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Three Day Rule is so different... It's such a smarter way to approach such a big, big decision in your life.

Corey and Wendy

Married, 2017.
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Jason & Sarah. Married, 2018.
Working with Callie and Three Day Rule was hands down the best decision I've ever made. Callie really takes the time to understand her clients - and working with her was not only incredibly enlightening, but also a lot of fun. Without Callie's intuition, expertise, advice and guidance, and Three Day Rule's expansive network of quality singles, I would have never met my wife Sarah - the most kind-hearted, genuine, funny and quirky woman I know - my better half! We are so thankful to Callie and recommend TDR to all our single friends.
Jason, 37
Working with Jaime and going through the TDR process changed my life for the better! I needed something different than traditional online dating and a way to meet different people. Jaime helped me to get outside of my comfort zone, learning about myself and what is truly most important to me in long term love. Jaime's honesty, insight, guidance, and intuition helped me along the way. I am now happily married. I would highly recommend working with Jaime and TDR!
Sarah, 39
Working with Devyn has been a life-changing experience. I've met some great matches without the time and struggle of finding that needle in a haystack through online dating. But the part that has been unexpectedly impactful has been the date coaching. I've learned so much about myself and what I'm looking for in a relationship. Devyn has been wonderful in helping me figure out what's truly important to me and why certain relationships did or did not work out. It's had a huge effect on how I approach dating and I now feel ready to find the right guy for me. She has made the dating process so much more fun and less of a mystery.
Kaden, 35
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Ian & Durrah. Married, 2019.
I don't know why I didn't find TDR sooner as it was the best thing that ever happened to me. They were so committed to finding love for me. The seamless process from meeting with my Matchmaker Marisa, to her following up with me even when I was traveling illustrated their dedication. Through the process I realized that my priorities were all in the wrong order - I needed that extra boost and TDR was there to give that to me. Marisa was always professional and committed through the entire process, she ensured that I was comfortable, and made me feel open to share my concerns and questions about finding a match. I loved having the photo shoot which made me feel more confident. I also really enjoyed the relationship coaching with Anna - it opened up my eyes to allowing myself to be vulnerable. The resources and tools recommended by TDR were priceless. Marisa still follows up to see if everything is going well with Ian and I. I would recommend TDR to everyone, you really have nothing to lose.
Durrah, 33
Trust your Matchmaker. These are the experts, they are born to do this... I did and I ended up meeting the love of my life.

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Chris & Christine. Engaged, 2018.
Alexa and Nora and the whole TDR family were great! All the women I met were lovely, successful, and refined, but they saved the best for last! Christine is beyond a dream come true, because I never would have dared to dream of a woman like her... And I never would have met her if it wasn’t for TDR! I’ve never been happier! Thank you so much - she's amazing and perfect for me. It really is more than I could have wished for!
Chris, 54
Thanks to Alexa and Three Day Rule, I’ve met a man who has swept me off my feet. Alexa thought she had a great potential match for me so we chatted about my preferences and long-term goals, and then Alexa introduced me to Chris who is affectionate, kind, hardworking, successful, handsome... my perfect match! She listened to what I was looking for in a man when I didn't know Chris even existed. I am so grateful Three Day Rule and Alexa came into my life - they truly know what they are doing, and are invested in both their clients and matches. Thanks again!
Christine, 31
Working with Devyn and TDR really changed my perspective and mindset on dating! She made me think about things in a whole new way and helped me get out of a mindset that was honestly holding me back. This process really opens your eyes - articulating my must-haves versus the nice-to-haves with Devyn and reflecting on my past relationships, as a means to identifying what I want going forward, forced me to take an honest look at what was important to me. We often think the partnership we seek will "magically appear" - Devyn helped me to realize that I have to choose love and put in work towards finding the right relationship, similar to how I work towards everything else in life. I sometimes stand in my own way and it is so helpful to have a coach, both for accountability and support - Devyn has provided that to me and more. She gave me very actionable tips to fight against my own self-sabotage and was there for me even as I met men outside of TDR. My work with her facilitated meeting the man who I hope is 'the one"! Thank you, Devyn and TDR!
Delila, 32
Working with Erika has been such a pleasure. It has been such a comforting and uplifting experience knowing that I had someone in my corner finding me intelligent, attractive, kind-hearted potential partners who have similar goals as I do. Erika was understanding when I needed to take some time to myself and was enthusiastic and upbeat when I was ready to come back to the process. That was when I met the love of my life. He was my last match and I was his first. Without Erika, I'm not sure this could have happened. I have never been so happy in my life! And I'm grateful to Erika and the TDR process.
Michelle, 34
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Michelle & Ety. Married, 2018.
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David & Michelle. Married, 2018.
Dating in this digital age can be so frustrating and intimidating. That is the reality for everyone - real talk. It's ok though - you are not alone...and you don't have to be. Thankfully, there is a place like Three Day Rule with professionals to save you from dating hell and help bring love into your life. I decided to join Three Day Rule and was matched with a few great women from their network. I'm happy to say that my most recent date was my last date, as I married her this year. My wife and I feel lucky to have found each other through Three Day Rule.
David, 37
Callie was great to work with! She was very respectful and worked around my busy work schedule. She paid close attention to what I was looking for and has a natural talent for knowing what makes two people connect. On the second date, Callie ended up matching me with someone that could not be more perfect for me. We’ve moved in together, are getting married in May, and are both so happy I joined TDR!
James, 32
I'm very selective in regards to education and looks, and have a very particular type. I thought the probability of meeting such a person through TDR was low, but I found Carla to be very personable and confident, and decided to give it a try. Working with Carla was great, and over time, we found someone who exceeded expectations and that I am really excited about, and who I would have never otherwise crossed paths with. This could have been the best investment of my life!
Max, 37
I really enjoyed working with Julia, Talia, and the Three Day Rule team. I was impressed with the efforts Julia and Talia made to get to know me and how hands-on they were from the start. I met people who I felt had my same level of drive, ambition, and passion, which can be really hard to discern on apps. I learned so much about myself in my time working with them and was really impressed with how thoughtful the process was. I'm happy to say that I think, thanks to Julia and Talia, I've gone on my last first date ever.
Callie, 29
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Callie & Josh. In a Relationship, 2018.
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Leigh & Nancy. In a Relationship, 2017.
I was asked to be a wingman for a friend at the 2017 TDR Valentine's Day party at the Viceroy. I went with no expectations and had no idea I would meet the love of my life. I saw her by the photo booth with friends laughing and was instantly captivated. Not a fan of awkwardly breaking the ice I was contemplating how to make the next move, when a Three Day Rule employee approached me. She asked me a few questions about myself (technically qualifying me - haha) and then walked me over to Nancy the girl that caught my attention and introduced me, saving me any kind of embarrassment & stuttering. We started speaking and instantly connected, and then for some reason I asked her to take a picture of us at the event. See the picture. The rest is history. Now we live together and she met my entire family in Australia and they all love her. She is truly the love of my life and it all started from a little party on Valentine's Day last year. Thanks for making the process easy and approachable. You made it possible for a nice guy to meet the girl of his dreams.
Leigh, 36
My friends and I went to the TDR V-day party and I was honestly not expecting to meet anyone special. The plan was to stop by to see how it was and to move on to another bar! We were over by the photo booth and my friend asked this random guy to take a pic of all us. I thought he was pretty cute.... and asked my friend who worked at TDR to scope him out for me. She introduced us and we just started talking. It was natural, fun, and all very unassuming. As cheesy as it sounds, we both felt something special in those first few moments and it was very refreshing. We ended up talking all night and the next day he asked me out to lunch. We had so much fun at lunch that we made plans to see each other again two days later, on Valentine's Day (of all days!). Since then we've been inseparable. I was single for a few years and did SO MUCH ONLINE DATING before meeting him. I was active on every single dating app. We had both been looking for someone for SOOO LONG. It was amazing to have met Leigh at that event - he's my absolute favorite person and best friend. I am forever grateful for TDR, and for the event Leigh and I attended. That day itself is what we consider our anniversary (and 'first date'), at that very spot - the TDR photo booth!!
Nancy, 30
Talia set me up with some amazing women. She knew exactly what I was looking for, and she was able to find women who were looking for someone like me. I went out with four different women through Three Day Rule, and I wound up going out on multiple dates with all of them. That's unheard of with other dating services, where both people are walking in almost blind not knowing about significant characteristics about the other that would prevent a relationship from happening. TDR's pre-screening is a major help. Talia also told me some things that I was doing wrong on my previous dates through other avenues, which I had no idea were a problem. She was quickly able to decipher some of my strengths and coached me on how to utilize them in the first few dates when things can be a bit awkward and you're worried about moving too fast or too slow. The TDR batting average was easily the highest of any dating service I tried, and I'm grateful that I was able to meet my current girlfriend through Talia's service.
Phil , 35
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Phil & Sarah. Married, 2018.
Dating in New York City in general left me skeptical, but Krissy inspired me and won my trust in our initial conversation. She listened to me, asked great questions, and answered all of mine candidly. Signing up was one of the best decisions I’ve made. It's great to have someone vetting your dates. Why waste time, when you can have a professional go on your first date and ask the tough questions we all want to know right off the bat? I'm truly having an amazing time working with Krissy. Krissy listened to my feedback and showed up with a match I couldn't have dreamed up for myself. She's been open-minded, a great listener, patient through my frustrations, candid, and insightful! Someone I'm truly grateful to have on my side. My advice to anyone who jumps into the TDR family is to be as specific as possible about what you're looking for, and also to be patient and open-minded... you'll learn and your Matchmaker will learn with you. It's changed how I feel about dating in NYC in the most positive of ways. Thank you Krissy!
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Jenny & Gary. Married, 2019.
My experience with TDR was fantastic. I realized that my dating life had become a cycle - meet someone, date, have a great time, and drift apart. I was looking to reset and target what I was really looking for. Devyn and Elisa were fantastic during our interview process in forcing me to really isolate what I was looking for. I went on several dates, each with really amazing women - interesting, smart, driven, and beautiful people. I dated one woman for several months, and that was what led to really my biggest takeaway from TDR. More than just getting a date, Elisa's support and communication through several first dates and then actually dating really helped me understand how to 'date better', not just more. Whether it was jumping on a call to discuss a particular conversation or text, or being there to offer advice on what might be going through the other person's head - Elisa and Devyn's advice and guidance over the course of a couple months was truly life changing, and I'm extremely grateful for their support and very happy to have met them. The service is expensive, but like with anything, you get what you pay for. I would highly recommend their service to any of my friends or anyone looking to improve how they date. Thank you Elisa and Devyn!
Nick, 40
My favorite part about Three Day Rule is the openness of its members.  Everyone I've met is very honest and forthright about who they are and what they want.  I think most people dislike the "game-playing" that happens in dating, and I've experienced none of that here.  Also, the people I've been matched with are intelligent, motivated and professional; exactly the types of people and qualities I would look for on my own.
Edward, 37
I am deeply grateful that I was able to work with Christie. She's more than qualified to be a Matchmaker in terms of her educational background (an Ed.D from USC and a licensed marriage and family therapist). More important than her impressive pedigree though, is her wisdom and insight when it came to love and dating. In the 6 months of our time working together, not only did she introduce me to the love of my life, with whom I'm currently engaged and soon to start a family (yes! we have a bun in the oven!), I also learned a lot about myself and my patterns when romantically relating to a potential partner (whether good or bad). I'd say the best thing about working with TDR is getting to outsource the physically, mentally, and emotionally exhausting process of searching for a life partner. We seek professional help in other aspects of our lives, why not this crucial one as well? My life has completely changed for the better thanks to Christie and the TDR team. No more lonely nights binge watching Netflix, wishing that my love will come my way. Instead, my future husband is in the kitchen preparing a lovely meal for baby and me while we listen and enjoy music offering from public radio together.
Sunny, 40
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Sunny & John. Married, 2019.
Michela is a wonderful, supportive mentor in the the TDR process. I felt that her efforts to get know me and who I was looking for were genuine and thorough. She maintains frequent contact but is not too intrusive. She offers support and guidance if need be as well as lots of encouragement. Upbeat and positive, you know that she will put maximal effort into making this work for you. She is also realistic and listened to my feedback as she introduced me to some wonderful people that I would have never met on my own. It was such a refreshing change and personal interaction that differs so much from our world's trend to all things digital. I would highly recommend Michela to anyone and have already referred friends to her!
Beck, 47
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David & Lauren. Married, 2019.
TDR is the real deal and worth the expense. My Matchmaker assured me that TDR was invested in getting me results, that they wouldn't just send me matches to meet the match quota, and that they would be responsive to my feedback about my matches. That's exactly how my experience played out. The debrief process and date coaching alone made the experience worthwhile - I learned a lot about what matters to me, how I perceive others, and how others perceive me. My Matchmaker also gave advice about my dates with people I met on my own. When I signed up, I understood that no Matchmaker could guarantee they would find me the perfect person (though TDR ultimately did!). What I can say with confidence is that TDR is an ethical company that cares about keeping clients satisfied. I've been in a TDR-matched relationship (my 6th match) for a little over a year now, and I have no doubt that I owe the relationship to TDR. He was and is exactly the kind of man I told her I was looking for, but I never would have known that if she hadn't shepherded me along with advice and encouragement after our early dates. Based on my experience, I've referred several people to TDR (including coworkers, friends, and friends of family).
Lauren, 32
Meeting Callie was like meeting a friend over coffee. We talked about what kind of things I like, and what kind of things to look for in my future partner. When I read the description of me that was sent to my now husband, Jason, as an introduction, I was surprised at how correctly Callie captured me in a few sentences, and delivered who I was in a meaningful and hopeful tone. It is absolutely true that without Callie and TDR, I would not have met Jason - a warm-hearted, goofy, hard-working guy that is my better half. We are both doctors with busy schedules who were living in different cities. For that I'm deeply grateful, and I've been recommending TDR for all my single friends!
Natalie , 41
There is no other matchmaking company that compares in terms of authenticity and curated service. Brittney is a true asset to Three Day Rule. She is a genuinely kind person which makes it easy to trust her from the get go. I also felt that she served as my advocate as opposed to simply sending me on dates with just anyone to check off some list, as friends have experienced with other companies. Brittney is a true professional with impeccable follow through and an innate ability to ask the right questions to develop a real understanding of my goals and needs. Her positive outlook and insight definitely helped allay anxiety with the process. All of my dates were a positive experience.
Sarah, 46
I can't say enough great things about my experience working with Callie. Not only is she amazing at her job, but she's also positive and personable - it makes working with her easy and fun! As soon as you meet her, you can tell that she's incredibly capable and really respects and values her clients. While the experience is fun and enlightening, I do encourage people to remember that this is a process. Callie is exceptional about taking feedback and lessons learned from previous matches and applying it correctly in her search for the next match. The sixth and final match Callie sent me was the winner. I can't even put into words how amazing our first date was - and every day since then has been better. I was honestly at a point where I was afraid I would never find anyone compatible, and I'm so grateful for my experience with Callie. Callie is truly amazing at what she does and my partner and I are both so thankful for her hard work, amazing intuition, and incredibly friendly and supportive approach to matchmaking!
Megan, 33
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Nate & Souji. Married, 2018.
Our experience with Three Day Rule has been nothing short of life changing and we have both Brittney and Michela to thank for helping us cross paths. They genuinely care for their clients, take the time to get to know you, and what you are looking for in a partner. The process is very different from the everyday online singles sites, which we both have tried in the past. There is no computer algorithm finding the best matches for you, rather real people searching for matches that fit your personality and long term goals. For two very busy professionals, the idea of having a Matchmaker, with our best interests in mind was very refreshing. After your Matchmaker gets to know you, it feels like you are going on a date that was set up by a good friend. The entire process is much more personable and the quality of a ‘match’ is a better fit. While TDR cannot guarantee love and marriage, it worked for Souji and I. We are so grateful for the guidance and support that our Matchmakers provided. Souji and I were married in October of 2018. Taking the leap and joining TDR was one of the best decisions each of us has made. We highly recommend the TDR process!
Nate, 41
Meeting Jaime was the best decision I ever made. I was able to tell her everything about what I wanted and she wanted to hear it all! When Jaime followed up a couple of days later to introduce me to Adam, I was excited. I couldn't be happier or more in love. Adam is the love of my life. Unlike other guys I met, he was serious about being in a relationship and knew what he wanted. I feel so incredibly grateful to be with Adam and it's all because of Jamie and TDR.
Sherri, 32
I thought the difference between having a matchmaker and doing self-directed dating would be like the difference between recruiting employees yourself and using a professional recruiter.  But after experiencing TDR's matchmaking, I realized it's a much bigger difference because TDR eliminates a lot of stress, anxiety & decision points. The user experience for your personal matchmaking is incredibly delightful. I couldn't be more satisfied with the whole process.
Ron, 47
Michal is such a lovely, supportive person, who is easy to open up to and quickly got to know me well, even going far out of her comfort zone to experience one of my interests. Michal sought to highlight the things that make me unique and find matches that would appreciate those things, never suggesting I change or not share all of myself. Every introduction she made resulted in a good date - even if it was only one date, I felt my time was well spent. I am currently dating one of my matches and Michal has continued supporting me as I have had relationship questions and helped get things off to a great start! I am excited for the future and so glad I made the decision to hire Michal!
Tamara, 33
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Greg & Karen. In a Relationship, 2016.
What I appreciated most about working with Caitlin was how expertly and honestly she was able to zero in on what I wanted, and then introduce me to exactly that type of person. But Caitlin and I didn't arrive at my type overnight. We invested a lot of time to determine that over the course of several weeks with numerous meetings and calls. It was a true team effort. And never once did I feel judged, rushed, or unfairly treated. Caitlin had my best interests in mind at all times and I met several fantastic women I would never have met on my own. I am truly grateful to have met and worked with Caitlin.
Ryan, 45
Erika has a gift. She wasn't just checking off boxes and answering pre-made questionnaires-- she was actually really focused on getting to know what makes me different, and beyond all the details and demographic requests, she really came to 'get' me as a person. She introduced me to some really remarkable and beautiful people. And there is absolutely no way that I would have met these women on my own or by swiping right on some app. They are the kind of people that you imagine must be out there, but you never meet. Erika could probably do a lot of different things professionally, and she'd be good at them all. But I really think that this is her calling, because she has the rare ability to actually change someone's life profoundly.
Stuart, 43
Good things come to those who wait. Although it took a little time to find the right match, I have to thank TDR for finding Greg! We are two plus years into our relationship and currently living together. We would have never met without TDR!
Karen, 51
After several unsuccessful attempts using other matchmaking services, It was an understatement to say I was not particularly interested in trying another. I spoke with Jaime several times over a 3 week period, including a long session to cover the failures of the past and my concerns moving forward. Jaime was encouraging, had excellent questions, and presented different scenarios so that she could determine a truly exceptional match. I was impressed with the profile of my first date- but still slightly skeptical. While Melanie and I have only been out on two dates (planning our third), I am extremely optimistic. TDR was able to introduce me to wonderful women who is a match intellectually, emotionally and athletically, and is truly beautiful on the inside and out. I see a very bright future!
Matt, 53
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Jack & Jessica. Married, 2015.
Three Day Rule is quite awesome. If you are ready to jump in with your whole heart, you absolutely will find love, and be on a rocketship with positive emotional growth in all aspects of your life. Natasha does an amazing job of listening to a client's needs, both spoken and unspoken, and she helps you hone in on what you are looking for, through a very interesting process where you get to really examine whether what you ask for is exactly right for you, or if you need to make a few modifications about what you want. I met someone quite amazing about a month after I started with TDR... and while in my case I met this person through my church, TDR's process and their coaching really helped with making sure I fully jumped back into life and became my best self, every day. I also really admire the values of all of the TDR employees - Talia has really set up a kind, thoughtful, amazing company that embodies the best in humanity and the entire TDR staff. Natasha and Carla, the two matchmakers I have been paired with have amazing hearts, a depth of compassion that you feel with your very best friends. Quite honestly, if you've made the commitment to be your best self and you listen to their advice, Three Day Rule will add rocketfuel to your emotional growth process and there is a pretty high probability you will find love along the way. :)
Aidan, 36
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David & Adelle. Married, 2015.
I get paid to talk to people. It comes easily to me. However, I readily admit I was nervous prior to meeting with Callie. And that was unsettling to me because it's not normal. What kinds of questions was she going to ask me? Was she going to do a mental once over before we even started talking? Did I pick the right clothes to wear? But, despite what felt like stage fright to me, within about 10 seconds of sitting down, Callie had me completely at ease. It was as if you were sitting down with a friend of 10 years talking about your dating life. Sure, there were tough questions about what I am looking for in a match. But, again, Callie has a way of asking these tough but important questions in a way that doesn't make you feel small or that somehow she is judging you based on your answers. Callie and I kept in touch via email after that first meeting and it was clear to me from the beginning that she is a strong advocate for her clients. The world of online dating apps is a crazy and frustrating minefield of good and bad potential dates. Having someone like Callie and TDR vetting potential matches made me feel very secure in agreeing to see someone. If they passed the Callie test, then there is something positive and exciting there. It goes back to that trusted friend of 10 years looking to set you up with another friend of hers. Having that friend looking out for me is why I came to TDR in the first place. Thank you, Callie!
Braden, 49
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Initially signing up for TDR was exciting, but I wasn't exactly sure what I was getting myself into. Jaime made the entire experience as wonderful as it could possibly be. Throughout the whole process I not only was able to meet and learn from each match that Jaime provided, but I also learned about myself. Looking back on the entire process, the constant feedback from Jaime not only helped my dating life, but also helped me grow as a person. I cannot thank Jaime enough for everything , including setting me up with a woman that I have created something special with and call my best friend.
Adam, 28
I couldn't be more happy that I signed up for TDR. Nora is incredibly sharp, personable and thoughtful, and she did a great job of really getting to know me and what I was looking for in a match. After meeting numerous potential matches, she carefully selected the ones she thought would be a great fit, and she couldn't have been more spot on. My second match quickly turned into a real relationship with an amazing person. When I consider the countless hours and energy I would have wasted on dating apps and on mediocre dates, TDR turned out to be a great investment!
Tommy, 30
I have had the most wonderful, fulfilling, inspiring and educational experience with Devyn from the minute we met. If this sounds like a girl crush, it’s because it is! But guys, trust me – you’ll love her, too (as your Matchmaker, of course). I was hesitant at first to join TDR – I date a lot on my own – but I knew something had to change, and it really was because of Devyn that I joined. She really understands people and personalities, and is hugely insightful about relationships. She has a way of asking the right questions to get to know you, what you want (or what you think you want) and you’ll find that she understands you better than you do. Devyn is patient and has taken a significant amount of time to get to know me, talk about my dating experiences (the good, the bad, the ugly), and help me learn from it all. If I am feeling mad, sad or defensive, I leave every single conversation with Devyn feeling better, more positive, more insightful, more ready than ever. Devyn is my biggest supporter, my coach, and now my friend.
Briana, 37
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Chris & Roni. Married, 2014.
I think every single person who has a busy professional life should give Three Day Rule a try. For me, Pre-TDR dating in New York City was like getting lost in the ocean - it is exhausting, aimless, and stressful. I got serious burnout from endless swipes and dead-end conversations online. I am so grateful that I acted upon the advice of a friend and took a leap of faith to meet with my matchmakers Becky and Caitlin. They are extremely thoughtful and communicative and always remember to check in to see where I stand in the process. When I received my first match - I was like "Wow I think these ladies really get me!" I feel like now I can focus on getting to know the person in front me without the constant FOMO that I have to attend every social event in order not to miss the "one"! I can't wait to receive my next match from Becky. With the help of my matchmakers, dating has finally become personal and fun again for me!
Ashley, 33
After working overseas for a few years and coming out of back-to-back long-term relationships, I found myself in a dating world I hardly recognized. As a single woman verging on forty, I felt the rules and how couples meet and connect had changed dramatically since the last time I was single. I couldn't figure out how to connect with men swiping right or left and all of my friends had long coupled off and were out of the game. I clearly needed some help and started looking into matchmakers. Fairly early on, Callie introduced me to Chris and we've been together for about four months! In addition to having good instincts and an amazing network, Callie was the objective set of eyes and ears that I needed. I recommend Callie and TDR to anyone who does need a little extra nudge or looking to recalibrate their dating life and strategies. Having Callie help me navigate the possibilities has been invaluable and I'm grateful for her help!
Alicia, 39
I'm so grateful for the women of Three Day Rule and their ability to successfully put people together. They took the qualities I was looking for, listened to the type of guy I wanted in my life, and like magic, found a perfect match! They pick your brain and dedicate their time to you. I'm madly in love, completely fulfilled and incredibly happy. I highly recommend letting these ladies get to work to find your soul mate!
Jennifer, 31
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Mona & Darcell. In a Relationship, 2017.
My experience with Heather and the TDR team has been nothing short of terrific. From the first interview I had with them, to numerous contacts in presenting dates for me to meet, to their always-professional follow up, I’ve greatly valued my relationship with TDR. Importantly, they worked hard to understand the kind of person I am, and the kind of person I would best match up with. I’m happy to say that a couple of the introductions I’ve had via TDR have led to on-going relationships that I’m still enjoying.
Tom, 62
I scoured the New York area's matchmakers very diligently and after careful thought decided to go with TDR. What struck me right away was the matchmaker's genuine interest in me, really diving deep into who I am and what I require from a match. They were very patient as I was walked through the process, and very flexible as I negotiated what worked best for me. The most valuable part of this process has been my personal matchmaker, Becky, who has truly become a guide, wing-woman, friend and soul-sister. She is accessible, honest, and truly cares about me and what I desire. She is clearly interested in quality not quantity, and has very quickly figured out what resonates for me. Most importantly her feedback for me is delivered with the utmost care. She has found a way to gently point out a fresh perspective when needed, as well as to fight fiercely to represent me and my values if the situation calls for it. It feels amazing to have her by my side as I navigate finding a life partner. This has been a truly worthwhile experience for me, because of TDR's highly personalized approach to matchmaking... not found easily in NYC. :)
Sabiha, 39
Working with Marisa and Three Day Rule changed the course of my life. Suddenly widowed with children, I was a full time working parent with no time or emotional energy to actively keep up with dating apps, singles cruises or meet-ups. Before Marisa found Darcell for me, I had started giving up on finding anyone. In a beautiful way, Darcell and I connect on every level - we play music together, enjoy going to classical music concerts, the theatre, great restaurants and cafes - he has made me believe in love again! We are the same age and truly understand each other. I’m so grateful to Marisa for being so positive and encouraging through this whole process. For any busy professional, especially someone who has been widowed, Three Day Rule is a wonderful way to move forward in life.
Mona, 50
Tom and I look at each other frequently and remark, "I can't believe we met; we are so grateful." I am thankful that Jaime brought this wonderful man into my life. As single parents with busy careers, meeting the right person was proving to be impossible for both of us. Neither of us enjoyed the typical bar scene and with a high-visibility position in my profession, online dating was not an option for me. Jaime listened to what I was hoping to find in a partner and guided me with thoughtful questions--really helping me to see how my needs for partnership have changed since I was last single. And then Jaime found for me a person who is my complete compliment in every way! We have been together for a year and half now, our collective children are all family and we are planning the rest of our lives together. I cannot thank Jaime enough.
Stephanie, 40
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Kat & Kevin. Married, 2019.
Meeting people is easy. There's an app for that; several in fact. Meeting people you actually want to spend time with? That's altogether different. I love the idea of meeting people organically through friends, you get that all important filter on who you let in your life. But your friends have your own lives and there's only so much you can ask from them. I think that's why it was so great to work with Alexa: she approached you like a friend would, getting to know you and what you were looking for in a way that really gets you to think about what you want. It came together very fast, but in totally natural way and I'm grateful for having had the chance to meet Kat through her. And also, if I've not explicitly stated: Thank you. Kat's amazing, and I really love spending time with her. I know we never would have crossed paths without TDR and Alexa, and I'm reminded every day I'm with her that you know what you're doing. Keep up the great work!
Kevin, 35
I can’t recommend Three Day Rule highly enough for anyone who’s serious about meeting someone special. The service I got was friendly, personal, fun, and, honestly, helpful well beyond just introducing me to the most wonderful man! Alexa got to know me incredibly well incredibly quickly and set me up with someone who is everything I could ever ask for in a partner. She really went above and beyond and found someone I never could have met on my own, and kept in touch to continue to help me navigate the early part of our relationship. I’m so happy I decided to give TDR a try, and I’m so lucky to have gotten to work with Alexa, who made me feel like I had a wise and level-headed friend in my corner the whole time. I was able to tell her everything that was important to me in a relationship (and to figure out what was really important in the process) and then meet someone who met and exceeded every one of those expectations.
Kat, 26
I signed up with TDR with some hesitation. Like many people, my life does not necessarily lend itself to meeting new people -- I work (a lot!), most of my friends are in long-term relationships or married, and I am just too old to hit the bars. But, I was interested in finding a new relationship. A matchmaker sounded like just the ticket. My first match Callie sent me looked like an odd fit based on my past relationships, but I swore I would be open-minded about doing this, so I agreed to meet Evan. After the first date, I thought he found me uninteresting. But, since I enjoyed meeting him, I said I would see him again if he wanted to. Callie got feedback (invaluable to us meeting again), and Evan said he would like to so we went on date two. This time went better. And, every time since has been better still! We’ve been seeing each other for over a year now and are spending the holidays together. So, Callie was right and we were wrong about whether we made a good match—we do!
Marie, 50
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Marie & Evan. Engaged, 2018.
I started working with Erika after 6 months of being single. I had some dating fatigue from the apps and thought it would be a nice to have someone on the lookout for me. There were three parts of the process that I really enjoyed. Number one - the feedback: Erika gave me honest feedback about my pictures and image which turned out greatly magnifying my success with the apps. It's the honest feedback that people close to you won't always give. Erika also knew a lot of people on the apps so I could ask her advice before going out with them. Number two - the support: dating can get stressful and she always responded quickly and positively when I wanted to discuss my dating life. It's also nice after a bad date to know you have a friend in your corner that is extremely qualified to get you an amazing date. Number three - the Dates: all the dates were what I was looking for and good matches with my personality. With the apps you can go on a lot of dates and only be excited for a few, I was excited for pretty much all the dates she set me up on. It's pretty hard to get a perfect match each time, so I would suggest being patient. 6 dates didn't seem like much when I started working with Erika, but I'm glad I spent the extra money and did 6 instead of 3. Overall, Erika became a friend and someone who I will keep in touch with. So far, I haven't met the love of my life, but she put me in a good position to do so.
Dan, 35
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Adam & Stefanie. Engaged, 2018.
For those of you reading this that have been through the trenches with writing (and rewriting) profiles, trying to figure out the perfect picture to portray who you really are, all to lead to dead end conversations and dates that just aren’t up to snuff, the search is just over. DONE. Michal is a Matchmaker whose smile lights up a room and provided me with so much hope, right off the bat. She listened to a few of my tough dating stories (and some not so tough). She really wanted to know what was good about dates I had been on before - what made me smile, and what made me tick. She got to know me and what I wanted in a match that I didn’t know I deserved, or really how to get it. She was with me 100% of the way, from choosing outfits for my photo shoot, reminding me that I am a catch and that I have so much to bring to the table of a healthy, happy, loving, joyful relationship. She introduced me to Adam, and the rest is magic. We fell in love hard and fast, and we got engaged 7 months shy of our first date. When you know, you know. Michal has been an integral part of my life since she matched Adam and me. Part of the reason I was single so long was that I didn’t fully know how to love or be loved in a relationship. She has been a resource and a support every step of the way and I consider her a friend, confidant, and guru. I truly didn’t know I could really be THIS happy.
Stefanie, 35
Working with Elisa has been a great experience for me. I was initially hesitant on how this whole process would be because it was unlike anything that I had ever done before. Given the third party nature of this, I was worried that it could feel awkward or not feel very organic. As soon as I began working with Elisa, all of my apprehensions were easily put to rest. I cannot say enough good things about Elisa because she is so easy to work with. She is friendly, intelligent, thoughtful, personable, funny, and she truly cares about getting you an ideal match. Elisa facilitates open communication that thrives on feedback, which is key to a process like this. Elisa communicates with me in a manner in which I feel as though I am her friend and not her client. She works hard and is a natural at her job. I hope that you are fortunate enough to work with Elisa because she is talented, smart, passionate, socially intelligent, and such a pleasure to work with. She also has a wealth of knowledge when it comes to date recommendations when you do get a match. A process like this is only as good as the Matchmaker, and if you are able to work with Elisa, I am confident in saying that you will enjoy your experience as much as I have.
Joe, 40
Erika has not only done an unbelievably good job of introducing me to a string of amazing women, but she has also done a great job of listening to my feedback and nudging me to expand my horizons. Overall, it's been a very healthy balance for me, and I'm excited to continue working with her.
Joe, 40
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Ashley & Harrison. Married, 2013.
Working with TDR was great. It was a serious decision for me to work with a matchmaker and Nora put me at ease right away. Her sincerity and dedication to helping others find love came through in my first meeting with her. She listens to what you want and focuses on compatibility in her matches. She also helped me to be more open minded! Nora introduced me to who I'm dating today and it's been a great experience! I'm very thankful to TDR and highly recommend working with Nora.
Callie, 40
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Cathy & Ted. In a Relationship, 2017.
I met Jaime of TDR at a party. When I spoke to her, I really liked her personal approach and the fact that she would introduce me to gentlemen who were compatible with my personality and tastes. As I had mediocre experiences with online services, I thought that TDR's approach was worth a try. I told Jaime that I was looking for a smart man who was caring and financially responsible, politically compatible and without young children. She introduced me to a couple of guys, and then she introduced me to Ted. We’ve been dating for almost a year and still going strong. Thanks Jaime!
Cathy, 58
I had been single for over 8 years when I met Heather at a networking event. I was really excited to meet with her to see if Three Day Rule would be able to help me get past some of my dating roadblocks and meet a great man. We sat down for an hour and she asked me all sorts of great questions that made me uncover many of the things that I didn't know I wanted and needed from a partner. Because of that conversation, I let go of some things that I had focused on attracting and started to think about the new qualities that I didn't even know until Heather asked! Three months later when I was on a dating site I found a man that I would have never thought was a good match for me but ended up being everything that I needed!! We have been together for 1 1/2 years now and are talking about getting engaged soon. Thank you SO much Heather for taking the time to ask the right questions so I could truly uncover the qualities for a partner that was perfect for me.
Natalie, 35
When I first came to TDR, I was in a negative place in terms of dating. I knew I needed to try something different. From the beginning, I knew this experience was special. My relationship with Callie grew beyond simply “client” and “matchmaker.” She was always available if I needed to chat, and she really tried to understand the essence of who I was and what I needed in a partner. Callie listened to the feedback I provided after each of my dates and actually applied it to the next match she would present me with, providing an objective lens in my dating life that you just can't get from an app. This led to her matching me with some remarkable people and eventually with Brian, who I felt an instant connection with. When I signed up for this I never expected to meet anyone as special as Brian. Heck, when I first separated from my ex, I was convinced nobody would ever date me at all. I absolutely never thought I would ever love again, or feel loved back -- AND I HAVE!!! Thank you, thank you, thank you, Callie! This experience was worth every penny and more.
Nicole, 36
Finding someone to share life with is very hard and very complicated. I’ve tried many ways to find the right person for me. With the advent of online dating, the ability to find people has grown and it has been great fun. However with hundreds of profiles that all seem to blur together eventually, I was finding it more and more difficult to meet someone right for me. I was in a rut and so I tried Three Day Rule. I figured I couldn’t keep doing the same thing over and over and expect the results to be different. I was apprehensive at first. I didn’t really know what matchmaking was nor how it would work. I did my research and narrowed my options to a few matchmaking companies. Then I met with Caitlin from Three Day Rule and she patiently explained how the process worked. I had a lot of questions. During that meeting I got a good sense that this was more than just a paycheck to her. She really seems to enjoy her work of bringing people together. She asked me a lot of questions about who I was and what I was looking for; drilling down pretty deeply to fully understand me. I thought she would put a lot of thought into who I was and what kind of woman would be compatible for me. I was not disappointed. All the women she set me up with were charming and full of life. She spent a lot of time looking for good matches for me. So instead of an algorithm searching keywords and grouping people based on distance and age, I got a perceptive and empathic human who put real thought into what would work for me. I’m really happy with how the process is turning out. I am currently in a relationship with one of my matches. It has been going well. I’m excited to see where it leads.
Shinji, 40
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Shinji & Carole. In a Relationship, 2018.
Jaime is a true Matchmaker, her expertise ranges from providing valuable feedback and insight to hand selecting quality matches. I am now in an awesome relationship with someone I would have never met had it not been for TDR. Emily and I are so happy and plan to move in together soon! I would highly recommend working with Jaime and TDR to any singles out there!
Jay, 36
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Emily & Jay. In a Relationship, 2018.
I was trying to move on from a break up that had left me heartbroken. From my first meeting with Heather, I knew she was the perfect person to help me find someone special. Heather is very open, honest, and an amazing listener. I think what makes Heather so successful is that she truly cares about her clients and was genuinely interested in finding out who I was as a person and what motivated me. She introduced me to several wonderful women, and I went on many fun and exciting dates around Chicago. I would recommend anyone who is curious about TDR to at least meet with a matchmaker to find out what they are all about!
Randy, 28
Three Day Rule changed my life. As soon as I opened my mind and my heart to the process, everything came together. Meeting with my Matchmaker, Katie, and getting specialized attention to assess my values was fun and exciting. I could tell that Katie had my best interests at heart from the get go. Dating in any city (especially a large city like Los Angeles) can be daunting and TDR made everything so much less stressful. I met a couple of guys through the service who were not quite right but after each date I spoke with my Matchmaker and we discussed and strategized. Then she introduced me to my now fiance. I cannot thank Talia, Katie, and the entire team enough.
Elizabeth, 28
I chose TDR for two reasons - I was too busy at my job to find dates and I realized that I kept dating the same type of disastrous guy. I am glad I did! The whole process was easy, which is exactly what I needed. I was able to focus on my job and still pursue love. More importantly, Jaime didn't set me up with "my type". Instead she set me up with someone compatible - my husband. We are partners in every sense of the word. I am so glad TDR helped us find each other!
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Bob & Amanda. Engaged, 2019.
Krissy was such a pleasure to work with, she made me feel comfortable throughout the entire process. She really understood what I was looking for in a relationship and helped me find exactly what I wanted. I’m in an amazing relationship thanks to Krissy, and I would highly recommend Three Day Rule to anyone who is looking for a deep connection. Bob, my boyfriend, said I should say that "Krissy lit the match in matchmaking" - he cracks me up, one of his many charming qualities that I love!
Amanda, 38
When Kara first reached out to me to sit down for coffee and discuss what I was looking for with regard to dating, I almost thought it was too good to be true. Having an in-person conversation is truly a luxury in the world where swiping reigns supreme. Kara is so passionate about getting to know her clients and her warm personality and excited "Eeee's" made her so easy and fun to talk to. I really felt like she got to know me and exactly what I was looking for and she always has incredible insight and dating advice. Being in the TDR pool has given me the peace of mind that there is a chance for a genuine connection beyond swiping through filtered photos on an app and I feel so lucky that Kara is always on the lookout for the perfect "fox". She is the absolute best and I would recommend her to anyone!
Kelly, 33
I started working with the Three Day Rule over the summer and it's been a really eye-opening experience. I never thought I would be the type of person to use a matchmaking service but when I met Lora, my Matchmaker, I realized that I've been crazy to not use it sooner. Lora is my age (31), is super chill, and really gets me. She took and still takes the time to really understand my needs and so far has set me up with some pretty great guys, one of which I dated for a couple of months. These guys are not like anything I would have met on a dating app, and it's really been wonderful. The process as been a little therapeutic and I've been less stressed about dating since starting. I really believe that if I meet the person of my dreams it will be through TDR and thanks to Lora. I would highly recommend joining their free pool if you can't do the full service, but think the investment is worth it if you're on the fence about going the full way!
Emma, 31
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Oliver & Lexi. Engaged, 2018.
TDR basically provided a monthly-man-in-my-inbox! Callie was so good about checking in, providing feedback, and sending encouraging thoughts. Callie found me an amazing relationship. I fell in love! It didn't work out, but I now know what I want..and know love is possible again!
Martha, 36
I’ve entered a new phase of my life where I’m looking for a serious, lasting relationship, and I turned to TDR after struggling with online dating. Finding women to date casually was easy, but finding women ready for something deeper wasn’t. Although I had reservations about working with a Matchmaker initially, Callie made the process easy and exciting. Callie went out of her way to get to know me and what I’m looking for. I can’t say enough about the amount of time she’s spent with me, the careful consideration she’s given to what I’d like to find in a partner, and the importance of what I’ve learned from her guidance. Most importantly, Callie found me amazing matches whom I never would have met on my own – including a wonderful woman I’ve been dating for several months! Callie’s an incredible Matchmaker and I’d recommend her (and TDR) to anyone looking for a fresh approach to finding the right person.
Joshua, 40
The past few months with TDR have been great. Danika, the matchmaker I worked with, was really professional throughout. I know that she was always rooting for me. I had more confidence as I went through the dates with the matches she found and I felt a lot of anxiety and stress taken off of my shoulders. Before signing up, I had zero experience in dating. I think I've gotten more confident as I have gotten more feedback - utilizing the two free date coaching sessions also helped. The matches got better progressively and I could feel that I was getting better too! My last match seems to want to go on a second date. Great progress in my opinion. It was a good experience and I would definitely recommend it.
Suhil, 26
Working with TDR has taken the pressure out of dating and has made finding the right person fun again! There’s nothing better than knowing that there’s someone out there looking for your right match for you. You will instantly feel at ease when you meet Kelsey - each time I met her I felt like I was meeting up with a very close friend. Working with Kelsey through this whole process has been nothing but the best experience and I would recommend it to anyone who’s looking for help to find their right match. Kelsey is so kind, genuine, positive, and is truly passionate about getting to know her clients and helping them to find a quality person looking for the same things that they are. I only wish I had done this sooner. The matchmakers really get to know you, they know what you are looking for and they take the time to get to know your potential matches to ensure that there’s a great first date! I would recommend TDR to anyone who’s burnt out on all the apps and who’s really serious about meeting some really great quality people! I’m so grateful to Kelsey & TDR for making dating fun again!
Sierra, 30
Up to the point that I met Kara, I had been hoping and praying to meet the right person. There was something within me that felt stuck, that perhaps wondered if I deserved such love or if such love existed. Then, I accepted a meeting with Kara and that in itself is unusual as I normally was not be open to reaching out to a coach. But I did and the moment I spoke to Kara I felt she was genuine, authentic, and sincere. She asked me all the right questions and shared all the right insight that opened something up in me. I left my conversion with her feeling more hopeful than ever and knowing that I deserve amazing love. I recently met someone who has filled my life with love, lots of affection, and faith for the future. Sometimes in life we need that one person to set us up to receive miracles. Thank you Kara for being that person to unblock my doubts, wounds, and give me a tiny push to continue to believe that love is really possible.
Veronica, 44
Talia and her team are genuinely gifted at what they do. They are courteous, professional, and kind. Talia really took the time to listen to the type of man I wanted to meet and truly paid attention to all details, concerns, hopes, and long-term goals. She is extremely thoughtful, knowledgeable, and realistic - providing a sense of security and positivity throughout the dating process. Give it time, be patient, and learn from every experience. It WILL happen! Three Day Rule is the perfect boost for anyone looking for true, long-term love. I'm so incredibly happy and grateful as I’ve met the man of my dreams.
Jade, 31
I joined TDR in late 2014. I was extremely skeptical of the process and fell more into the idea simply based on the energy, optimism, and positive attitude of my matchmaker, Erika. She was a pleasure to work with and made the process feel more like two friends gabbing, which inherently made me more comfortable! By February of 2015, I met my current boyfriend through TDR and am still very happily and exclusively dating him. The experience itself was eye-opening and helped me out of my comfort zone and on dates I may not have pursued through an online dating profile.
Madeline, 37
After recently getting divorced, I tried the online dating thing. I found that I wasn't meeting the caliber of women that I wanted to meet or date. After filling out an application for TDR, I met up with TDR matchmaker, who worked to set me up on a date with an awesome woman that I am currently dating. Thanks, TDR!
Mark, 46
Working with Carla, my Three Day Rule matchmaker, was the best! She spent the time to get a sense for who I was and introduced me to great matches. Her feedback and advice after dates were always spot on. Out of all the matchmakers I worked with, she had the most genuine sense of empathy and professionalism.
Bryan, 33
Working with Jaime has been a very enjoyable experience. She did an excellent job of listening to my thoughts and was always willing to give advice and feedback that was extremely helpful. Throughout the whole matchmaking experience, Jaime was able to introduce me to women that were each more amazing than the last. If I had to do it all over again, there is no doubt that I would work with her again.
James, 26
I wanted to take a moment to thank Adelle for everything so far. I was a bit skeptical on the whole process, but went with my instinct, which told me Adelle knew what she was doing. I'm glad I did. Dating in LA is crazy, and while it's easy to get dates, it's difficult to find quality people - and nearly impossible to find quality people that have similar interests and values. Yet Adelle has delivered on two of two occasions. Not only has she delivered, she has knocked it out of the park! I'm extremely impressed with the quality of the matches and their similarity to what I described I was looking for in a partner.
Colin, 37
At first, it was a little nerve wracking because you're letting someone else go through a database of potential matches - what if they missed or overlooked the perfect match? But, at the same time, it took a lot of pressure off by not having to go out there and meet people at bars or doing the online thing (I've never experienced anything more miserable). I'm currently dating my last match from Jaime. We met 3 months ago and we're beyond happy and excited. I would definitely recommend working with TDR and Jaime.
Jasmine, 35
I had a very good experience with Adelle. I'm busy and it's very easy for me to not think about dating, and it was great to have the feeling that someone else was working on that for me while I could go about my daily life. A lot of the anxiety about dating comes after the date, and I was pleasantly surprised about how helpful Adelle was with that.
Christine, 37
I was hesitant about matchmaking, but once I met Erika I knew I was in good hands. She was easy to talk to and really took the time to get to know me and what it is I am looking for. She didn't just throw matches at me, she took the time to make sure my matches were with quality men. I met some great guys that I would not have met otherwise. If you're sick of the online dating world, I would definitely recommend Erika and TDR.
Sandy, 28
After a friend's suggestion during a dating slump, I met with the TDR team and told them what I was looking for in a match. After just one meeting, they definitely understood what I wanted and set me up with great guy. We are going on date 5, and I'm really excited for more to come. I am grateful I took my pal's advice so take mine: reach out to the women of 'Three Day Rule' if you are ready to get serious about meeting your match.
Erin, 27
Thanks to Erika for being a kickass matchmaker. I've learned a great deal about myself and what I put out there to men in the journey. It's been a unique purview for me into myself, really, and I'm glad I worked with TDR. Marco was a complete gentleman and I really enjoyed speaking to him. I think there is definitely compatibility so would be open to another date. He was super and only right to be the last match as he's met my criteria pretty well.
Sheree, 33
Three Day Rule's events are great. Rather than being formal, matchmaking functions, they are more laid back and there is no pressure to walk out with a phone number. You can literally go to an event with the sole purpose of having fun with your friends and there is a good chance you will just end up in a conversation with a like-minded member of the opposite sex. That's what happened to me. I met an interesting girl at a TDR event and we are now engaged!
Dan, 35
I made the best choice by joining Three Day Rule. I recently got matched, and couldn't have asked for someone more amazing. I trust my matchmaker, Marisa, and my experience has just been amazing so far. I can't wait to see what the future brings.
Paul, 26
I’ve gotten a few messages from other matchmakers (though I’ve unsubscribed from them now), and I have to say your profile descriptions, profile building, and your whole process was so much better. Everything about my TDR experience seemed so much more personal and genuine, whereas their messages felt very formalized/templatized. If I know anyone in the market in the future, I will definitely not hesitate to refer them your way.
David, 42
Being part of the free pool, I have been so impressed with my experience working with TDR! Heather really took the time to get to know me. Dating can be so exhausting, especially when using the dating apps. TDR does the initial legwork for me by introducing me to really great men who have been hand-picked based on our mutual interests, values, preferences, etc. I can count on TDR to thoughtfully match me with someone who has good intentions, is actually looking for a relationship, and who just may be the man of my dreams!
Kara, 36
TDR is a welcome respite from the world of swiping and clicking. It is a more personal form of dating that seems to be lacking in our modern world, a more "quality than quantity". From the initial interview, to setting up first dates, working with my matchmaker Brianna has been a great experience. Anytime I have any questions, Brianna is there to answer them. From potential date ideas to updates on our search, it's like a guided hand through the seas of dating.
Ian, 33
I had the pleasure of working with Caitlin as a client in 2016. She struck me as highly personable, upbeat, and genuine. It was easy to relate to her and talk about even very personal details. Within minutes, I found myself thinking that she was perfect for her job. My admiration for her only grew during the following months. Not only did she show great care, diligence, professionalism, and ingenuity in making arrangements for me, but her follow-ups showed a serious commitment to her job and, even more importantly, to her client. I have been lucky having been able to work with her, and I congratulate everyone who will be fortunate enough to do so in the future. She is outstanding at her job, and will be highly successful in the future.
Wayne, 48
I wanted to thank you for sending me Kara, my wingwoman! Kara is a wonderful person and is such a joy - I cannot say enough great things about her. Kara is not only helping me navigate though the dating process, but I am also growing as a person because of her insight. She has been such a positive influence for me. Three Day Rule is so very lucky to have her - she is an asset for any company!
Lea, 56
It was amazing having Allison as my matchmaker and looking out for me through this experience. Going through this experience has taught me to invest in personal relationships, which had previously been on hold as I focused on my career. It was a great experience and can only say good things about having someone on your side looking for your match in life. This was especially important to me given that I personally did not have time and was out of the country so often. Allison was amazing and on top of everything and it felt like she was personally invested in the success of matches. Keep doing what you are doing, and looking out for those seeking a lifetime partner!
Max, 35
I've been working with Caitlin for some time and have always been deeply impressed by her amazing way of being empathetic with other people's situations and full of positive energy. The following qualities make her especially good at her job -- being understanding, fully relating to her clients, and being able to give great insights. I really enjoy working with her and she has become a dear friend of mine.
Jen, 27
I truly believe that I needed to go on the dating journey I did with TDR to find my match, and Nora supported me through that journey. I appreciate that Nora was always willing to listen and offer support, and the time she put into finding me matches and helping me through those dates and decisions as well. I think so many people would benefit from the experience Nora provided, and I continue to share my story of working with her to friends.
Rosa, 36
It was a pleasure working with Lauren. From the moment we met I knew we would get along well. She listens and seeks to understand with true authenticity. We quickly and easily engaged in meaningful discussions about my goals and wish list for a relationship. She personally met with potential matches and screened thoroughly for the person who presented himself as the perfect fit for me. She never settled and had my best interest in mind during the entire process. In summary, Lauren is caring, authentic, and goes above and beyond for her clients.
Lena, 56
Simply put - Michal was meant to be a matchmaker. Michal’s warm and energetic personality immediately enabled me to feel at ease and open up. In our first meeting, I felt as if I knew her for years - telling my journey and the type of person I’m looking for to share my life. She has a natural ability to connect with people and you can feel her passion for bringing people together to find love and companionship.
Jared, 35
Working with Brittney has been an absolute pleasure! As a founder of a start-up, time is extremely valuable, and it's important to work with highly efficient people. Brittney not only goes above and beyond when it comes to finding an appropriate match, but does so in an expedient manner. I highly recommend working with her!
Matthias, 38
I have thoroughly enjoyed my time working with Three Day Rule in general, and Christie in particular. After being married for 28 years, I was terrified about trying online dating. I know I am too shy to go to bars or parties and sell myself, but I have been thrilled to find TDR and know they are such an easy and successful alternative. My "Yenta" Christie has made great efforts to get to know me and to really learn what I want and need; often talking with and treating me more like a friend than a client. I truly feel like she is on a personal mission to find me that perfect person. I have had several great matches so far, and though none have blossomed romantically, a few have remained friends, and the matches feel like they are getting closer to perfect each time I get one. Christie respects my personal style and pace of dating, and seems to have such a great handle on how to work with me gently and successfully. I feel totally safe and protected in her hands as I go through this process. I think in today’s age where meeting quality people can be so difficult, Three Day rule is a great alternative to the harshness of online dating. I am thrilled with the quality of people I have met so far, and I have full faith that through Christie and TDR, I will find the next true love of my life. After years of relationship trauma, true happiness feels like it is just around the corner.
Stuart, 55
Carla is such a dedicated, committed, and insightful matchmaker who worked hard to make my dream relationship come true! She really worked to understand what is important to me, and has done such a great job working towards making it happen!
Jasper, 48
I am very happy that I took the plunge and started working with TDR. I have had a great experience working with Brianna. Brianna’s matches have shown thought and effort to meet my needs. I can tell she puts effort in and that she truly cares about me being happy with my match. She is always available to take calls, provide advice and is easy to talk to. I highly recommend her!
Ben, 37
I have been divorced for over two-years and initially started using the standard dating apps. I spent countless hours seeking out matches, then talking to many women and planning dates through the week that ended up as dead ends because I didn’t have the time to conduct proper due-diligence. I was initially impressed with Devyn's enthusiasm and professional attitude she brought to the dating process. She took the time to learn about me and quickly understand the important attributes that I was seeking in a partner. Prior to TDR, I was exhausted by spending many hours prospecting and planning dates - once I signed up for TDR, Devyn spent time conducting the due diligence for each date. She presented to me an amazing match from the outset that was better than anyone I met prior. Thank you TDR!
Garrett, 52
Morgan was always easy to reach and responded to all my questions and concerns very quickly and thoughtfully. She made me feel at ease through this nerve-wracking process, and even chatted with my friends to get a clearer picture of who I am and who I’m looking for. Morgan clearly puts her heart and soul into matchmaking.
Rachel, 32
I would highly recommend Three Day Rule to anyone who is starting over or for whom it’s been a while. As a widow, I was I nervous about getting back into dating. I felt like Jaime really took the time to get to know me, was incredibly insightful in answering my many, many questions, and was compassionate and supportive throughout the entire process. An added bonus of working with TDR are the professional photos, which make a huge difference in today’s dating world. Jaime and the entire TDR process had a big impact on boosting my dating confidence and helping me take those important first steps.
Pam, 56
After trying everything that most singletons have in terms of dating (from doing the online programs to being set up when the only commonality is that we are both single), my dear friends found out about Callie and TDR and convinced me to try it out. And I'm sure glad they did - meeting Callie is like a breath of fresh air! She takes the time to really understand you, while at the same time, you are learning more about yourself from answering her questions and talking with her. During my time working with Callie, I met interesting, eligible, quality men, but didn't quite find a connection with someone. But a few months after we stopped working together, Callie reached out and mentioned that she had a great guy in mind for me. And that's Callie - even after my contract ended, she's still looking out for me and kept me on her radar! It's only been two months of dating this guy, but I've enjoyed every moment. Thank you, Callie!
Leigh, 39
I truly enjoyed working with Krissy. She developed very early on a good sensibility about the types of guys I would match with. I appreciated not having to go through profiles and profiles of guys after work or on weekends and being able to relax or catch up on other personal activities I had put on hold. Krissy was extremely responsive and good at following up with me about dates as well as providing feedback from my matches. Over the few months that I worked with Krissy, I was able to focus more on the fun side of dating and of searching for a significant other. I'm still dating a couple of my matches and have really enjoyed my time with them so far. I'm so thankful for Krissy's help.
Betty, 43
If you are skeptical about using a Matchmaker, I completely understand because I was too. It costs money and the odds of connecting in this day and age are slim to none. However, I realized that despite being a social butterfly, I was not meeting the right guy on my own. And after one disappointing date after another, I decided to try something different. I’ll be honest, the early part of the process was not that smooth for me…the matches with whom I was being set up didn’t seem very different from the typical LA guys I was already meeting on my own. I had a heart-to-heart with my Matchmaker, who assured me things were about to change, and then she completely came through. I literally met my match…nice guy, similar values, well educated, thoughtful, driven, etc. Our first date lasted a few hours, and we are still going strong several months later. The connection we have is unlike anything either of us has experienced before, and I’m just so grateful to the team at TDR for introducing us.
Jacey, 37
I’m incredibly grateful for Devyn’s warmth, insight, and guidance after a lengthy hiatus from dating. What I most appreciate about her approach is her down-to-earth nature and responsiveness to individual needs. Not only did she support me in developing a more open attitude towards meeting and evaluating potential partners, but also she helped me reflect on past relationship patterns and clarify what I value most at this stage in my life. I never would have imagined that dating could be fun, but I met some great people and am currently in a new relationship with a terrific man.
Ella, 42
I have had a great experience working with Michal and TDR. As a young professional with a busy schedule who was sick of the online dating scene, TDR seemed worth a try. Once I started working with Michal I knew I made the right decision. Michal took the time to actually listen to what I was looking for, and was always available to chat. Through the process and with the feedback I received after each match I was able to gain a much better understanding of what I’m looking for in a match, which wouldn’t be possible without Michal. I can tell Michal truly cares about finding the right person for me, and I would highly recommend working with her!
Brooks, 29
As someone who was totally disenchanted by the dating scene and no longer confident in my abilities to find myself a partner, Erika was the breath of fresh air I so desperately needed. She is like having a supportive best friend, cheerleader and dating coach all rolled into one. I felt completely at ease to discuss anything about my dating life with her. Knowing she had my back throughout our time together gave me the chance to relax a little bit and trust the process. Whenever I would start to overthink things and get anxious, I could always count on Erika to take the brunt of my frustrations and get my head back in the game. I honestly think if I didn’t reach out to TDR I would still be making the same mistakes and cheating myself of the opportunities that are out there, but I just couldn’t see. I am forever grateful to Erika and her team!
Amy, 31
Approaching the idea of hiring a matchmaker was a difficult but exciting concept for me. The challenges of balancing family, a busy career, and meeting people were daunting and I had not had much success with online dating. Michal made me comfortable with TDR and the matchmaking process right away and gave me the confidence to move forward. She took the time to learn about where I am in life and where I want to go. She investigated my preferences for appearance, personality, education, location etc, and has found fulfilling matches for me. Michal has offered meaningful guidance on ways to approach the dating process which have increased my comfort level and enjoyment dramatically. I am thrilled to have partnered with Michal and Three Day Rule on this journey and I can’t wait to see where it leads.
Jonas, 50
The dating coach they picked for me, Alexis Sclamberg, she is pretty awesome, extremely insightful, and quite delightful. Interestingly, because I met such an amazing woman and hit it off so well there wasn't much left to do in the way of 'dating coaching', Alexis and I even started addressing other aspects of my life, such as work and family, AND Alexis is so helpful to the point of being able to foreshadow things a week or so before they occur. Pretty remarkable.
Aidan, 36
My experience with TDR and Brittney has been fantastic. I was very hesitant in signing up for yet another dating site. However, TDR is different, and after meeting Brittney (who is a very genuine person) and talking about my goals and what I was looking for, it felt like the right thing to do. After my interview with Brittney, I was like; wow she really cares and is going to give 100%. Brittney takes the time to personally meet with my matches and ensure that they are the right fit. When I have questions about the process or potential matches, Brittney makes herself available to have a quick phone conversation and she also responds quickly to e-mails. It is a relief that I have such a great person helping me search for that special someone. I highly recommend the TDR process and Brittney as your personal Matchmaker.
Nolan, 40
My favorite part of working with Elisa was definitely the coaching on wardrobe, texting, and boy secrets - those were definitely helpful things to me. Elisa was always positive on the phone and I know she worked hard to find matches for me. What I have gained from this experience is knowing what I’m looking for and what I’m not. I appreciate all Elisa's coaching during these couple months.
Debbie, 30
Danika introduced me to a wonderful lady to whom I am now engaged. This is my only experience with a Matchmaker and I couldn't have asked for anything more - thanks again, Danika!
Dean, 46
Morgan is the bomb. I’m an extremely private person and had no interest in the very public dating apps. Morgan really demystified the dating process for me and made dating accessible, easy, and fun. I met nothing but extraordinary women. Meeting Morgan changed my life.
Brad, 55
Natasha has a gift with people. She possesses a unique blend of empathy, warmth, intuition, and commitment making her well suited for the delicate business of matchmaking. She’s an all-around pleasure to work with.
Victoria, 56
Every match I met through TDR was a great person who I got along with, and every date was enjoyable. It was a much different experience than the countless messaging and swiping of online apps. Mainly, I really felt the matchmakers took time to get to know people on a deeper level and introduce them to someone they would connect with. There was one particularly lovely women that I hit it off with, but after the first two dates, she had to move away. We have remained connected since then and I’m happy to report a year later she and I are dating and happy.
Travis, 43
I also wanted to thank Alisa again for all her help. It was such a great learning experience. I feel like I learned more about myself and what I want and don't want in a partner and in a relationship. And I truly do appreciate all of her advice and pep talks.
Morgan, 29
Initially I wasn't sure about going through TDR to find the love of my life - after talking with Danika, I found her to be personable, intelligent, caring, and confident. Working with Danika was absolutely wonderful, we had great communication, and I got valuable advice from her. Shortly after I started working with Danika, she found someone who is truly special, loving, intelligent, and a great match for me, and whom I would have never otherwise crossed paths with. We are in a relationship and looking forward to many happy years to come. Working with Danika/TDR is one of the best investments!
Gwen, 49
My girlfriend and I gave things another good run, but it seems like we probably aren't meant to be, which means I'm back in the dating world again. I just wanted to send a quick note to thank my Matchmaker Erika. Last time this happened, I felt panicked and kinda hopeless. This time, I'm genuinely excited to see who else might be out there. I have so much more confidence (and plain competence) going into dates now, and already have a second date lined up with a really awesome girl tomorrow. Thanks so much for the "tough love" - I hated it at the time, but there's no denying the results.
Cameron, 27
My experience with TDR was nothing short of remarkable, after getting past my initial hesitation of engaging with a matchmaking service, I met my Matchmaker for coffee. She was very friendly and made the experience enjoyable. One of the highlights was the true depth of getting to know me and what I was interested in finding in a potential match. I was skeptical that they would be able to find anyone that came close to my laundry list of qualifications. To my surprise, I was matched with Karina, who exceeded all of my expectations. To say that we hit it off would be an understatement; these days we even talk about our six children! Haha, jokes aside, working with TDR was a stellar experience as they are a dedicated group of professionals who truly want the best outcome for their clients.
Javiar, 31
What a wonderful thing to have Callie as a partner in searching for the love of my life! Callie took time to get to know me and, with each match, she and I both learned a little more about the person I was seeking. Everyone I met through TDR was lovely but my final match from Callie was a match to last a lifetime. Marisa is one of the most generous, loving, honest and gorgeous people I’ve ever met. We are delighted to have found one another by way of TDR and are making lots of plans for the life we want to build together. Callie still checks in on us, and I can tell she's genuinely delighted to have helped me to find so much love and happiness. My heart is full and I am immensely grateful.
Rachel, 37
I was a bit skeptical about using a matchmaking service to begin with. After meeting Natalie in person, I was more excited about the process, she seemed to understand what I was looking for and noted that she already had some potential matches in mind. Javiar was my first match and things couldn't be going better. The best part of the process was that I felt like one of my best friends set me up. After our first date, Natalie followed up with both of us to see how the date went. It was so reassuring to know that Javiar felt as excited as I did. For the next few months Natalie continued to follow up and was anxious to hear about how our relationship was progressing. The process couldn't not have been more comfortable and I couldn't be happier to find someone as wonderful as Javiar.
Karina, 32
Erika was a great help and advisor in my quest for a mate. I was uncertain where to look and what to look for. Her prediction and suggestions were right on. Thank you.
Steve, 72
TDR was incredible to work with. They were proactive, patient, and had my best interests in mind at all times. Best of all, they set me up with an amazing woman whom I wouldn’t have found anywhere else. I am really excited about our future together!
Thomas, 39
Recently at a celebratory dinner, Jon and I thought to look back to the emails where we were introduced to each other (by Erika) sent January 28, 2015. Wonderful representations of us both and it happens to be that we will be getting married April 28, 2018, 3 years and 3 months from our “introduction”. Anyway, thank you, we are both so happy and whatever it was that propelled you to match us we will forever be grateful.
Marge, 39
I am beyond impressed with the professionalism and quality of Three Day Rule. From the first email, to the first meeting, to the interaction throughout my dates, TDR was incredibly respectful and helpful throughout the process. Not only did the man I meet through TDR impress me with the quality of the personnel that TDR interacts with, but TDR helped me to find my soulmate. From my first date with TDR, I was engaged within 7 months, and we are now planning our wedding. I could not be happier and TDR helped me find someone that I cannot imagine my life without. I am extremely grateful for TDR and highly recommend its services to anyone looking for true love.
Daia, 33
It has been a pleasure to work with TDR to find a potential life partner. The journey has been eye opening and definitely helped reshape my views of what I am truly looking for in someone. You have a huge asset in Brittany, my current Matchmaker. She is great at listening to my feedback and acting on it, her guidance is invaluable, and extremely responsive. If you guys can clone her and have more of her on your team, I am betting my last dollar that client satisfaction will go through the roof. I am having a great time working with her and she is someone I would consider a friend. It has been a great experience with TDR and I have and will not hesitate to continue to recommend your company to friends.
Damien, 46
Matchmaking is really not something I seriously considered prior to connecting with Bridgette and I was pretty anxious beforehand even after doing lots of internet research. But Bridgette is really, really well suited for her role. She exude's empathy and genuine interest and must have some kind of magic aura that puts people at ease because I cannot remember the last time I talked that much, let alone about myself. Maybe, ever. I feel hopeful and I was hyper-aware of that welcome & refreshing feeling on the walk to work this morning. I might have even felt a little more, dare I say, confident. Ultimately, I know that without trying this, I will definitely be in the same place three months from now. The hopeful chance that I could potentially be in a great relationship or, at the very least, more confident and aware of what I want, is the salient point that I'm clutching onto. Looking forward to having a partner in this adventure!
Joelle, 38
Elisa is an excellent Matchmaker because everything she says and does feels seamless, authentic and always heartfelt. She is always incredibly understanding, empathetic, sympathetic and always looking out for the bigger interest of her relationship with you - which might not be necessarily be solely about finding you a match. What I'm repeatedly reminded of in speaking with her is that the path to relationship is indeed a journey and the turmoils you face along the way - small or big - with either a guy you just started dating, a guy you have been dating or perhaps even a guy you're considering NOT dating anymore - should help you understand and realize more things about yourself and what you ultimately are seeking from a partner and life in general. I feel very lucky to have been paired with her, have the utmost respect for her, and trust that she has my best interests at heart. She is a gem!
Karisa, 34
When I signed up for Three Day Rule, I was coming off a self-imposed 5 year break from dating. My first date was, in a way, with Michal herself. Michal is a great listener - she really takes things in and made a great effort to get to know me and tease out what I wanted in a potential partner. Over the next few months we would spend hours talking over not only my matches and dating, but also our lives. Michal struck a tricky balance between addressing what I said I wanted and what I was not saying explicitly, but needed anyway. As an example, my first match did not satisfy all the "criteria" I had outlined in the beginning, but he was extremely personable and so incredibly kind - a perfect first date for someone getting back into the dating scene after a long absence. Michal guided me through that entire relationship, from the morning we chatted about that first date, to helping me come up with replies to ambiguous texts. Each subsequent match was clearly carefully deliberated. I could tell Michal made an effort to use my feedback from prior matches in selecting the next one. As the months passed, my idea of what was truly important to me in a partner had crystallized into something slightly different and more defined than the original; I'm not sure I would have gotten there without Michal's help. I'm thankful that she made dating feel fun and safe again.
Rachel, 35
I don’t write a ton of testimonials, but I felt compelled to write one about Natalie. Natalie is absolutely wonderful! First off, Natalie’s genuine care and sincerity came through the very first time we spoke. She is thorough and infuses her meetings with a playful and loving energy. She matched me with a man who I am extremely compatible with! I owe this success to Natalie’s amazing intuition and the dedicated time that she takes in her matchmaking search. Thank you Natalie for such a positive experience being set up by you!
Heather, 35
Caitlin was so much more than just a Matchmaker - she helped me learn more about myself, my tendencies, what I want in relationships, and what I can bring to a relationship. She helped me go beyond the relationship aspect of this program and try to figure out how to love myself first so that I could access all that I could bring to a relationship and be my best self.
Daci, 38
I’ve been a TDR client for a few months and to date I’ve had a great experience with the company and my Matchmaker Jaime. After trying a dating service with online Matchmakers in other cities and finding that too impersonal, I found TDR through researching DC Matchmakers. The website’s detail about how the process worked, the Matchmaker’s role, and testimonials piqued my interest. I appreciated that we could schedule an initial coffee meeting, during which I really connected with her and got the sense that she’s passionate about her role and would genuinely listen to what I want and advocate for me as my Matchmaker. One thing that is tremendously important to me is my Christian faith. It was clear she’d had other clients with similar religious backgrounds - she knew all the right questions to ask. I also especially liked that she promised to give honest advice throughout the dating process. I’ve found Jaime to be responsive, wise, and most pertinently, great at what she does. I’ve had three matches to date, and each has been quality - the latest the best yet! After each introduction we’ve debriefed as I’ve wanted, and her advice after those debriefs has been so helpful; I’ve felt they’re improving my dating skills. I’m looking forward to continuing to work with Jaime and praying and hoping I find love! I’d recommend Jaime and TDR to anyone who’s tired of having unsuccessful, fruitless experiences with online dating and other informal attempts to meet quality potential mates. You’re not guaranteed to find love, but I believe it’s a proactive, worthwhile investment you can make in an effort to get there.
Sade, 37
I can't say enough great things about Three Day Rule. I became a paid member in October of 2018. After my first match, my matchmaker had to move to New York because of family concerns. I was so impressed with how Three Day Rule handled the transition. Not only did they make sure there was a continuity of care, but they handed me over to Michal, who is (in my personal opinion) the best matchmaker out there. Michal was so thoughtful in getting to know me, in understanding what I was looking for, and in pushing me to go deeper and rethink my approach to dating. I've tried other matchmaking services before, but Three Day Rule is by far superior. The personal, caring, committed approach is second to none. While none of the matches have led to a relationship, the men Michal set me up with were a breath of fresh air. I had met so many men through online dating, but none of them were even remotely compatible. I simply could not see a long-term relationship with them. It had been so long since I met people that I actually wanted to see for a second or third time. On the other hand, the men I met through Three Day Rule were looking for serious relationships. They were ready to start their lives and were willing to date with some intention. They were complete gentlemen and, although we weren't ultimately suited for each other, were so much fun to get to know. I also truly appreciated the conversations I had with Michal after every single date. She listened intently to my feedback and challenged me or comforted me, depending on the situation. It is like having a best friend whose only concern in life is to find you love. If you are on the fence, I hope you take the plunge!
Aleena, 30
Prior to TDR, I was doing what most single women my age were doing. I was swiping left and right, putting myself out there in social settings and hoping that I would meet the man of my dreams reaching for the same head of lettuce at Whole Foods. As we all know, modern technology has both improved and destroyed the romance of dating and falling in love. Being a person who has done many years of therapy and personal development, I simply couldn’t figure out “why I was still single.” Over the Christmas holiday, I finally decided to give myself the gift of love, and invest in my quest for a meaningful relationship. Christie has been more than just a Matchmaker … she has been my confidant, a wise source of feedback and input, as well as my champion in the world of love. She has helped me learn more about my past relationship dynamics, what types of men are compatible for me, and helped me take a look at where there may have been discrepancies between what I want and what I feel I deserve. This has been a process of keeping the faith, holding the vision and believing that great love exists in this city of dreams. Christie has stood by me, searched, sorted and held my vision high, so that I can find the man that I want to enjoy the rest of my life with.
Isabelle, 35

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