life! And I'm grateful to Erika and the Three Day Rule process.

Michelle & Ety, Married

Erika introduced me to some really remarkable and beautiful people. And there is absolutely no way that I would have met these women on my own or by swiping right on some app.

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Featured Press for Erika

A lot of men come to us asking, ‘What’s behind the door of a yoga studio? Where are these amazing women hiding?' They love the idea that someone else can do the legwork. Read More

Her job is more than just getting people dates. Along the way, she wants them to learn more about themselves and how that reflects what they are looking for in a partner. Read More

People need to just pick up their heads and smile at each other. Read More

Stay on top of your dates, especially second and third dates, to avoid losing momentum. Keep lines of communication open. Read More

Matchmaking has simultaneously grown into a niche within this shifting, technology-assisted dating landscape. Read More

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Personal Matchmaking Might Just Be The Answer To Single Millennials' Prayers

5 Things You Need to Know If You're Dating After a Divorce

Updating the Yenta for Generation Tinder

Love vs. Tinder: Why Modern Matchmakers Thrive in the Age of the Right Swipe

Trump's Presidency Has People Coupling Up Like They Did After 9/11

Testimonials For Erika

I honestly think if I didn’t reach out to Three Day Rule I would still be making the same mistakes and cheating myself of the opportunities that are out there, but I just couldn’t see. I am forever grateful to Erika and her team!

I met some great guys that I would not have met otherwise. If you're sick of the online dating world, I would definitely recommend Erika and Three Day Rule.

I have so much more confidence (and plain competence) going into dates now, and already have a second date lined up with a really awesome girl tomorrow.

Erika was a great help and advisor in my quest for a mate. I was uncertain where to look and what to look for. Her predictions and suggestions were right on. Thank you.

Thanks to Erika for being a kickass Matchmaker. I've learned a great deal about myself and what I put out there to men in the journey. It's been a unique purview for me into myself, really, and I'm glad I worked with Three Day Rule.

Erika has not only done an unbelievably good job of introducing me to a string of amazing women, but she has also done a great job of listening to my feedback and nudging me to expand my horizons.

Three Day Rule was incredible to work with. They were proactive, patient, and had my best interests in mind at all times. Best of all, they set me up with an amazing woman whom I wouldn’t have found anywhere else. I am really excited about our future together!

I started working with Erika after 6 months of being single. I had some dating fatigue from the apps and thought it would be a nice to have someone on the lookout for me.

The experience itself was eye-opening and helped me out of my comfort zone and on dates I may not have pursued through an online dating profile.

Three Day Rule helped us find each other!

The whole process was easy. I was able to focus on my job and still pursue love. More importantly, my Matchmaker didn't set me up with "my type". Instead she set me up with someone compatible - my husband. We are partners in every sense of the word.

My Dream Match

The women I met were lovely, successful, and refined! My last match Christine is beyond a dream come true, because I never would have dared to dream of a woman like her... And I never would have met her if it wasn’t for Three Day Rule!

She is everything I could ask for and more.

I've finally found the love of my life. By the fourth date, I knew I had found someone amazing. She is everything I could ask for & more.My Matchmaker was able to see something in the both of us that made us compatible. I am very thankful.