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Three Day Rule is so different... It's such a smarter way to approach such a big, big decision in your life.

Corey and Wendy

Married, 2017.
I love working with Maia! Whether it’s before or after a date or just when discussing dating in general, she creates a safe space where you can share your innermost thoughts. She possesses incredible patience and the unique ability to distill your feelings into coherent thoughts. There were many times during the process when I felt lost or uncertain, but she was always there to help guide me. She’s kind and thoughtful and cares deeply about her clients. Her passion for helping others is evident throughout every moment of working with her.
Adam, 37
Lisa is the ultimate hype-woman, a treasured partner who has earned my absolute trust and I appreciate her tremendously. Contrasting the detached feeling of app-driven dates, Lisa’s advocating makes each date feel more respectful and bought-in like we share a mutual friend. Her introductions have been wonderful, two were maybe the best set ups of my life, and even the ones that weren’t the right fit were all great people who have helped me calibrate what I’m in fact looking for. Surprisingly, she was able to set me up with women that were exactly what I had thought I wanted, only for me to realize the things I was prioritizing weren’t as important; this enabled me to grow past my initial vision and evolve. I have never had a hard time meeting women or finding dates, but I recognize that picking a partner the most important decision of my life by an order of magnitude: In it, I’m wagering a significant percentage of my net worth and all of my happiness, why wouldn’t I deploy all available resources possible to make a great decision - there is no added glory in doing it alone. Thank you Lisa! *And if anyone reading this ever wants to chat directly with me I give her the option for her to introduce us. (Please make anonymous)
Tanner, 32
Michal and I met in 2019 when I wanted to join Three Day Rules free matchmaking pool. I was tired of online dating and wasn't having much success at all. She really listened to me as to what I was looking for and gave me some great advice. A few months later she contacted me with a potential match! I met him and everything just fell into place. It was as if we just clicked and knew each other from the start. We moved in together shortly after and are now happily engaged! I know we wouldn't have ever met if it wouldn't have been for Michal. I highly recommend her for someone who knows what they're looking for and doesn't want to play games online. Thanks Michal!
Amy, 35
I can not say enough good things about Elisa. She is truly top notch and knows her stuff. Elisa is kind, compassionate, and thorough. Elisa's support, advice and communication have helped me to be the best version of me- not just for dating, but across all areas of my life!
Julie, 37
I've had such a great experience working with Elisa and TDR! Elisa really took the time to get to know me and matched me with some great guys who checked off all my boxes (& more!). She has been a great communicator and listener, and has taught me a lot about myself when it comes to dating. Highly recommend!
Jennifer, 30
I signed up for Three Day Rule's three-month matchmaking service not really fully grasping what to expect and Three Day Rule really blew me away. Dating during this pandemic has been challenging and scary and the Three Day Rule team not only made it easy to safely date by vetting potential matches, but they also helped me enjoy dating again! I particularly enjoyed their holistic approach to matchmaking, from the styling session to the photoshoot and the initial consultation, their approach made it feel like I had a whole team rooting for me to find someone great (and boosting my confidence at the same time). My matchmaker, Lauren, and I had a great connection. She really listened to my goals and thoughtfully listened to my feedback. It was a fantastic process and I highly recommend going with Three Day Rule!
Jane, 31
Talia!! I cannot thank you enough. It is because of you that I met Vince who is truly my other half. He is everything I could have dreamed of in a partner and SOOO MUCH MORE! I am in love. I found my person. My life is full beyond words. Thank you!
Karla, 37
I can't say enough about how much I've enjoyed my experience with Nada as a matchmaker. She asks great questions, and her gentle nudges have helped me step out of my comfort zone. She's super empathetic, aware of the needs of others, and has strong people judgment. Finally, I've met several wonderful individuals through Nada, for which I'm grateful because I certainly wouldn't have met them otherwise.
Rita, 44
Michal and Lauren are such wonderful humans and I continue to speak to them even though our working relationship is over. I truly felt like they helped me better understand myself in terms of my wants/needs in a partner. They were not afraid of giving me the tough love I needed to hear and were supported of the decisions I made, even if they didn't always agree. During this process, I was reacquainted with someone I had gone on a few dates with several years ago when I first moved to the area. Using what I had learned from Michal and Lauren, I went in with an open mind and open heart. Not only does this man "check all my boxes," but I would have totally missed out on all of the positive things I'm experiencing if it weren't for Michal's and my initial agreement to just say yes to opportunities. Even though this was not one of my contracted matches, Michal and Lauren continue to be supportive and offer me advice. I was definitely hesitant of TDR and matchmaking when I first started, but now I can't say enough good things about it!
Rhonda, 34
Working with Flora at Three Day Rule was a truly positive experience. Flora took the time to get to know me and found suitable candidates that were more qualified than the men I found on the dating apps. Flora always made herself available to provide guidance, lend support and to answer questions. I highly recommend Flora to anyone who is seeking that special someone.
Jenna, 49
Working with Three Day Rule, Lindsey was my matchmaker/dating coach. Three Day Rule really gets to know you & your values at an in depth level. Their level of service & hospitality is really top notch. Working with Lindsey really is a fulfilling process, she's a trained therapist so she can really connect at a deeper level. She'll have in-depth conversations with you & understand what you value in a partner. With the weekly conversations & reflection of the dates I go on with matches, it's comforting to have somebody next to you on this journey. You get as much [out of this journey] as you put into it.
George, 29
Working with TDR has been a positive experience thus far! Have to admit I was skeptical about the process coming in. I have only been working with Melissa Rogers for a month or two, but I feel like I have an advocate who gets me and what I'm looking for and has provided quality matches. She is responsive, encouraging, honest, asks the right questions, and makes the process fun!
Emily, 31
Makaela is the best! Coming into the matchmaking process, I was wary of whether a third party would be able to truly "get" me enough to find my perfect match. Not only did Makaela and I immediately click, she drew on the things I was looking for and then helped me discover there were things I needed in a partner that I would not have otherwise realized. I know that without her help, I wouldn't be in the great relationship that I am!
Eileen, 37
Simply put - Michal was meant to be a Matchmaker...She has a natural ability to connect with people and you can feel her passion for bringing people together to find love and companionship.
Jasper , 39
I had a really good experience working with Ngoc. She was attentive, responsive, and the third man she matched me with turned out to be the love of my life. He's everything I've ever dreamed of in a partner. I'm so grateful for her and TDR.
Victoria, 39
I worked with Lauren Daddis, who was wonderful. She was very sensitive to my concerns and was very much both a coach and supporter along with being a matchmaker. I feel like she went beyond the services I paid for and I would definitely recommend TDR and Lauren in particular. I am very happy with my decision to sign-up.
David, 31
Three Day Rule (Dallas) is my first experience with a matchmaker. Quin is professional, passionate about her work and has been responsive in communication. It is clear that she has experience with matchmaking and can provide good insight into the complexities of dating.
Barbara, 40
I’ve been a client of TDR twice. The first time was great. I loved my matchmaker and she provided me with quality matches. I didn’t end up in a long term relationship but the support and advice from my matchmaker was fantastic. I decided to go it alone for a while and when that wasn’t working (so weird, dates didn’t show up out of thin air when I sat on my couch in my jammies on Friday nights) decided to try matchmaking again. But I wanted to cut costs so I went with another company. Well I got what I paid for. It was a horrendous, impersonal experience. The most basic of my requirements that were actually important for establishing a relationship were completely ignored (e.g. when I expressed that I don’t want children and need a partner who feels the same, I was told that once I fall in love I’ll want kids and besides, it’s too hard to find a man like that anyway). I quickly ran myself right back to TDR after learning my lesson and into the capable hands of Michal. Everything with her was effortless! I’ve now been in a long term relationship for a year with someone who loves having animal children instead of human kids. You can’t do much better than that! We are now a blended, happy, multi-legged, furry family and we can’t thank Michal enough!
Allison, 35
I can't say enough great things about the Three Day Rule and Kristen Stewart. Krissy approached me in the beginning of the year with an amazing guy, who I am lucky enough to call my boyfriend of over 6 months. She was so easy to talk to, very responsive when I sent her emails and was always interested in how our dates were going. And the best part about this entire experience is that my boyfriend and I have just moved in together! I have recommended this service to so many people after they have seen how happy I am. Thank you Three Day Rule and Krissy for making this perfect match!
Beth, 34
Mia delivers A+ service, simply exceptional. She shines bright, offering the gold standard of genuine care and comfort. I appreciate her uncommon ability to create a warm, relaxed conversational ambience with emotional engagement -- a hallmark of customer service excellence.
Austin, 41
I am so incredibly grateful of Kara's dedication & talent to finding me my soul mate! I couldn't be happier and it only took 2 matches!
Alyssa, 35
Three Day Rule has been a fun and positive experience. My matchmaker, Maryann, made me feel comfortable asking questions and for advice. This was my first time hiring a matchmaking service, and I wasn't sure what to expect. Maryann introduced me to men who fit my profile perfectly. Dating has become something I enjoy and look forward to.
Cathy, 58
Natalia is an incredibly gifted matchmaker who has led me to my wonderful partner today. Her high level of integrity, combined with her intuition and ability to read people makes her a complete natural at bringing two perfect matches together. She's truly a joy to work with and is exceptionally precise in handpicking quality matches that will tick all of your boxes. Thank you for all the happiness you've brought into my life, Natalia!
Alyssa, 30
I found TDR through a former coworker who found her "person." I was completely over meeting the same type of person online and had some "insta-envy" of their relationship. I knew even if I didn't meet someone great, at least I'd meet someone new and break out of my patterns. Kat pushed me to break out of those patterns plus all the "extras" that TDR offers (photos, coaching, book recommendations) really got me into a more confident headspace. Kat encouraged me to really give people a chance, but was very supportive if I thought it just wasn't a good fit. Turns out that breaking out of your pattern and letting someone else "do the swiping" can really work. I did meet someone great that I probably would have overlooked if I'd seen him online. In this modern era, Matchmaking is worth it!
Elizabeth, 39
I can't say enough great things about Quin with TDR. She is not only brilliant but personable and lights up any room she's in. I just have to say she's amazing to watch in action. She was destined to be a matchmaker and anyone would be lucky to work with her!
Martha, 32
Quin is amazing. She listened to exactly what I wanted, gave guidance as needed and matched me with an amazing, kind man who I would not have found without this service and Quin! Highly recommend!
Marissa, 47
Laura has been great about figuring out what I am looking for and refining her search with every match. She's very responsive, supportive and easy to talk to. I've really enjoyed working with her!
Barbara, 37
Their vetting process is thorough and unlike any other matchmaking service. Tess Noto was my matchmaker and she was super helpful and attentive throughout the whole process. She's very hands-on and is quick to communicate updates on interviews with possible matches. I'd recommend her to anyone! I ended up finding a significant other outside of the service and she was sweet, encouraging and completely understanding of my situation.
Jake, 34
Working with Kara has been so life enriching, educational, and fun! She is truly gifted. If you are in search of a passionate guru who is also well connected in the LGBTQ+ community, she is the best out there. Thank you Kara for guiding me through my dating journey, I am forever thankful for the trust and friendship we’ve built along the way
John F, 44
Nassim, my matchmaker was amazing. She helped me gain clarity and open up to other options in dating that I had blocked off due to past experiences. While I didn't find a match through her and Three Day Rule, I found a wonderful match because of her. We've been together since June, and have spoke about marriage. I already told Nassim she would be invited.
Maria, 42
Jason & Sarah. Married, 2018.
Michelle & Ety. Married, 2018.
Phil & Sarah. Married, 2018.
Trust your Matchmaker. These are the experts, they are born to do this... I did and I ended up meeting the love of my life.

Allie and Rick

Kat & Kevin. Married, 2019.
Sunny & John. Married, 2019.
Ian & Durrah. Married, 2019.
David & Lauren. Married, 2019.
Beth & James. Married, 2017.
Aaron & Cecilia. Married, 2019.
Jenny & Gary. Married, 2019.
Nate & Souji. Married, 2018.
Sherri & Adam. In a Relationship, 2016.
Brendan & Megan. Engaged, 2020
David & Adelle. Married, 2015.
Adam & Stefanie. Married, 2019
Ashley & Harrison. Married, 2013.
Matt & Tamara. In a Relationship, 2018.
Stephanie & Tom. In a Relationship, 2017.
Callie & Josh. Engaged, 2020
Greg & Karen. In a Relationship, 2016.
Chris & Christine. Engaged, 2018.
Marie & Evan. Engaged, 2018.
Chris & Roni. Married, 2014.
Bob & Amelia. Engaged, 2019.
Cathy & Ted. In a Relationship, 2017.
Mona & Darcell. In a Relationship, 2017.
Oliver & Lexi. Engaged, 2018.
Jack & Jessica. Married, 2015.
Jennifer & Kern. Married, 2015.
Talia and her team are wonderful to work with. I felt supported the entire way through the process. The company does an amazing job of figuring out what the client wants and then handpicks the right match. I cannot think of a better use of outsourcing and time well spent than hiring Three Day Rule to find me the right match. I met my boyfriend through the service and he's exactly what I've been looking for. I'm very excited about my new relationship and I'm so thankful that Three Day Rule had my back the entire time. I also loved the coaching I got too with my Matchmaker during the process. I recommend getting out of your comfort zone and let the pros do their job! Trust the process!
Bree, 31
I have been working with Nada Rifai, my Matchmaker, for a few months. I was familiar with her work before signing up with Three Day Rule. When I decided that I wanted help with dating, Nada was the first person that came to mind and the only person I wanted to work with. Not only does she have years of experience as a Matchmaker, but she went above and beyond to make sure that I was taken care of and was getting the absolute most out of my Three Day Rule package. Nada is a level above the typical Matchmaker. She is intuitive and encouraging. I appreciated her positive energy and approach. She was always available whenever I had a question or needed anything. It remains to be seen whether or not I have found "my person" through working with Nada and Three Day Rule. However, all of my matches met exactly the requirements and preferences that Nada and I had discussed. I liked my matches and was able to connect with each of them on some level. Also the work with the stylist, photographer, and dating coach was invaluable. I learned a lot about myself, gained confidence, and stepped outside of my usual comfort zone. Working with Nada has also helped me to more strategically and confidently pursue dating on my own outside of Three Day Rule. I highly recommend Three Day Rule, and especially my Matchmaker, Nada!
Savannah, 36
Three Day Rule is not the first matchmaking service I've used (I tried 2 when I lived in NYC) but they are EASILY the best. I have been working with Marjan, and she is terrific. She always contacts me after each date, asking for feedback... she takes the time to listen, ask questions, offer suggestions, and constructive criticism. She clearly cares about her role as a Matchmaker and has made a consistent effort to get to know me, my likes and dislikes, and relationship goals. I can't say that about the services I've used in the past. Dating apps are so random, you never know what you're actually going to get. Who has that kind of time to waste? Go with Three Day Rule, a much safer, more personalized, and much more satisfying way to meet and develop potential relationships. Highly recommended.
Damien, 52
I am in the database and Kristen has always been thoughtful and professional in making introductions. I have been introduced to nice women on this service. She is really good at looking out for both her clients and the dates of her clients.
Stephen, 48
I wanted to sincerely thank everyone at Three Day Rule for all the time and effort in introducing me to Rebecca. Just a few months ago, we got married!! And we couldn’t be happier. With a busy career, I had frequently found it challenging to find adequate time for dating - even though finding a partner and starting a family was a top priority for me. So I appreciated Three Day Rule doing the groundwork for me! And for introducing me to such a wonderful person. Thank you so much. Very best wishes!
Brian, 46
Working with Marjan was a joy! As soon as I met her, I could tell that she really values her clients and would always have my best interest at heart. She worked around my busy work schedule, which was never easy, and I felt that my relationship with Marjan grew beyond simply client and Matchmaker. One of the things I love about Marjan is that she is always positive and sending encouraging thoughts, while at the same time she is realistic and asks great questions that help you think deeply about what you are really looking for. Marjan was always available if I needed to chat, and she really tried to understand the essence of who I was and what I needed in a partner. She listened to the feedback I provided after each of my dates and actually applied it to the next match she would present me with. This led to her matching me with some remarkable people and even though in the end, my matches didn't work out for a long-term relationship, the experience has been incredibly valuable. I may come back once COVID is under control and I can meet more wonderful matches :)
Anastasia, 47
My initial contact with Brittney at Three Day Rule was as a match for one of her existing clients. She explained the benefits of being a client and it stuck with me as a potential option. Eventually, I signed up with Brittney, and I'm happy I did. She was extremely responsive, professional, and a great listener. I was pleasantly surprised at the caliber of women she matched me with. I had very "selective" criteria for her and she somehow hit the bulls-eye with all of the matches. All of them were the exact types of women I would like to date. Brittney also went above and beyond in many ways, including contacting women I found on my own. It was a wonderful experience and highly recommend Three Day Rule to others.
Adam, 36
Thorough, professional, and judicious are three adjectives that come to mind when I think of my experience working with Nada. She brings a passion and professionalism, unlike other Matchmakers I’ve worked with in the past. She’s truly looking for a great fit for her clients. Assessing chemistry is very challenging, but Nada’s intuition and experience allow her to align matches with incredible accuracy. I highly recommend working with Nada!
Michael, 41
Krissy is a godsend! I signed up for Three Day Rule and definitely, as I'm sure many do, had my fair share of doubts. After years of swiping on dating apps with no luck, I was ready to try something new. Could a matchmaking service actually work? I'm here to tell you...YES! I met with Krissy and we did a deep dive into everything I'm looking for in a match. (Let's be honest, my laundry list was LONG.) But to my surprise, the more specific I was, the better. I can confidently say that all of my matches perfectly fit exactly what I was looking for. Working with Krissy saved me SO much time -- I would have needed to swipe for MONTHS if not years to meet these men. While I am still dating each of them to see where things go, I couldn't be happier with the choices that were presented to me. Thank you Talia, Krissy, and the Three Day Rule team. I'm so happy I took the leap into the world of matchmaking!
Laura, 31
I had a really positive experience with Three Day Rule. I was looking to make the dating process more efficient and meaningful - and I got that. It was incredibly helpful to be able to have someone objective, like Natalia, to talk to about the dating process. She isn't a friend or a family member, and the insight and help I got, such as how to create my dating profiles and taking new pictures, was invaluable. The experience also helped me open my mind and really think about what it was that I wanted versus what I needed. Talking things through with Natalia made me realize what my dealbreakers and must-haves really were. Meeting people I might not have chosen myself was a really helpful and defining experience. I thought it was particularly helpful to get feedback from the guy’s point of view after we had our first date. That’s not something that one normally gets insight into! Natalia was also able to help me and give me feedback regarding people I matched with on apps and helped me think through how I should filter people out. Overall, the experience was really positive and provided me with the opportunity to really reflect on what I was looking for in a partner and made me see the dating process as a more positive, hopeful, engaged experience.
Sarah, 32
It is my pleasure to write a testimonial for Michal, the senior Matchmaker for Three Day Rule in the Philadelphia metropolitan area. We started working together before COVID-19 hit. When the pandemic arrived here, she worked with her company to make a transition to virtual dating. In a very short time, Michal matched me with two women, both of whom had the important qualities that I had told Michal that I was looking for in a lifelong partner. Beyond that, Michal was able to intuit or sense deeper or composite qualities that I needed in a partner - qualities that I never described explicitly to her. To anyone of any age who is serious about finding a partner, I categorically recommend working with Michal. She is perceptive, understanding, incisive, and genuine. If you are looking for someone who is both talented and skilled at matchmaking, look no further.
Alan, 51
A few years ago, I met with Quin about what I was looking for in a partner. What I was most impressed with were her questions, how she challenged me to look deeper at what I wanted. The clarity I got from our convo was amazing. Quin is a phenomenal listener and a fast action taker. She deeply cares about her clients. Now I am with a great guy and a lot of my openness to this relationship came from the awareness I got when talking with Quin. Thank you Quin and Three Day Rule!
Katie, 33
I've been working with Nada at Three Day Rule for almost a year. I have found working with a Matchmaker, and Nada, in particular, to be a great alternative to the dating apps and especially helpful during the pandemic, when meeting people in real life has become all but impossible. As a Matchmaker, I love Nada's positive and personable, yet professional energy that she brings to our communications. I love that she is honest and transparent about how the matchmaking process works; that it is a marathon, not a sprint. Nada asks great questions to get to the bottom of what I am looking for and to make sure we're on the same page. All of the men that Nada has introduced me to have met my must-have and deal-breaker requirements and, while none have turned into "the one" yet, I am confident that I am on the right track working with Nada. She has done an exceptional job of pairing me with individuals who share common goals, values, and experiences. The fact that I know she has thoroughly vetted a match before I meet them allows me to relax more on the first date (virtual or in-person). I am constantly recommending matchmaking to my single girlfriends in their 30s because I think this is a much better way to spend your time and money looking for a partner compared with the regular dating apps.
Ashley, 35
Thank you, Lauren and Three Day Rule. My match (who I am dating exclusively) is so freaking amazing and is just the most attentive and gentle human who would move the earth for me. Honestly, we joke all the time that this process actually worked! We’ve both been to the same places, same events, lived in the same neighborhood, gone to the same coffee shops - but these two dummies (us) couldn’t figure it out without a little help from Lauren. I thought I was going to maybe get a cool boyfriend or husband out of Three Day Rule. If anything a fun story, (which it had been!), but Lauren matched me with a man who is beyond my wildest dreams in life, creativity, style, travel, and business. We are just so obsessed with each other and having the absolute best time it’s gross. Lol. Thank you so much.
Lindsay, 36
When I met Marjan, I was so tired of app dating. It was so great to have someone listen to what I was actually looking for, and then go out and hunt for that on my behalf. I’m really busy and often don’t even know the right questions to ask before I go out on a date. She set me up with some great guys, and while I did not ultimately find my forever match, the process definitely renewed my hope that the right guy is out there, and I learned quite a bit about myself through the experience. Thank you Marjan, it’s been well worth the journey and I look forward to the future!
Kelly, 38
Since the pandemic has made it harder to meet people in real life and I am not a huge fan of the time and effort dating apps require, I started working with Nada from Three Day Rule. She is very thorough and listens well. She seems to have a good beat on what I am looking for. Working with a Matchmaker that filters for my preferences is a big pro. The men I have met through her are all high quality, good matches who are relationship and marriage-oriented (something that is important to me). She is accessible after the dates for help and advice. If you have ever considered working with a Matchmaker now is the time!
Michelle, 32
Investing in myself and my love life with Three Day Rule was the best decision I’ve ever made. As an accomplished career woman, I have first-hand experience seeing the value in turning to professionals in other avenues of my life. So it was a no-brainer to seek out true professionals for my love life. I’ve dated great guys in the past but hadn’t met “the one.” I actually felt like I was running out of options but my Matchmaker, Lisa, and Three Day Rule’s founder, Talia, immediately gave me hope. Right out of the gate, Lisa seemed to understand who I was and what I needed in order to feel good in a relationship. She vetted high-quality matches that I hadn’t come across on my own. When I met my match, I just knew immediately. Chatting with him gave me that comfort and “like home” feeling that Lisa and I had talked about. I honestly felt like I was in a dream I never wanted to wake up from. Fast forward and we just moved in together! I'm so incredibly grateful that I signed up as a Premium Member and would encourage any successful person to do the same!
Nicole, 37
Talia and the team at Three Day Rule have changed dating for me in LA. I was a working professional in my 30s, who was ready for a serious relationship. Every guy I'd meet on my own either didn't have his stuff together professionally or hadn't had many serious relationships prior. I'd constantly hear from those in my life, "HOW ARE YOU STILL SINGLE?" I'd then ask if they knew anyone with whom they could set me up, and the response was always something along the lines of, "Every guy I know is either taken, or there's a reason he's still single." I'd smile, and say, "That's why I'm still single." While I know that question was meant as a compliment, it got very frustrating hearing it over and over again. The dating apps were very time-consuming, and I got turned off to those very quickly after seeing multiple guys sharing topless selfies or photos with tigers. Then I signed up with Three Day Rule... I figured people use headhunters to find quality jobs, why couldn't I use one to help find quality dates? Talia really took the time to get to know me, and even set me up with someone I ended up dating for 7 months. When that didn't work out, I was devastated, but Talia stayed in touch and helped me stay hopeful that Mr. Right was still out there. The facts remained that my contract was up, I had spent all this money, and yet I was still alone, which was really tough to swallow at times. Talia and I would touch base throughout the year, and she assured me that she was always looking out for me, and she would let me know if she had a bonus match for me. Then the pandemic hit, and I figured, how can I possibly meet someone now? Much to my pleasant surprise, Talia told me she had someone in mind for me. He and I chatted on the phone, then did some virtual dating, and then we met in person...and we just fit. Now we are engaged! I feel so incredibly grateful to Talia and her team for helping me find happiness, especially during an extremely tough year.
Jana, 40
Lisa set me up on the best date I've been on since moving to LA. Matching me with Kevin was "hitting it out of the park, past the Green Monster, into the waters of the Bay." I've been telling my friends that it feels like Lisa has known me for years.
Catherine, 41
Kat in Chicago contacted me about a client she had in mind for me, but first we talked about what I was looking for in a potential match. She was very efficient in her approach in that she only asked thoughtful and relevant questions. She was warm, friendly, engaged and a good listener. She told me about her client and followed up with a pic and bio. I was amazed at how much I had in common with him - he sounded too good to be true - but I agreed she could share my contact information. My match texted me the very next day, we talked that evening and we continued texting until we could meet about a week later. In this time of social distancing, we decided to get coffee and walk to a park even though it was lightly raining. We chatted nonstop under umbrellas, and the next thing you know, two hours had past. He walked me to my car and asked me out on a second date. Due to the protests, riots and closed streets, we had to reschedule our second date a couple times, but that gave us more time to connect over the phone. Finally, we had our second date, it was even better than the first and we will go out again soon. It wasn't too good to be true after all. Kat described him incredibly well and with complete honesty. I'm so grateful Kat introduced me to my match because I don't if we would have met since we are not in the same neighborhood, profession or social circles. It really showed the value of matchmaking - it's much more productive than endless swiping on dating apps where most guys I meet are either not good matches or are only looking for a casual date. I've been set up with clients through 3 other matchmaking companies and felt they were not as accurate or honest in their descriptions in the guys, and therefore the matches were not right. I'm very grateful for Kat and Three Day Rule. Thank you!
Leslie, 49
I came to Three Day Rule after years of frustration with online dating. I was initially drawn to the company because I first met Lisa, who I found to be warm and have a high EQ. She was a pleasure to talk with, and I knew I would be working with Matchmakers who understood the challenges of dating and meeting your life partner. I was paired with Marjan as my Matchmaker and I really enjoyed working directly with her. She was wonderful to work with and talk to. She was receptive to my feedback from match to match. In my work with Marjan, I was able to learn more about myself. She provided a great sounding board and shared myriad resources for understanding the dating world. She was also the consummate professional and approached our client-Matchmaker relationship with tact and discretion.
Kiele, 34
Working with Lisa is amazing! She’s a best friend who will be by your side through every step of the matchmaking process. From pre-date pep talks to post-date analysis, she’s there with helpful advice and an empathetic ear. Her passion for helping her clients makes dating a lot of fun!
Alex, 36
I signed up for Three Day Rule because I was not having great success on the online dating apps. I wasn't meeting men on the apps that I could see myself settling down with. Maia has really been fabulous to work with, and she is a lovely and personable person as well. Maia really understood the type of man and the qualities that I was looking for in a long-term relationship. We just started working together and she has already matched me with a couple of men. I am super happy with the matches she has picked out for me so far, and I'm looking forward to seeing how everything progresses. Thank you so much, Maia!
Nora, 52
I had a great experience working with Nada. She took the time to really understand what I was looking for. My girlfriend was my second match! Thanks, Nada.
Nicholas, 34
I remember being hesitant to using a Matchmaker but it turned out to be one of the best things I ever did. We all have ideas about what we want and don't want in a partner, but having to verbalize them so precisely to someone is actually more difficult and requires so much trust in the person to which you're talking. Michal was compassionate and understanding while helping me get out of my own way when dating. After a few dates, she introduced me to my fiancé and we're currently planning our wedding. I feel like Michal fought for me to have the life I've always wanted with someone who genuinely loves me. You truly can't lose when she's on your side.
Sophie, 43
All of my interactions with Three Day Rule were a pleasure - from my initial call with Talia to the photographer, stylist, and dating coach, and most of all my Matchmaker Kristen Stewart. Krissy really took the time to get to know me and did a great job listening to what I was looking for as well as encouraging me to be flexible during the process. I felt like she had my best interests in mind at all times and really worked hard on my behalf!
Alison, 50
Joining Three Day Rule and working with my Matchmaker Maryann is the single best thing I have ever done for my dating life! Maryann took time to get to know me and to understand (and to help me understand!) what I am looking for in a relationship in detail, considering aspects that I never would have known to think about. She's thoughtful, professional, empathetic, detailed, and a wonderful advisor. This, in turn, has made me be open to meeting a variety of men that in the past I would have likely passed over. Make no mistake, however, while Maryann has worked hard to find me matches that literally ticked every box on my must-haves list (she's awesome!), this process also helped me to be introspective and see where I went wrong in the past with picking a potential partner. It has also helped me to focus on what is truly important to me and to be OK with asking for those things from a relationship. Through this process, Maryann has become a trusted advisor on all things dating and also a friend. From the moment we chatted I felt at ease and I appreciated her approach to getting to know me through talking to some of my friends as well. She encourages me and asks thoughtful questions along the way to make sure I am thinking about dating with the right mindset. I really can't recommend this service enough! The insightful things I have learned about myself are utterly invaluable and I frankly can't see how I would have learned these things about myself otherwise. Three important things to know if you sign up: 1. You get out what you put into this process. You'll need to work through what you're really looking for which can be tricky, use the resources they provide. Focus on growing and learning about yourself along the way and lean into the experiences this process gives you. 2. TDR can't guarantee you chemistry with a match. Yes, you may be sent a profile of the most perfect person you have ever seen on paper, but they can't predict the ever-elusive chemistry will be there when you meet in person. Be ok with this as it's part of the process. That's where you'll need to take their guidance on meeting people, going on multiple dates, and really give yourself a chance to see if it's there. 3. Be yourself - let this process guide you to ensuring you are being your authentic self and are totally honest about what you want in a relationship. As for me? I was recently matched with the most perfect guy and am so far totally smitten! Even though it's still early days, one thing is for certain: I would never have met this person if it weren't for joining Three Day Rule!
Sarah, 47
Where to begin. The word Matchmaker and the name Simone is forever interchangeable in my mind. I came into this process with a vague understanding of what I wanted. Let's just say, I was trying to describe a landscape painting by using only sound effects. Over time, Simone was able to suss out the intangible qualities I was looking for in a partner. She's introduced me to people whom I fell for at first sight. All while not trying to change me to fit some mold. Working with Simone has been a privilege and a highlight of my year.
Liam, 34
My experience working with Marjan, as my Matchmaker at Three Day Rule, was very positive. Over the course of my interactions with her, she felt more like a trusted friend who happened to be a professional Matchmaker, and who was helping me in my journey to find a love interest. If you are looking for a very sincere and competent Matchmaker to help you in your search for your better half, Marjan will be able to improve your chances of finding that person. I highly recommend Marjan's services as a Matchmaker at Three Day Rule.
Aaron, 38
Nada from Three Day Rule seems to have matchmaking in her DNA. Her intake process was thorough and she asked thoughtful questions to get to know me. She also provided helpful guidance along the way.
Katherine, 41
I worked with Michal in Philadelphia and had a fantastic experience. I had been dating online for several years and the last three serious relationships I was involved in were a result of online dating. I've had fun with the process, but I found that it really takes a ton of dates and work to find someone worth dating. Still, what I came to realize is that, in order for me to really go the distance with someone, I needed someone truly spectacular. Enter Three Day Rule... When I met Michal, she was incredibly warm and did a great job of extracting the right information from me in order to find not just the type of person I was asking for but the one I really needed. I could see that she was really assessing things on another level. I don't think it always works this way, but all it took was one match for me to get everything I could ever ask for and more (sniff sniff, single tear). Really grateful to Michal and her Three Day Rule team in Philly! I was hesitant about taking the plunge, but grateful I jumped in!
Art, 36
I met Michal years ago and we instantly hit it off. I had dated men from dating apps and by meeting men in person, but with my busy work and social schedules it was difficult to find a connection. I was always a little wary of working with a Matchmaker. Being Indian, I’ve had my fair share of family members, friends, and others in the community attempt to set me up and all of them wildly missing the mark. I’d been on so many blind dates that were so tedious and boring that I was exhausted and didn’t want to date anymore. Michal made the matchmaking process natural, easy, and NOT awkward! I felt totally comfortable and actually looked forward to the dates she set up. Talking with her is like chatting with your best friend, and you can tell that she is really listening. She’s able to go that extra mile and extrapolate meaning from what you say, and makes connections between people you might never have thought of yourself. Most importantly for me, she helped me stay open to a possibility I would have otherwise overlooked and now, thanks to her, I could not be happier. 
 My boyfriend and I are now dating in the time of COVID-19 and when I talk to my single friends I feel so lucky that I have someone so amazing in my life. I am super social and an exercise fanatic so with the social isolation and lack of exercise, it was really nice to be able to lean on one another. Being together almost 24/7 during COVID-19, we certainly learned a lot about each other fast. Then my boyfriend tested COVID-19 positive and we were forced apart for what felt like forever. Even while sick, he made sure to message his friends to buy me groceries and goodies since I was forced to quarantine. He even had my favorite pasta delivered to my place for dinner along with a bottle of wine. He set up movies for us to watch together on FaceTime and when he was finally better he had cleaned his entire house to make sure nothing had residual contamination. I can’t thank Michal enough for finding me such a perfect match!!!
Ami, 34
Marjan is an excellent Matchmaker. She has a great sense of humor, is empathetic, kind, listens, and does a great job really understanding the people she works with to help provide the best matches possible. I highly recommend her!
Matthew, 43
What the most outstanding thing about Three Day Rule is not just their system of matching, which includes a keen eye and attention to detail on your behalf. What elevates Three Day Rule heads and tails above other folks doing the same services is plain and simple: the Matchmakers. Yes, they are professionals. But, Talia, Tess, Marjan, and Lindsay are professionals who truly care. I mean really truly care. (Rare!) And it comes from the top-down, meaning the insightful Talia takes her skills and filters them down to equally talented folks in an effort to make you feel cared for. I've worked with Tess (an unsung hero for the single person!), Marjan (who isn't afraid to look everywhere to achieve success on your behalf!), and Lindsay (who actually wants to hear your feedback!) and while a perfect match is still on the horizon for yours truly (finding the love of your life takes time!) I've never felt more blessed to be looked after by such a wonderful group of women. Anyone finding dating or even meeting people hard - especially in a big city - should give Three Day Rule a try. It's money well spent and I think you'll see what I see - it's the journey that matters much more than just reaching the destination. Hats off - I humbly bow before you fair ladies.
Jason, 47
I signed up with Three Day Rule after experiencing some frustration with online dating and dating apps; after a while the experience can be a bit numbing, a pure numbers game, the formats themselves being a barrier to quickly sensing who someone is. Three Day Rule bypasses that problem, putting a human element back into meeting new people which I felt was so necessary for me. When I met with Nassim, it was clear immediately that she was interested in knowing who I am, with a clear purpose toward assessing my relationship needs, and tuning her vetting process in order to find quality dates, which she did! All of the people I met were outstanding, beautiful people who have full and interesting lives, and I enjoyed every date enormously. The process was so seamless, there weren't even any awkward moments! Each one was very relaxed, and flowed along easily. For someone like me, who felt hampered by the impersonal nature of online and app dating, the experience has been wonderful, and even easy. Again, most of all I was impressed and touched by Nassim’s kindness and empathy, and her ability to read who I was in a way that produced an easy, fluid and satisfying dating experience. Thank you, Nassim!
Troy, 56
Michal has made it feel like dating and developing a meaningful connection during COVID-19 are both possible. Options may feel limited because you can't meet people in social settings during this time, and it's easy to feel like you've swiped through the entire world of eligible daters since you can't leave the house. Actually, feeling like I had swiped through the entire world of eligible daters is one of the reasons I started working with Michal anyway, and that was before COVID-19. So in reality, Michal has delivered during COVID-19 what she delivered before COVID-19, better matches who I am more compatible with. Michal has made it feel like just because we're socially locked down, we don't have to be on dating lockdown.
Ed, 38
When I felt ready to open my heart once again after a significant break-up, I stubbornly refused to follow my friends’ advice to join online dating apps or pursue matchmaking services. I was determined to find love the ‘old-fashioned’ way Surely my meet-cute was on the horizon! When I happened upon a podcast episode of Dyking Out featuring Kara, my dating outlook shifted instantly. Despite my best efforts of resistance, Kara’s warmth, humor, and infectious positive attitude about queer love melted away my stubbornness and skepticism. I signed up with Three Day Rule the next day! My follow-up conversation with Kara did not disappoint. Her enthusiasm and insightful questions provided me with much needed clarity about what I want and need from a partner. Will Kara connect me with the woman of my dreams? I certainly hope so! But even if a love connection isn’t made, I am ever grateful to Kara for expanding my romantic horizon restoring my faith in the possible.
Anika, 47
After years of dating, I turned to Three Day Rule in the hopes of not just finding me a match but also making me a smarter date "chooser" by focusing on key qualities that I wanted in a partner. Three Day Rule really takes the time to get to know their clients, focusing on the qualities they each find important and making matches based on their clients' preferences, not just to hitting a date "quota." After almost two years of working with Three Day Rule, Shashi was my last match! He was outside of my usual "type," but he is everything I asked for more and more. After over a year of dating, and a few weeks of quarantining together because of COVID-19, Shashi asked me to marry him!
Emily, 40
I am so grateful to have been introduced to The Three Day Rule, and most importantly, Kristen, my Matchmaker. I was fortunate enough to have been matched with an AMAZING man at the beginning of 2020. Thanks to the thorough and intuitive skills of Kristen, I was matched with someone with who I was able to make a deep and meaningful connection. Our relationship has been a light through one of the world's darkest times - and just over a year later he proposed. I have no doubt, my fiancé and I probably would not have crossed paths without Three Day Rule. I attribute Kristen's keen ability to not only get to know us but to her also recognizing the things we are looking for in a partner that we sometimes are not even able to articulate for ourselves. I am grateful for the relationship I am in now and for this amazing team for making it happen! Thank you, Kristen!!!
Kelsey, 36
What can I say? Marjan far exceeded my expectations, I had many calls and consultations with Marjan prior to even starting the matchmaking experience and I felt like she really got to know me. She has taken the time and effort to get to know my personality, quirks, and humor...and was able to match me with some great women. She really dug deep and helped me find what I was really looking for in a person by going through past relationships. We looked at why they didn't work and what those past relationships taught me about what I want in the future. Dating in this world is extremely difficult so it was amazing to have her quarterback and give me guidance on the hurdles I was going through with some of the matches, helped them go to 4th and 5th dates and on. She really listened to what I was saying after certain dates that didn't work and made adjustments for the next match. 10/10. I highly recommend Marjan.
Danny, 34
Lindsay Rowe at Three Day Rule is the best! I'm a super busy professional who had put love on hold to establish my career and now I'm looking to settle down. Lindsay is my Matchmaker, and boy am I glad she is! I no longer have to sift through guys online who say they're ready for something only to find out 6 months in that's not the case. Lindsay makes sure that she understands why I have the preferences I do. She really understands the REASONS behind the list that I have of wants and needs in a relationship. With this list, she was able to get to know me faster, resulting in better matches. She also pushes me on certain things - which was good for me because it ensures I stay open. No matter what, though, she still respects my core values and "deal breakers" when matching me. She also really seems to have a way of getting good feedback from matches regardless of if the match and I clicked or not enough for a ring. She takes the time to look at commonalities in feedback which allows us to dig in and see if maybe there was something I need to adjust OR if there were personality types that are not clicking. This process has been absolutely the best decision I've made in a long time in my dating life and Lindsay is definitely to thank. I've just started seeing someone from Three Day Rule and I'm VERY excited to see where it goes!! He's sweet, successful, shares the same values as me, and we have a blast together! Lindsay even makes sure to check in with each of us still (up until date 3 or 4) - which is awesome. I really love that she wants to learn more about me even once she found me a good match. Thank you, Three Day Rule, and thank you, Lindsay!
Vanessa, 41
After many years of never really meeting good fits, I (a bit nervously) turned to Three Day Rule. Right from the start, I felt like Callie was incredibly easy to open up to. Our initial consult flew by, and each time we chatted, I felt like I was speaking to an old friend. Not every match "worked out," but Callie was very responsive to each situation and we learned together what was working and not working. I knew Callie cared, and her work ethic showed. Every moment I spent with Callie felt like more fulfilling and well-spent than all the times I had ever spent on the dating apps. They just don't work well and you get sucked in. With Callie, our work together felt productive without wasting time or getting into conversations that were clearly dead-ends. Yes, it's pricey - but I'd spend it all again to have such an affirming experience.
Jason, 33
I had such a fun, unique dating experience with Three Day Rule. I worked with Krissy, an amazing Matchmaker, and she really listened to all my feedback on the dates and encouraged me to venture out of my comfort zone. Though I didn't find my fiance through Three Day Rule, I believe it was in part Krissy's guidance that put me on my path to finding him - and I'm so thankful for him every day! I wholly recommend Three Day Rule for anyone feeling discouraged and burned out from the dating scene, and willing to have an open mind. It is a true adventure working with Three Day Rule!
Christy, 35
I signed up for Three Day Rule with skepticism, but I was so pleasantly surprised with the results! Natalia was so amazing - she listened to me, empathized with my frustration in finding someone, and was extremely thoughtful with who she set me up with. I loved the fact that Natalia felt like a true friend who was just setting up another friend in need. She put my nerves about the process at ease! I remember after my first date, I called Natalia and said "you definitely hit the nail on the head." The whole experience ended up being fun and exciting, especially every time Nat had a new match for me. Highly recommend!
Ari, 31
Had a wonderful experience with Three Day Rule!! Kristen was great to work with; she always made me feel like I was a priority. Three Day Rule really takes the time to get to know their clients and I felt like I could really open up and be honest about what I was looking for in a partner. Highly recommend!!
Alyson, 30
I have nothing but positive things to say about Talia Goldstein and Elisa Del Castillo. They are both extremely professional, supportive, and helpful. Most importantly, they care about you and look out for you and are in your corner. Their advice, guidance, and matches have been invaluable to me and I very much appreciate their work. I highly recommend working with Three Day Rule!
Evan, 34
I signed up for Three Day Rule after talking to a friend who met her husband through the service. I wasn't sure what to expect, especially when my Matchmaker, Kat, was in a different city. So far, I can say I've really enjoyed and felt supported by Kat and dating has become way less stressful. Before Kat, first dates felt like a waste of time. With Three Day Rule, I know the guy has been vetted by Kat and she does a great job of getting me excited about meeting a new man. Currently, I'm in an exclusive relationship with a wonderful guy introduced by Kat. A truly unexpected benefit of Three Day Rule has been the support I've received after the first date and as the relationship has continued. After the first date, she collects feedback from the's amazing what they would share! It's also comforting and reassuring to have a supportive women to talk to and have on my side throughout. For those who want a little more certainty and structure to dating, working with a Matchmaker is a great way to get peace of mind and meet interesting, high quality people.
Ankita, 35
Putting your dating life in someone else’s hands requires an incredible amount of trust. It is a trust that this person will invest the time to get to know you, what gets you excited, and your dreams. It takes a special person to combine this with the ability to identify and select people who will come at you in a way that enhances your life. Callie did all that and more. She has been phenomenal. Imagine having the insight of your best friend combined with the judgment of someone who can take a step back and see the elements that make a relationship that can endure a lifetime. And all this is topped off with access to incredible people you would have never met otherwise. Working with Callie has been a gift in every way.
Antonia, 49
Three Day Rule has amassed a talented team. Quin is highly determined and driven to find the best matches for her clients. Her vibrant and warm personality brings out the best in everybody, from clients to matches. Quin is deeply networked throughout many cities and her energy brightens every interaction.
Christine, 32
Anyone who has the pleasure of working with Quin will immediately see that she genuinely cares about helping you find love. She listens carefully, provides expert advice, and helps you identify the things that really matter in finding a partner.
Damir, 46
I really appreciated meeting with Quin and working with her to better understand myself, explore what I was really looking for in a relationship. She was so much fun to talk with, it's like I had known her as a friend for years, and she really understood me. We focused on understanding my likes and wants; and also discussed where I could improve as a person and in a relationship. She helped me explore thoughts and ideas I never thought about, to really dig deep and learn about myself, bring my "best self to the table." I'm a better person for working with her - thank you, Quin!
Kayla, 36
If you're looking for a dedicated Matchmaker I highly recommend Quin. She is attentive and takes the time to understand her clients interests, lifestyle and values in order to find someone who can compliment that for life.
Monica, 32
Lisa was great! She discussed my preferences with me, and as a VIP client, she sent a list of matches based on my preferences. I ended up clicking with my very first match and now we are in a happy relationship. I highly recommend Three Day Rule.
Victor, 34
My experience with Nada at Three Day Rule has exceeded my expectations. Nada is a wonderful Matchmaker. She is warm, caring, and really got to know me. She genuinely listens, which is everything! Nada is looking to make an authentic connection for me and all the matches she puts forward are quality individuals who meet my criteria and are looking for the same thing as me. The whole experience of engaging with Nada is positive and FUN! Just keep your heart and mind open, and show up to meet the friend your "friend" wants to set you up with! My overall experience with Three Day Rule has been very good and I feel it is worth the investment. I appreciate that I can focus my time and energy on showing up, having fun with the process, and making quality connections with cool people I might not otherwise meet. Thank You, Nada, for making dating fun and now something to which I look forward. Already looking forward to seeing who you match me with next! :)
Connie, 44
I could not recommend Three Day Rule enough. I worked with Brittany and she is a rockstar. She was able to set me up with women who I normally would not have met on my own. Every date I went on was so much more intentional and intimate than my usual dates. After using Three Day Rule, I'll never use dating apps again.
Doug, 32
Three Day Rule's Matchmaker Nada Rifai is truly a gift. During our initial session, she took the time to ask a variety of questions, far beyond the standard metrics. She shared with me her matchmaking philosophy and was completely transparent, even sending me her notes from our meeting. It was clear from moment one that for Nada, matchmaking is a calling and not a job. This has continued to be evident in our interactions. Though my matchmaking journey with Nada has begun only somewhat recently, I know that the matches that she has introduced to me, and will introduce, are based upon careful consideration of who I am as a person, not just who I am on paper. I can tell that she is emotionally invested in my success and that means the world to me. I feel that I have a true partner in this process, and that is exactly what brought me to Three Day Rule. I cannot recommend Nada highly enough!
Charlotte, 42
I am coming up on two years tomorrow since I met my match. Michal, and Three Day Rule, set me up with my husband. He was my first match, and I didn't want to meet anyone after him. We moved in together after 3 months. We got engaged after 6 months. We got married after 18 months. We closed on a home in the suburbs of Philadelphia last week, and we are expecting our first baby in October, just shy of our wedding anniversary. I will share that I am 37, and pictured a life without love and accepted that. Michal made it very clear that didn't have to be my future if I didn't want it to be. Michal's philosophy and approach is a kind of tough love, peppered with so much devotion and LOVE of LOVE. Michal has been a part of my journey every step of the way. She helped me write my vows (which were a favorite part of our wedding day for us and our guests). She is now sharing the joys of being pregnant and new motherhood with me. I've made a lifelong friend out of a person who I thought would just introduce me to the right guy. Michal and Three Day Rule are a lot more than just an introduction! Take a leap and delve into the notion of a personal Matchmaker - it's so so so so worth it!
Stefanie, 37
I highly recommend Quin Woodward Pu as a Matchmaker. I was with my ex-husband for 10 years and very new to the dating scene. After stumbling on dating apps for some time, I decided to explore other options and different ways to meet people. Quin was so full of wonderful ideas and thought-provoking questions. Quin is easy to talk to, an excellent listener and I felt bonded to her quickly. I trust her judgement. She seem to know even before I did who the right type of person would be for me! You can't go wrong working with Quin.
Melanie, 46
Dating in LA is hard, and in a pandemic, it feels impossible. Luckily, that’s not the case with Quin Woodward Pu and Three Day Rule. I had been thinking about this for a while, and over the summer decided to commit. The experience has been remarkable. Quin is warm, intuitive, an excellent communicator, and has guided me through what is proving to be an incredible experience in incredible times. I am committed, and I highly recommend this when you are ready.
Ruth, 55
Elisa and Three Day Rule are fantastic Matchmakers. Elisa truly took the time to understand my personality and my needs. She is extremely positive, uplifting, and always worked with me as a team. Elisa has gone beyond all requirements to bring love into my life. All potential matches have been genuine, intelligent, and interesting. I am glad I chose to partner with Elisa and Three Day Rule for seeking love.
Kristo, 47
I am dating the man Nassim found me and I couldn't be happier! When my journey with Three Day Rule was supposed to begin, Boston went into quarantine for COVID - I was a bit disappointed. I just figured that meeting someone in 2020 wasn't in the cards for me. However, Nassim was very persistent. She kept my spirits up and eventually convinced me to virtually date. Nassim helped me really think about "value-based" dating. My first in-person match was not a guy I would have naturally been drawn to but we did have so much in common. The way he discussed what he wanted for his future really aligned with mine. By our third date, I knew this was something special. After talking through my feelings with Nassim I decided to put my membership on hold and the rest is history. I tell everyone about my experience because it really was everything I was hoping for. You just have to trust the process!
Veena, 32
Full disclosure: I am not a paying customer for Three Day Rule...rather, I am just a beneficiary of Nassim's matchmaking skills. My girlfriend and I could not be more different in many ways. She is one of the most outgoing and sociable people I've ever met, while I am an introvert. She is the daughter of immigrants who grew up in Florida, while I am a born-and-raised New Englander who admittedly lives up to the "Masshole" label. If we had met in a normal social setting, I have my doubts that we would have hit it off. And yet, after talking for several hours on the first date, it was obvious how similar we are in so many ways. And while I may not have seen it right away, I continue to be amazed that Nassim recognized we could be a good match. The fact that she understood so well what her client was looking for speaks volumes to the effort and attention to detail that she puts into her job. Fortunately / unfortunately for my lady, I was her first match, but I still think that she got her money's worth. :) Thanks Nassim!
Bryan, 36
Putting your dating life in someone else’s hands requires an incredible amount of trust. It is a trust that this person will invest the time to get to know you, what gets you excited, and your dreams. It takes a special person to combine this with the ability to identify and select people who will come at you in a way that enhances your life. Callie did all that and more. She has been phenomenal. Imagine having the insight of your best friend combined with the judgment of someone who can take a step back and see the elements that make a relationship that can endure a lifetime. And all this is topped off with access to incredible people you would have never met otherwise. Working with Callie has been a gift in every way.
Antonia, 49
Brittney was great and served not just as a Matchmaker, but a therapist, and dating coach. She has an amazing ability to listen, synthesize information, and provide constructive feedback and direction even in something as complicated as dating. Her diligence and level of service were the best I've ever seen in any client-facing field. Despite my stubbornness, she helped me learn a lot about myself and what I need. Most importantly, in a few months, she helped me find someone that I had been unable to meet for years searching on my own. At the end of the day, she got me in the same room with a perfect match, which is all I could ask. She's someone that I now consider a friend, and I cannot recommend her highly enough.
Kristin, 31
I highly recommend Three Day Rule to anyone looking for a matchmaking service, and I can't recommend Brittney highly enough. It's not just a business for her - she absolutely cares about her clients and truly wants their success. Brittney is very driven and committed to finding compatible matches. Throughout my experience, she stayed in touch with me consistently, and I received more matches than were required by the contract (and even one after our contract was done). I really felt I had a partner in the process. If you're looking to up your dating life with a Matchmaker, Three Day Rule and Brittney are the way to go.
Eric, 41
I met my husband through Three Day Rule! Krissy Stewart was my Matchmaker, and she was caring, detailed, and responsive throughout the whole experience. I can't recommend Three Day Rule and Krissy enough!
Jenny, 36
I had a chance to work with Kristen and couldn’t say enough great things about her. She was professional, honest, responsive, and a great listener.
Malcolm, 41
Kristen was an amazing Matchmaker. We chatted about my interests and what I was looking for. She kept in contact with me multiple times, checking in to see if I needed anything and getting information about the progress of the dates. I highly recommend Kristen and Three Day Rule.
Richard, 36
I went to Three Day Rule because was interested in dating, but didn't have time to sift through a million profiles. Michal was featured as a fabulous matchmaker in the Philly press. She did not disappoint. She took the time to understand who I am and what I was looking for, but beyond that, she sincerely cares. She does this work because she wants there to be more love in the world. I am honestly grateful to know her. Besides being an incredible person, Michal is extremely skilled with a wide network of possible matches. She does the sifting for you and finds people with real potential. She even had tons of creative ideas about how to manage dating under stay-at-home orders for coronavirus. She inspired me to be open to all kinds of new experiences. Michal matched me with amazing people, encouraged me to try new things, and the entire process was a ton of fun. Can't recommend her and Three Day Rule highly enough.
Natalie, 45
I work with Three Day Rule and I’m grateful for them. In an era when meeting a potential romantic partner is only a swipe away, quick access and quantity don’t equate to quality. Facing choice paradox, flakiness has skyrocketed (of both genders). That’s where Three Day Rule comes in. The brand makes sure each match is legitimately looking for a relationship, or as they say ‘dating intentionally.’ They offer coaching and feedback for both parties - this helps close communication gaps. Because let’s face it, it can seem like men can be from Mars while women from Venus! In a way, Three Day Rule is like a business recruiter in that they take the time to get to know each party, in-person or via video, and then connect parties together who likely will hit it off. I’ve been working with Krissy who has top-notch communication skills, is genuine, and has contagious positive energy. I definitely recommend Three Day Rule. They’re a fantastic partner who is really shaking up the romance space. While you’re at it, check out all the impressive press they have earned!
Jack, 40
I sincerely think that Kara's coaching helped me realize the great potential of my long distance relationship at its earliest stages. Throughout our sessions, Kara has brought out my best game and performance, now reaching a secure relationship point. I feel confident this is leading to the realization of a mature long standing wish for companionship. I can’t thank Kara enough for her insight, sensibility and professionalism.
I would recommend Three Day Rule to anyone who doesn't like the experience of using dating apps, or who thinks that the type of person they're looking for isn't active on the apps, and has enough disposable income to justify taking a risk on finding a great match. My experience with Three Day Rule has been very rewarding! Although none of the matches ended up working out, I learned a lot about myself and about what I'm looking for through the feedback process. I feel a lot more confident on dates now! I was also impressed with my Matchmaker's ability to hone in on what I am looking for. As we gathered feedback, we learned more about which qualities are the most important to me, and the matches became more aligned with those qualities. This process also saved me a bunch of time compared to using apps. Since most of the vetting is done by Three Day Rule, I didn't need to go through the effort of viewing profiles, messaging in apps, and going on first dates to discover whether I would be emotionally compatible with someone. I just got to go on fun dates with some pretty like-minded people!
Don, 26
Working with Callie and Three Day Rule was hands down the best decision I've ever made. Callie really takes the time to understand her clients - and working with her was not only incredibly enlightening, but also a lot of fun. Without Callie's intuition, expertise, advice and guidance, and Three Day Rule's expansive network of quality singles, I would have never met my wife Sarah - the most kind-hearted, genuine, funny and quirky woman I know - my better half! We are so thankful to Callie and recommend Three Day Rule to all our single friends.
Jason, 37
I had a great experience with Kristen at Three Day Rule, she really took the time to get to know me and my likes and helped me find and fall for a beautiful, successful, entrepreneurial, sweet, kind, and loving woman...who is now my fiancé! I give this service and her a five-star rating not just because I found the one but also because it can be a truly stressful experience trying to date in New York City and the entire team at Three Day Rule made my life a ton less stressful.
Vince, 36
Lisa is the best! She encourages me when I get frustrated and want to give up. Lisa is an absolute gem.
Christine, 37
Nada is truly the best of the best! She was my Matchmaker when she worked at another company, but I loved working with her so much that I hired her again once she was hired at Three Day Rule. I have worked with other Matchmakers, but Nada truly gets 'me' and the essence of what I'm looking for. I was incredibly frustrated by dating apps once COVID started, but after working with Nada, I can't imagine going back to online dating. The dates she's selected for me have been very aligned with my preferences - eons better than what a dating app could ever do! Nada is non-judgmental, empathetic, kind, and above all, an extremely talented Matchmaker. Work with Nada, you won't regret it!
Julia, 27
Working with Jaime and going through the Three Day Rule process changed my life for the better! I needed something different than traditional online dating and a way to meet different people. Jaime helped me to get outside of my comfort zone, learning about myself and what is truly most important to me in long term love. Jaime's honesty, insight, guidance, and intuition helped me along the way. I am now happily married. I would highly recommend working with Jaime and Three Day Rule!
Sarah, 39
Natalia has been terrific! She's warm, personable and keeps in regular communication with me. I can tell that she really listens to what I'm looking for and has great intuition with people. I look forward to continuing to work with her!
Rose, 35
Working with Quin is like working with an old friend! She immediately puts you at ease. She listens well and excels at finding people what they're looking for. I would definitely choose to work with Quin in the future!
Maxie, 32
My Matchmaker, Natalia, has been super-sweet and accommodating. In addition to the matches they provide, they also hire a professional photographer, as well as two complimentary sessions with a very good coach. My Matchmaker hasn't just been providing matches but also giving me good feedback on how to use dating apps.
John, 36
Michal is such a lovely, supportive person, who is easy to open up to and quickly got to know me well, even going far out of her comfort zone to experience one of my interests. Michal sought to highlight the things that make me unique and find matches that would appreciate those things, never suggesting I change or not share all of myself. Every introduction she made resulted in a good date - even if it was only one date, I felt my time was well spent. I am now married to my match and Michal has supported me every step of the way. I am excited for the future and so glad I made the decision to hire Michal!
Tamara, 34
Working with Krissy was a seamless experience. Being extremely busy and focused on my career, it was helpful knowing she was saving me time by searching for potential matches. By listening to my feedback throughout the process, her matches were getting closer to what I'm aiming for overall! I appreciate our honest communication and overall relationship.
Chase, 36
Working with Erika has been such a pleasure. It has been such a comforting and uplifting experience knowing that I had someone in my corner finding me intelligent, attractive, kind-hearted potential partners who have similar goals as I do. Erika was understanding when I needed to take some time to myself and was enthusiastic and upbeat when I was ready to come back to the process. That was when I met the love of my life. He was my last match and I was his first. Without Erika, I'm not sure this could have happened. I have never been so happy in my life! And I'm grateful to Erika and the Three Day Rule process.
Michelle, 30
Anyone who gets the pleasure of working with Quin is not only in the most capable and caring hands, they're sure to have a fun and memorable experience as well. Quin is a remarkable person who deeply wants those around her to be successful, in life and especially love. Her world travels and flair for adventure gives her a contagious energy that permeates her passion for people.
Rebecca, 32
Talia set me up with some amazing women. She knew exactly what I was looking for, and she was able to find women who were looking for someone like me. I went out with four different women through Three Day Rule, and I wound up going out on multiple dates with all of them. That's unheard of with other dating services, where both people are walking in almost blind not knowing about significant characteristics about the other that would prevent a relationship from happening. Three Day Rule's pre-screening is a major help. Talia also told me some things that I was doing wrong on my previous dates through other avenues, which I had no idea were a problem. She was quickly able to decipher some of my strengths and coached me on how to utilize them in the first few dates when things can be a bit awkward and you're worried about moving too fast or too slow. The Three Day Rule batting average was easily the highest of any dating service I tried, and I'm grateful that I was able to meet my wife through Talia's service.
Phil , 35
I decided to hire Three Day Rule because I needed to do something proactive about my (lack of a) dating life and I just couldn't stand dating apps. Working with Krissy and Devyn was like having your girlfriends pre-screen all your online matches, except they truly understand what you're looking for and are approaching it without any bias. The unexpected part was that before any matching happens they make you do the hard work of thinking about, and explaining to them, in order of importance, exactly what you're looking for in a partner as well as why what you've done in the past hasn't worked. Throughout the process they're also your biggest cheerleaders providing pep talks before a date, listening to your feedback after a date, and even doing the work of having that uncomfortable conversation on your behalf if it just doesn't click with the other person. Beyond the initial dates Krissy was an amazing sounding board as my relationship started to develop, and even checking in periodically over the last year to see how things were going with me and my (now) fiancé. Overall it was a really positive experience that I would recommend to anyone who is tired of all the nonsense when it comes to dating and is serious about finding someone.
Amelia, 36
I wasn't quite sure what to expect signing up with Three Day Rule. I was super apprehensive at first about matchmaking for a number reasons. Matchmaking in general, no matter what service you use can feel expensive at first. But I have been working with Natalia for a while and I can tell that she is doing a ton behind the scenes. I feel like I have made the right decision. She has taken extra time to get to know me and what I am looking for. She is prompt and professional, and takes the hard work out of finding the right person. She has great insight and feedback. As far as cost, you have to consider that you are paying for the matchmakers time as well and that is just part of the cost. They are doing work on your behalf. That is the way I feel about it anyway. It's also important to manage your expectations and keep an open mind.
Andrew, 33
My experience working with Kristen was an absolute pleasure. I always felt like she was really listening to me when I shared my preferences and feedback - she learned what was super important to me and kept that in mind when looking for and presenting any matches. She definitely helped me keep an open mind when it came to dating and meeting new people, and was great at delivering feedback from others. Throughout the process, I developed an even better sense of what I was looking for out of a partner, leading me to the relationship I'm currently in!
Louise, 28
I was completely unsure of what to expect from my meeting but from the moment I walked in Natalia put me at ease. I met with her to be matched up with a client. We chatted over a drink and she asked me some questions to get a sense of who I was and if I'd be a good match. I felt like I was chatting with a friend and the questions made me examine what I was looking for and my past relationships.
Sarah, 28
Dating in a city like Los Angeles can be challenging in many ways, but Three Day Rule has so far exceeded my expectations! Meeting and working with both Talia (Founder) and Lisa K (my matchmaker) has been an absolute pleasure and I look forward to more to come. I appreciate their thorough vetting process when it comes to matches, and also the valuable insights they give throughout the dating process. After all, relationships are a constant work in progress, and it's good to have the folks at Three Day Rule behind you as your counselors and confidantes! I would highly recommend Three Day Rule to anyone who's done the work on themselves first, and are truly ready to meet quality people. Those people DO exist, but you have to be open to meeting them! Thank you Talia and Lisa!
Peter, 42
Dating in NYC has its excitement and challenges. Working with Elisa has been a joy. Through my dating path, I have learned - like so many of my friends and women out there - it's a numbers game - understanding my preferences and ultimately more about myself has been a journey. Throughout all of this, I've been able to change my steps to struts of confidence with Elisa's consistent support, candor, and thoughtful guidance. Most importantly, her words of encouragement and sound advice has helped to strengthen my obligation to myself - by holding myself to a higher regard with positivity and gratitude. For this, I'm grateful, thank you Elisa!
Sandra, 37
I can't say enough nice things about Quin and my experience with Three Day Rule. They really listened, understood me, were patient and generous. Two thumbs up!
Geoff, 40
I had the pleasure of working with Lisa at Three Day Rule and could not have been more pleased with my experience. I must admit that I was initially skeptical about working with a matchmaking service but that feeling was completely dispelled once I met with Lisa. She was an absolute delight to work with and really made every effort to determine the types of men I was interested in meeting. In all of our interactions - whether it was via phone, email, or texting - Lisa was consistently reliable, insightful, and supportive. Plus, I had been out of the dating scene for many years so Lisa proved immensely helpful as a “dating coach” and mentor! She is such an upbeat and positive person which made potentially awkward conversations with her completely natural and comfortable. Although I did not end up meeting my perfect match, I enjoyed my dates with the men that I was matched with and felt that the overall experience was worthwhile.
Sabrina, 66
I had heard about Three Day Rule from one of my friends that was successfully matched up by Callie, so naturally I had to check it out myself. My experience with Callie has been like a breath of fresh air, and a fun, new approach to dating! After creating a profile, I had an in-depth, one-on-one meeting with Callie - and just from the one hour I spent with her, I could tell she was intuitive, experienced, passionate about her work, and just really good at her job. She genuinely cared about getting to know who I was and what a compatible match would look like for me. The meeting was fun and friendly (Callie is really easy to talk to), but more importantly, it was a great way for me to really think through what was important to me in a partner. Highly recommend and know I am in totally capable hands with Callie!
Kendra, 30
Our experience with Three Day Rule has been nothing short of life changing and we have both Brittney and Three Day Rule to thank for helping us cross paths. They genuinely care for their clients, take the time to get to know you, and what you are looking for in a partner. The process is very different from the everyday online singles sites, which we both have tried in the past. There is no computer algorithm finding the best matches for you, rather real people searching for matches that fit your personality and long term goals. For two very busy professionals, the idea of having a Matchmaker, with our best interests in mind was very refreshing. After your Matchmaker gets to know you, it feels like you are going on a date that was set up by a good friend. The entire process is much more personable and the quality of a ‘match’ is a better fit. While Three Day Rule cannot guarantee love and marriage, it worked for Souji and I. We are so grateful for the guidance and support that our Matchmakers provided. Souji and I were married in October of 2018. Taking the leap and joining Three Day Rule was one of the best decisions each of us has made. We highly recommend the Three Day Rule process!
Nate, 41
I've worked with Three Day Rule for three years and I've finally found the love of my life! You really have to trust the process. With each match, you learn more about what you are looking for, and more importantly, you learn more about yourself. The coaching I received was not just about dates, but also more about life lessons (overall outlook on life, confidence building, and understanding love languages). Not all of my matches were great, but they were good matches that really pushed me out of my comfort zone. With each match, I found characteristics that were similar to mine but just not exactly what I was looking for. I have worked with four Three Day Rule Matchmakers, and Michal was my last Matchmaker. Michal is very honest, cuts through all of the bs, and ultimately wants you to find someone you can see yourself with for the rest of your life. She is EXTREMELY passionate about her job, works hard for her clients, and it shows. She really did push me out of my comfort zone, which was a good thing (after all, if I was doing things correctly, then I would not need a Matchmaker!). In the first thirty minutes, we discussed past relationships, where I could improve, how to boost my confidence, past mistakes, and what I am ultimately looking for. None of that "someone funny, caring, nice, etc." packaged responses, but really, WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING FOR? The time came for my first match from Michal. After each date with my match, I had a recap with Michal, which I really valued. By the fourth date, I knew Michal had found someone amazing. She is everything I could ask for and more. I do not know how Michal did it, especially after one face to face and a few phone calls and email exchanges, but she was able to see something in the both of us that made us compatible. I am very thankful for what Michal and Three Day Rule has done for me.
Jerry, 31
I wanted to share with others my extraordinarily positive experiences with Three Day Rule. I particularly would like to thank Jaime Bernstein, who has served as much as a friend as she has a matchmaker. Three Day Rule matchmakers have matched me with several different women and I can honestly say every woman was an excellent individual. Whereas some were not mutually romantically compatible, I cannot blame Three Day Rule for that. I did date one woman I met through Jaime for an extended period. Three Day Rule reduces the effort and the stress of working on online dating sites, and adds a distinct personal touch to the process of meeting high quality matches. I strongly recommend that individuals considering help with meeting compatible matches to consider Three Day Rule. Good luck to all!
Tom, 57
I highly recommend Three Day Rule and Jaime Bernstein, in particular. I've been working closely with Jaime, and I'm a big fan. It's a little like having a good friend looking out for you. In addition to being very kind and responsive, she's very talented as a matchmaker. I've met some really wonderful people through her -- all kind, smart, and attractive. I highly recommend!
Mike, 41
Can't say enough great things about working with Callie. Funny enough, my experience with Three Day Rule and Callie started when she approached me out of the blue. We go to the same gym, and one day after taking a class together, she shamelessly asked if I was single and explained that she was a matchmaker. My first thought: I'm intrigued. My second thought: how awesome would it be to have Callie constantly looking out for you? And what I've since learned is that no one is safe - if Callie thinks someone could be a good match for one of her clients, she's going to approach them and try and learn more about them! The meeting where Callie learned more about me was efficient, easy and honestly really enjoyable. Callie has a way of getting out of you what is really important in a partner. She's fun to talk to and non-judgmental. She said some line about "this only works if you're open and honest" and it forced me to re-think how I was answering her questions. And it didn't just stop with one meeting. Callie checks in frequently and has really gone above and beyond to learn more about who I am and what works for me in a partner. I genuinely don't know how one person has the time to understand so many people, but Callie gets it done. Since our first meeting, Callie has set me up with a couple of women, and all of them were smart, attractive, emotionally ready for a relationship, and ultimately compatible on a lot of levels. Each date was enjoyable and helped me understand more about what I value in a partner. I can tell Callie is a total champion for her clients, and I can't imagine a scenario where someone that works with her doesn't benefit from her passion, energy, and expertise in some way. Highly recommend.
Phil, 42
Newly divorced, and more than a little skittish, I was grateful to Callie and the Three Day Rule team for helping me 'get back out there'. It had been many years, and I had no idea how to be assured I was meeting authentic, quality individuals. Callie does a thorough job vetting matches, and I met terrific people through her (a few of whom are good friends to this day). She took the pain out of the process and was a great cheerleader and motivator at a critical time. Her natural enthusiasm and passion for what she does make the process fun, and her commitment to her clients is admirable.
Erin, 60
Working with Kristen at Three Day Rule has been really enjoyable. She really cares about the people she sets on dates and genuinely wants people to find their perfect match. I recommend Kristen and Three Day Rule to anyone who is looking for a serious relationship.
Derek, 36
From my first meeting with Callie, I knew her approach to matchmaking was different. She listens without any judgment, provides expert input, and genuinely tries to get to the root of who you are and who is a compatible match - and as a plus, she makes the whole process super enjoyable. Since that meeting (so encouraging), Callie and her colleagues at Three Day Rule have sent me a few guys - all of them were kind, respectful, and serious about finding a relationship. It's so comforting to know I'm in really capable hands with Callie, and I can tell Three Day Rule's process attracts people that are intentional when it comes to dating. That in and of itself, is a huge value-add!
Alison, 31
Being matched with Three Day Rule clients has really been a positive dating experience. I would highly recommend working with Jaime or anyone on the Three Day Rule team. They are not pushy and and provide some good advice for dates. I have been on different dating apps, and this is definitely more of a personal touch.
Isaac, 32
My experience with Callie and Three Day Rule started a couple of years ago and has been nothing but positive and productive for my dating life. All of the women Callie has matched me with have been personally vetted, and it definitely shows in the quality of the dates and connections. And after each date, Callie reaches out for feedback to see how she can improve her matching moving forward. I know if Callie sends me someone, we're definitely on the same page in terms of relationship goals and priorities in a partner, which is one of the most valuable things about this service. Would highly recommend working with Callie and Three Day Rule for singles that are serious about finding a partner and compatible relationship!
Peter, 35
I signed up with Three Day Rule and was introduced to Elisa Del Castillo as my matchmaker. We met in person. She was very friendly and attentive. We went over aspects of my life and my preferences in a match. We continued communicating after that initial meeting. What I enjoyed about working with Elisa is that she got to know me really well and she was always available to talk about potential matches. Elisa introduced me to some exceptional women who were just my type. I also enjoyed receiving the feedback from Elisa after the dates. I highly recommend Three Day Rule and working with Elisa if you are able to do so.
Tony, 51
Working with Kara has been one of the highlights of my year. Kara’s positive effervescence and bounding energy have buoyed me through the dating experience. She has been my wing-woman, cheerleader, a solid shoulder to cry on and constant source of encouragement and light! Throughout the last 3 months, she’s been my dating rock, always there to listen with an empathic ear and offering up wise advice to help me get back on track. Kara enabled me to do some soul-searching and personality digging that I will cherish and pull from for years to come. I am filled with deep gratitude for having met Kara and I am now hopeful and confident that I will indeed find my person – with patience and a deeper sense of self-esteem having known and worked with Kara. I would more than highly recommend Kara to anyone that is looking for a quality relationship/connection (and I actually have told a few friends, and one of them has connected with her). I will truly miss our video chats and email connection, but I know she will keep me top of mind as she helps others find their person. Kara has left an indelible mark on my heart and soul that will sustain me going forward. Thank you Kara for absolutely EVERYTHING! You are the very best – and you truly have found your life’s mission/calling.
Monique, 61
Brittney is not a Matchmaker, she is ALSO a Matchmaker. Far more importantly though, she is an invaluable advisor, a trusted confidante and above all a loving friend who is smart, affable, and talented. With Brittney in my corner, I have absolute confidence that I will find my match, leaving me the pleasure and privilege of truly enjoying the process of dating. As a VIP client of Three Day Rule, I have unparalleled access to a network of women that are beautiful, intelligent, charming and successful among a litany of other qualities. However, beyond these baseline criteria, Brittney goes above and beyond to see that each match fits my unique interests. This level of diligence and selectivity on her part all but guarantees compatibility, allowing me to focus on evaluating the interaction solely on the basis of real life chemistry and long term fit. As we've continued to work together, Brittney has also been a constant source of sage advise when I seek or require it in navigating the dating landscape. In a nutshell, while matchmaking is Brittney's talent and career, her passion, love and enthusiasm make this relationship and process personal. Three Date Rule is an amazing organization in its entirety. Beginning right from the on-boarding process itself, during which I had direct communication with Founder Talia Goldstein, it was clear to me that the Company's ethos and practices straight from the top down are to put client needs above all else. Three Day Rule has offered me an abundance of flexibility and support, tailoring my contract to meet my needs and allowing me to pause and resume service as relationships start and stop. I have already recommended their service to family and friends alike, and will continue to do so. For anyone who is looking to optimize, enhance or simply streamline their options around finding a relationship, Three Day Rule is a must!
Rahul, 38
Caitlin provides top-notch personalized matchmaking experience. She is personable and smart, and most importantly, she is compassionate in her approach to matchmaking. The feedback sessions with her after each date are invaluable as well as insightful. I love that working with Caitlin is like having another trusted friend by my side through the whole dating experience! I’m also grateful for the Three Day Rule team who are quick to respond when I need their assistance. I wholeheartedly recommend Caitlin and Three Day Rule.
Sariah, 43
Working with Jaime to meet potential matches has been a great experience. Three Day Rule seems selective in their process, both in taking on clients and recommending matches. I have been particularly impressed with the transparency Jaime provides- asking REAL questions to make sure no one is wasting their time. I would highly recommend working with Jaime or any number of her colleagues at Three Day Rule.
Crawford, 38
I had a great experience working with Quin from Three Day Rule! During the match making process she filled me in every step of the way and helped me feel comfortable and better know what to expect. She is so energetic optimistic and is genuinely fun to work. She is also very good at aligning interests and understanding what people are truly looking for in a match. I highly recommend her!
Ashley, 29
It has truly been so wonderful to work with Stacia and the process has exceeded my expectations. Thank you for all of your warmth and support. Working with Stacia has been a true pleasure. I can’t say enough positive things about my experience. After having gone through a divorce and finding myself single in my 40’s, I had no idea how to navigate the new world of dating. From my first interaction with Stacia, she brought so much compassion, warmth, support, thoughtfulness, and fun to the process. She felt like a good friend to me and was always available for guidance, support, and advice. She understands people and took the time to get to know me well. I feel that she definitely has my best interest at heart. I’m still dating one of my matches for nearly 5 months now. I am re-energized and so much more confident now after this wonderful and worth-while experience with Stacia. I feel so fortunate to have had Stacia as my Matchmaker, as I couldn’t have imagined a better Matchmaker! I highly recommend working with Stacia.
Eloise, 47
I’ve worked with a number of matchmakers in NYC before working with Brittany and she is in a league of her own as the best matchmaker in NYC. Brittany is a lovely woman who has mastered the art of being a trusted matchmaker. I’m a VIP client of Three Day Rule who is extremely particular in what I’m looking for and Brittany consistently sets me up with women who meet all of the criteria I’m looking for. Three Day Rule is the best matchmaking company I’ve worked with (I had a number of bad experiences with NYC matchmakers before working with Three Day Rule). These bad experiences made me hesitant to initially work with Three Day Rule but deciding to do so was one of the best decisions I’ve made in my life. I’m confident I’ll meet the woman I marry through an introduction from Brittany.
Steven, 48
Three Day Rule makes it easy to meet new and interesting people that align with your dating interests, goals, and expectations. Their efforts to identify outstanding matches and properly set expectations for a successful first date remove much of the most unpleasant and anxiety-laced components of traditional online dating from your plate. My matchmaker's efforts have allowed me to focus on creating personal connections with matches and allowed me to identify and focus on those attributes that make a person right for me. For anyone tired of the same old same old around traditional online dating, working with a matchmaker like Kat offers an incredible change of pace that I can't recommend enough.
Pete, 40
Working with Kat has been pure joy and I encourage anyone on the fence that you will have fun, learn a lot about what you're looking for, and feel encouraged about your future relationship(s) and life in general by partnering with her. Even though Kat and I worked together remotely, as she correctly observed when we first talked, most people's lives and communications are online these days, so she's just as good at shamelessly finding and interviewing lots of people in your city despite not being physically there. Kat truly loves people and her job, and is full of the best energy for this kind of work, but also knows how a variety of people think and feel. You'll be in the best hands with Kat as your Matchmaker!!
Milo, 41
Working with Devyn has been a life-changing experience. I've met some great matches without the time and struggle of finding that needle in a haystack through online dating. But the part that has been unexpectedly impactful has been the date coaching. I've learned so much about myself and what I'm looking for in a relationship. Devyn has been wonderful in helping me figure out what's truly important to me and why certain relationships did or did not work out. It's had a huge effect on how I approach dating and I now feel ready to find the right guy for me. She has made the dating process so much more fun and less of a mystery.
Kaden, 35
Quin is a deeply caring person who goes above and beyond for her clients. If you want a matchmaker who not only has your back, but is also a delight to be around - she is your woman!
Caroline, 32
I wanted to take the time to acknowledge Kara Laricks' outstanding work and express my gratitude for our 1-on-1 coaching sessions. Kara is professional, communicates well, and is genuinely concerned with my overall wellness and personal goals. Not only has Kara helped me with reframing a mindset or understanding the value of my experiences, but our conversations are always full of laughter and positive energy! I really appreciate her infectious optimism and I definitely wouldn’t have the confidence to take the leaps & bounds forward without her unconditional support. As a retired military member and government employee, I’ve always prioritized high standards of performance and value. Kara exceeds these expectations and does so with humility and authenticity. Kara is a rockstar and I wanted to give her a shout out because she’s worth her weight in gold.
Three Day Rule is the real deal and worth the expense. My Matchmaker assured me that Three Day Rule was invested in getting me results, that they wouldn't just send me matches to meet the match quota, and that they would be responsive to my feedback about my matches. That's exactly how my experience played out. The debrief process and date coaching alone made the experience worthwhile - I learned a lot about what matters to me, how I perceive others, and how others perceive me. My Matchmaker also gave advice about my dates with people I met on my own. When I signed up, I understood that no Matchmaker could guarantee they would find me the perfect person (though Three Day Rule ultimately did!). What I can say with confidence is that Three Day Rule is an ethical company that cares about keeping clients satisfied. I've been in a Three Day Rule-matched relationship (my 6th match) for a little over a year now, and I have no doubt that I owe the relationship to Three Day Rule. He was and is exactly the kind of man I told her I was looking for, but I never would have known that if she hadn't shepherded me along with advice and encouragement after our early dates. Based on my experience, I've referred several people to Three Day Rule (including coworkers, friends, and friends of family).
Lauren, 32
Working with Devyn and Three Day Rule really changed my perspective and mindset on dating! She made me think about things in a whole new way and helped me get out of a mindset that was honestly holding me back. This process really opens your eyes - articulating my must-haves versus the nice-to-haves with Devyn and reflecting on my past relationships, as a means to identifying what I want going forward, forced me to take an honest look at what was important to me. We often think the partnership we seek will "magically appear" - Devyn helped me to realize that I have to choose love and put in work towards finding the right relationship, similar to how I work towards everything else in life. I sometimes stand in my own way and it is so helpful to have a coach, both for accountability and support - Devyn has provided that to me and more. She gave me very actionable tips to fight against my own self-sabotage and was there for me even as I met men outside of Three Day Rule. My work with her facilitated meeting the man who I hope is 'the one"! Thank you, Devyn and Three Day Rule!
Delila, 32
Thanks Three Day Rule, I’ve met a man who has swept me off my feet. My Matchmaker thought she had a great potential match for me so we chatted about my preferences and long-term goals, and then she introduced me to Chris who is affectionate, kind, hardworking, successful, handsome... my perfect match! She listened to what I was looking for in a man when I didn't know Chris even existed. I am so grateful Three Day Rule came into my life - they truly know what they are doing, and are invested in both their clients and matches. Thanks again!
Christine, 31
My experience with Three Day Rule and Brittney has been fantastic. I was very hesitant in signing up for yet another dating site. However, Three Day Rule is different, and after meeting Brittney (who is a very genuine person) and talking about my goals and what I was looking for, it felt like the right thing to do. After my interview with Brittney, I was like; wow she really cares and is going to give 100%. Brittney takes the time to personally meet with my matches and ensure that they are the right fit. When I have questions about the process or potential matches, Brittney makes herself available to have a quick phone conversation and she also responds quickly to e-mails. It is a relief that I have such a great person helping me search for that special someone. I highly recommend the Three Day Rule process and Brittney as your personal Matchmaker.
Nate, 40
Talia and her team are genuinely gifted at what they do. They are courteous, professional, and kind. Talia really took the time to listen to the type of man I wanted to meet and truly paid attention to all details, concerns, hopes, and long-term goals. She is extremely thoughtful, knowledgeable, and realistic - providing a sense of security and positivity throughout the dating process. Give it time, be patient, and learn from every experience. It WILL happen! Three Day Rule is the perfect boost for anyone looking for true, long-term love. I'm so incredibly happy and grateful as I’ve met the man of my dreams.
Jade, 31
I'm very selective in regards to education and looks, and have a very particular type. I thought the probability of meeting such a person through Three Day Rule was low, but I found Carla to be very personable and confident, and decided to give it a try. Working with Carla was great, and over time, we found someone who exceeded expectations and that I am really excited about, and who I would have never otherwise crossed paths with. This could have been the best investment of my life!
Max, 37
I really enjoyed working with Talia, and the Three Day Rule team. I was impressed with the efforts Talia and her team made to get to know me and how hands-on they were from the start. I met people who I felt had my same level of drive, ambition, and passion, which can be really hard to discern on apps. I learned so much about myself in my time working with them and was really impressed with how thoughtful the process was. I'm happy to say that I think, thanks to Talia and Three Day Rule, I've gone on my last first date ever.
Callie, 29
My experience with Three Day Rule was fantastic. I realized that my dating life had become a cycle - meet someone, date, have a great time, and drift apart. I was looking to reset and target what I was really looking for. Devyn and Elisa were fantastic during our interview process in forcing me to really isolate what I was looking for. I went on several dates, each with really amazing women - interesting, smart, driven, and beautiful people. I dated one woman for several months, and that was what led to really my biggest takeaway from Three Day Rule. More than just getting a date, Elisa's support and communication through several first dates and then actually dating really helped me understand how to 'date better', not just more. Whether it was jumping on a call to discuss a particular conversation or text, or being there to offer advice on what might be going through the other person's head - Elisa and Devyn's advice and guidance over the course of a couple months was truly life changing, and I'm extremely grateful for their support and very happy to have met them. The service is expensive, but like with anything, you get what you pay for. I would highly recommend their service to any of my friends or anyone looking to improve how they date. Thank you Elisa and Devyn!
Nick, 40
Dating in New York City in general left me skeptical, but Krissy inspired me and won my trust in our initial conversation. She listened to me, asked great questions, and answered all of mine candidly. Signing up was one of the best decisions I’ve made. It's great to have someone vetting your dates. Why waste time, when you can have a professional go on your first date and ask the tough questions we all want to know right off the bat? I'm truly having an amazing time working with Krissy. Krissy listened to my feedback and showed up with a match I couldn't have dreamed up for myself. She's been open-minded, a great listener, patient through my frustrations, candid, and insightful! Someone I'm truly grateful to have on my side. My advice to anyone who jumps into the Three Day Rule family is to be as specific as possible about what you're looking for, and also to be patient and open-minded... you'll learn and your Matchmaker will learn with you. It's changed how I feel about dating in NYC in the most positive of ways. Thank you Krissy!
Rachel, 35
My favorite part about Three Day Rule is the openness of its members.  Everyone I've met is very honest and forthright about who they are and what they want.  I think most people dislike the "game-playing" that happens in dating, and I've experienced none of that here.  Also, the people I've been matched with are intelligent, motivated and professional; exactly the types of people and qualities I would look for on my own.
Edward, 37
I can't say enough great things about my experience working with Callie. Not only is she amazing at her job, but she's also positive and personable - it makes working with her easy and fun! As soon as you meet her, you can tell that she's incredibly capable and really respects and values her clients. While the experience is fun and enlightening, I do encourage people to remember that this is a process. Callie is exceptional about taking feedback and lessons learned from previous matches and applying it correctly in her search for the next match. The sixth and final match Callie sent me was the winner. I can't even put into words how amazing our first date was - and every day since then has been better. I was honestly at a point where I was afraid I would never find anyone compatible, and I'm so grateful for my experience with Callie. Callie is truly amazing at what she does and my partner and I are both so thankful for her hard work, amazing intuition, and incredibly friendly and supportive approach to matchmaking!
Megan, 33
I couldn't be happier to have found Adrian. Thank you, Talia and Three Day Rule.
Alli, 44
Meeting Callie was like meeting a friend over coffee. We talked about what kind of things I like, and what kind of things to look for in my future partner. When I read the description of me that was sent to my now husband, Jason, as an introduction, I was surprised at how correctly Callie captured me in a few sentences, and delivered who I was in a meaningful and hopeful tone. It is absolutely true that without Callie and Three Day Rule, I would not have met Jason - a warm-hearted, goofy, hard-working guy that is my better half. We are both doctors with busy schedules who were living in different cities. For that I'm deeply grateful, and I've been recommending Three Day Rule for all my single friends!
Natalie , 41
There is no other matchmaking company that compares in terms of authenticity and curated service. Brittney is a true asset to Three Day Rule. She is a genuinely kind person which makes it easy to trust her from the get go. I also felt that she served as my advocate as opposed to simply sending me on dates with just anyone to check off some list, as friends have experienced with other companies. Brittney is a true professional with impeccable follow through and an innate ability to ask the right questions to develop a real understanding of my goals and needs. Her positive outlook and insight definitely helped allay anxiety with the process. All of my dates were a positive experience.
Sarah, 46
Meeting Jaime was the best decision I ever made. I was able to tell her everything about what I wanted and she wanted to hear it all! When Jaime followed up a couple of days later to introduce me to Adam, I was excited. I couldn't be happier or more in love. Adam is the love of my life. Unlike other guys I met, he was serious about being in a relationship and knew what he wanted. I feel so incredibly grateful to be with Adam and it's all because of Jamie and Three Day Rule.
Sherri, 32
Callie was great to work with! She was very respectful and worked around my busy work schedule. She paid close attention to what I was looking for and has a natural talent for knowing what makes two people connect. On the second date, Callie ended up matching me with someone that could not be more perfect for me. We are married and are both so happy I joined Three Day Rule!
James, 32
I thought the difference between having a Matchmaker and doing self-directed dating would be like the difference between recruiting employees yourself and using a professional recruiter.  But after experiencing Three Day Rule's matchmaking, I realized it's a much bigger difference because Three Day Rule eliminates a lot of stress, anxiety & decision points. The user experience for your personal matchmaking is incredibly delightful. I couldn't be more satisfied with the whole process.
Ron, 47
Erika has a gift. She wasn't just checking off boxes and answering pre-made questionnaires-- she was actually really focused on getting to know what makes me different, and beyond all the details and demographic requests, she really came to 'get' me as a person. She introduced me to some really remarkable and beautiful people. And there is absolutely no way that I would have met these women on my own or by swiping right on some app. They are the kind of people that you imagine must be out there, but you never meet. Erika could probably do a lot of different things professionally, and she'd be good at them all. But I really think that this is her calling, because she has the rare ability to actually change someone's life profoundly.
Stuart, 43
Good things come to those who wait. Although it took a little time to find the right match, I have to thank Three Day Rule for finding Greg! We are two plus years into our relationship and currently living together. We would have never met without Three Day Rule!
Karen, 51
After several unsuccessful attempts using other matchmaking services, It was an understatement to say I was not particularly interested in trying another. I spoke with Jaime several times over a 3 week period, including a long session to cover the failures of the past and my concerns moving forward. Jaime was encouraging, had excellent questions, and presented different scenarios so that she could determine a truly exceptional match. I am extremely optimistic. Three Day Rule was able to introduce me to wonderful women who is a match intellectually, emotionally and athletically, and is truly beautiful on the inside and out. I see a very bright future!
Matt, 53
Three Day Rule is quite awesome. If you are ready to jump in with your whole heart, you absolutely will find love, and be on a rocketship with positive emotional growth in all aspects of your life. Natasha does an amazing job of listening to a client's needs, both spoken and unspoken, and she helps you hone in on what you are looking for, through a very interesting process where you get to really examine whether what you ask for is exactly right for you, or if you need to make a few modifications about what you want. I met someone quite amazing about a month after I started with Three Day Rule... and while in my case I met this person through my church, Three Day Rule's process and their coaching really helped with making sure I fully jumped back into life and became my best self, every day. I also really admire the values of all of the Three Day Rule employees - Talia has really set up a kind, thoughtful, amazing company that embodies the best in humanity and the entire Three Day Rule staff. Natasha and Carla, the two Matchmakers I have been paired with have amazing hearts, a depth of compassion that you feel with your very best friends. Quite honestly, if you've made the commitment to be your best self and you listen to their advice, Three Day Rule will add rocketfuel to your emotional growth process and there is a pretty high probability you will find love along the way. :)
Aidan, 36
I get paid to talk to people. It comes easily to me. However, I readily admit I was nervous prior to meeting with Callie. And that was unsettling to me because it's not normal. What kinds of questions was she going to ask me? Was she going to do a mental once over before we even started talking? Did I pick the right clothes to wear? But, despite what felt like stage fright to me, within about 10 seconds of sitting down, Callie had me completely at ease. It was as if you were sitting down with a friend of 10 years talking about your dating life. Sure, there were tough questions about what I am looking for in a match. But, again, Callie has a way of asking these tough but important questions in a way that doesn't make you feel small or that somehow she is judging you based on your answers. Callie and I kept in touch via email after that first meeting and it was clear to me from the beginning that she is a strong advocate for her clients. The world of online dating apps is a crazy and frustrating minefield of good and bad potential dates. Having someone like Callie and Three Day Rule vetting potential matches made me feel very secure in agreeing to see someone. If they passed the Callie test, then there is something positive and exciting there. It goes back to that trusted friend of 10 years looking to set you up with another friend of hers. Having that friend looking out for me is why I came to Three Day Rule in the first place. Thank you, Callie!
Braden, 49
Initially signing up for Three Day Rule was exciting, but I wasn't exactly sure what I was getting myself into. Jaime made the entire experience as wonderful as it could possibly be. Throughout the whole process I not only was able to meet and learn from each match that Jaime provided, but I also learned about myself. Looking back on the entire process, the constant feedback from Jaime not only helped my dating life, but also helped me grow as a person. I cannot thank Jaime enough for everything, including setting me up with a woman that I have created something special with and call my best friend.
Adam, 28
Working with the Three Day Rule team has been an extremely positive experience - from the onboarding interviews to the hand holding during the matchmaking. It was a delightful surprise to see how well my Matchmaker Natalia understood not only what I expressed that I'm looking for, but what I would like and did not say. It is like having an excellent friend who knows who you are making the match. Moreover, and not a bit less important, is how my Matchmaker follows up with me after first dates - providing sound advice and feedback to relieve some of the tension. Overall, I'm pleased with the service and highly recommend the Three Day Rule Team.
Rogel, 52
I couldn't be more happy that I signed up for Three Day Rule. Nora is incredibly sharp, personable and thoughtful, and she did a great job of really getting to know me and what I was looking for in a match. After meeting numerous potential matches, she carefully selected the ones she thought would be a great fit, and she couldn't have been more spot on. My second match quickly turned into a real relationship with an amazing person. When I consider the countless hours and energy I would have wasted on dating apps and on mediocre dates, Three Day Rule turned out to be a great investment!
Tommy, 30
Three Day Rule singlehandedly changed my life for the better! I used to be fixed up constantly, but with all the wrong men. Then, thanks to the spot-on instincts of Talia, Three Day Rule's founder and Matchmaker extraordinaire, I met the man of my dreams and finally went on my LAST first date! We've been married now for over a year, and not a day passes where I don't think about how grateful I am for Talia and Three Day Rule. I've never been happier, and still, to this day, can't believe how lucky I was to meet such an incredible man. I now encourage everyone I know who's single and hoping to meet someone special to look into Three Day Rule matchmaking ... you have nothing to lose and everything to gain!
Allie, 39
I have had the most wonderful, fulfilling, inspiring and educational experience with Devyn from the minute we met. If this sounds like a girl crush, it’s because it is! But guys, trust me – you’ll love her, too (as your Matchmaker, of course). I was hesitant at first to join Three Day Rule – I date a lot on my own – but I knew something had to change, and it really was because of Devyn that I joined. She really understands people and personalities, and is hugely insightful about relationships. She has a way of asking the right questions to get to know you, what you want (or what you think you want) and you’ll find that she understands you better than you do. Devyn is patient and has taken a significant amount of time to get to know me, talk about my dating experiences (the good, the bad, the ugly), and help me learn from it all. If I am feeling mad, sad or defensive, I leave every single conversation with Devyn feeling better, more positive, more insightful, more ready than ever. Devyn is my biggest supporter, my coach, and now my friend.
Briana, 37
I think every single person who has a busy professional life should give Three Day Rule a try. For me, Pre-Three Day Rule dating in New York City was like getting lost in the ocean - it is exhausting, aimless, and stressful. I got serious burnout from endless swipes and dead-end conversations online. I am so grateful that I acted upon the advice of a friend and took a leap of faith to meet with my Matchmakers Becky and Caitlin. They are extremely thoughtful and communicative and always remember to check in to see where I stand in the process. When I received my first match - I was like "Wow I think these ladies really get me!" I feel like now I can focus on getting to know the person in front me without the constant FOMO that I have to attend every social event in order not to miss the "one"! I can't wait to receive my next match from Becky. With the help of my Matchmakers, dating has finally become personal and fun again for me!
Ashley, 33
Michal was amazing. She asked good questions and was very insightful. She clearly listened to me, because I was enthusiastic about all of my matches. She offered a lot of good advice and suggestions that made me approach dating in a much more thoughtful manner. She's incredibly responsive and supportive, and was always available to answer questions and concerns. Working with her was great. I didn't feel like I was dealing with a Matchmaker. I felt like I had made a friend.
Hank, 50
After working overseas for a few years and coming out of back-to-back long-term relationships, I found myself in a dating world I hardly recognized. As a single woman verging on forty, I felt the rules and how couples meet and connect had changed dramatically since the last time I was single. I couldn't figure out how to connect with men swiping right or left and all of my friends had long coupled off and were out of the game. I clearly needed some help and started looking into Matchmakers. Fairly early on, Callie introduced me to Chris and we've been together for about four months! In addition to having good instincts and an amazing network, Callie was the objective set of eyes and ears that I needed. I recommend Callie and Three Day Rule to anyone who does need a little extra nudge or looking to recalibrate their dating life and strategies. Having Callie help me navigate the possibilities has been invaluable and I'm grateful for her help!
Alicia, 39
Dating in New York can feel like a lot of work, but with Three Day Rule, I had fun. The Matchmakers do the leg work and really listen to what you’re looking for and try to understand who you are as an individual, not put you into an algorithm. Natalia, my Matchmaker, listened to my feedback from my matches and introduced me to my now boyfriend. Overall, it was a great experience, and I’m really glad I used Three Day Rule.
Jamie, 39
I'm so grateful for the women of Three Day Rule and their ability to successfully put people together. They took the qualities I was looking for, listened to the type of guy I wanted in my life, and like magic, found a perfect match! They pick your brain and dedicate their time to you. I'm madly in love, completely fulfilled and incredibly happy. I highly recommend letting these ladies get to work to find your soul mate!
Jennifer, 31
My experience with Heather and the Three Day Rule team has been nothing short of terrific. From the first interview I had with them, to numerous contacts in presenting dates for me to meet, to their always-professional follow up, I’ve greatly valued my relationship with Three Day Rule. Importantly, they worked hard to understand the kind of person I am, and the kind of person I would best match up with. I’m happy to say that a couple of the introductions I’ve had via Three Day Rule have led to on-going relationships that I’m still enjoying.
Tom, 62
I scoured the New York area's Matchmakers very diligently and after careful thought decided to go with Three Day Rule. What struck me right away was the Matchmaker's genuine interest in me, really diving deep into who I am and what I require from a match. They were very patient as I was walked through the process, and very flexible as I negotiated what worked best for me. The most valuable part of this process has been my personal Matchmaker, Becky, who has truly become a guide, wing-woman, friend and soul-sister. She is accessible, honest, and truly cares about me and what I desire. She is clearly interested in quality not quantity, and has very quickly figured out what resonates for me. Most importantly her feedback for me is delivered with the utmost care. She has found a way to gently point out a fresh perspective when needed, as well as to fight fiercely to represent me and my values if the situation calls for it. It feels amazing to have her by my side as I navigate finding a life partner. This has been a truly worthwhile experience for me, because of Three Day Rule's highly personalized approach to matchmaking... not found easily in NYC. :)
Sabiha, 39
Tom and I look at each other frequently and remark, "I can't believe we met; we are so grateful." I am thankful that Jaime brought this wonderful man into my life. As single parents with busy careers, meeting the right person was proving to be impossible for both of us. Neither of us enjoyed the typical bar scene and with a high-visibility position in my profession, online dating was not an option for me. Jaime listened to what I was hoping to find in a partner and guided me with thoughtful questions--really helping me to see how my needs for partnership have changed since I was last single. And then Jaime found for me a person who is my complete compliment in every way! We have been together for a year and half now, our collective children are all family and we are planning the rest of our lives together. I cannot thank Jaime enough.
Stephanie, 40
Meeting people is easy. There's an app for that; several in fact. Meeting people you actually want to spend time with? That's altogether different. I love the idea of meeting people organically through friends, you get that all important filter on who you let in your life. But your friends have your own lives and there's only so much you can ask from them. I think that's why it was so great to work with Alexa: she approached you like a friend would, getting to know you and what you were looking for in a way that really gets you to think about what you want. It came together very fast, but in totally natural way and I'm grateful for having had the chance to meet Kat through her. And also, if I've not explicitly stated: Thank you. Kat's amazing, and I really love spending time with her. I know we never would have crossed paths without Three Day Rule and Alexa, and I'm reminded every day I'm with her that you know what you're doing. Keep up the great work!
Kevin, 35
I can’t recommend Three Day Rule highly enough for anyone who’s serious about meeting someone special. The service I got was friendly, personal, fun, and, honestly, helpful well beyond just introducing me to the most wonderful man! My Matchmaker got to know me incredibly well incredibly quickly and set me up with someone who is everything I could ever ask for in a partner. She really went above and beyond and found someone I never could have met on my own, and kept in touch to continue to help me navigate the early part of our relationship. I’m so happy I decided to give Three Day Rule a try, and I’m so lucky to have gotten to work with my Matchmaker, who made me feel like I had a wise and level-headed friend in my corner the whole time. I was able to tell her everything that was important to me in a relationship (and to figure out what was really important in the process) and then meet someone who met and exceeded every one of those expectations.
Kat, 29
I signed up with Three Day Rule with some hesitation. Like many people, my life does not necessarily lend itself to meeting new people -- I work (a lot!), most of my friends are in long-term relationships or married, and I am just too old to hit the bars. But, I was interested in finding a new relationship. A Matchmaker sounded like just the ticket. My first match Callie sent me looked like an odd fit based on my past relationships, but I swore I would be open-minded about doing this, so I agreed to meet Evan. After the first date, I thought he found me uninteresting. But, since I enjoyed meeting him, I said I would see him again if he wanted to. Callie got feedback (invaluable to us meeting again), and Evan said he would like to so we went on date two. The next time went better. And, every time since kept getting better! Now we are married. So, Callie was right and we were wrong about whether we made a good match-we do!
Marie, 50
I started working with Erika after 6 months of being single. I had some dating fatigue from the apps and thought it would be a nice to have someone on the lookout for me. There were three parts of the process that I really enjoyed. Number one - the feedback: Erika gave me honest feedback about my pictures and image which turned out greatly magnifying my success with the apps. It's the honest feedback that people close to you won't always give. Erika also knew a lot of people on the apps so I could ask her advice before going out with them. Number two - the support: dating can get stressful and she always responded quickly and positively when I wanted to discuss my dating life. It's also nice after a bad date to know you have a friend in your corner that is extremely qualified to get you an amazing date. Number three - the Dates: all the dates were what I was looking for and good matches with my personality. With the apps you can go on a lot of dates and only be excited for a few, I was excited for pretty much all the dates she set me up on. It's pretty hard to get a perfect match each time, so I would suggest being patient. 6 dates didn't seem like much when I started working with Erika, but I'm glad I spent the extra money and did 6 instead of 3. Overall, Erika became a friend and someone who I will keep in touch with. So far, I haven't met the love of my life, but she put me in a good position to do so.
Dan, 35
Working with Elisa has been a great experience for me. I was initially hesitant on how this whole process would be because it was unlike anything that I had ever done before. Given the third party nature of this, I was worried that it could feel awkward or not feel very organic. As soon as I began working with Elisa, all of my apprehensions were easily put to rest. I cannot say enough good things about Elisa because she is so easy to work with. She is friendly, intelligent, thoughtful, personable, funny, and she truly cares about getting you an ideal match. Elisa facilitates open communication that thrives on feedback, which is key to a process like this. Elisa communicates with me in a manner in which I feel as though I am her friend and not her client. She works hard and is a natural at her job. I hope that you are fortunate enough to work with Elisa because she is talented, smart, passionate, socially intelligent, and such a pleasure to work with. She also has a wealth of knowledge when it comes to date recommendations when you do get a match. A process like this is only as good as the Matchmaker, and if you are able to work with Elisa, I am confident in saying that you will enjoy your experience as much as I have.
Joe, 40
Erika has not only done an unbelievably good job of introducing me to a string of amazing women, but she has also done a great job of listening to my feedback and nudging me to expand my horizons. Overall, it's been a very healthy balance for me, and I'm excited to continue working with her.
Joe, 40
I met Jaime of Three Day Rule at a party. When I spoke to her, I really liked her personal approach and the fact that she would introduce me to gentlemen who were compatible with my personality and tastes. As I had mediocre experiences with online services, I thought that Three Day Rule's approach was worth a try. I told Jaime that I was looking for a smart man who was caring and financially responsible, politically compatible and without young children. She introduced me to a couple of guys, and then she introduced me to Ted. We’ve been dating for almost a year and still going strong. Thanks Jaime!
Cathy, 58
I had been single for over 8 years when I met Heather at a networking event. I was really excited to meet with her to see if Three Day Rule would be able to help me get past some of my dating roadblocks and meet a great man. We sat down for an hour and she asked me all sorts of great questions that made me uncover many of the things that I didn't know I wanted and needed from a partner. Because of that conversation, I let go of some things that I had focused on attracting and started to think about the new qualities that I didn't even know until Heather asked! Three months later when I was on a dating site I found a man that I would have never thought was a good match for me but ended up being everything that I needed!! We have been together for 1 1/2 years now and are talking about getting engaged soon. Thank you SO much Heather for taking the time to ask the right questions so I could truly uncover the qualities for a partner that was perfect for me.
Natalie, 35
When I first came to Three Day Rule, I was in a negative place in terms of dating. I knew I needed to try something different. From the beginning, I knew this experience was special. My relationship with Callie grew beyond simply “client” and “Matchmaker.” She was always available if I needed to chat, and she really tried to understand the essence of who I was and what I needed in a partner. Callie listened to the feedback I provided after each of my dates and actually applied it to the next match she would present me with, providing an objective lens in my dating life that you just can't get from an app. This led to her matching me with some remarkable people and eventually with Brian, who I felt an instant connection with. When I signed up for this I never expected to meet anyone as special as Brian. Heck, when I first separated from my ex, I was convinced nobody would ever date me at all. I absolutely never thought I would ever love again, or feel loved back - AND I HAVE!!! Thank you, thank you, thank you, Callie! This experience was worth every penny and more.
Nicole, 36
Finding someone to share life with is very hard and very complicated. I’ve tried many ways to find the right person for me. With the advent of online dating, the ability to find people has grown and it has been great fun. However with hundreds of profiles that all seem to blur together eventually, I was finding it more and more difficult to meet someone right for me. I was in a rut and so I tried Three Day Rule. I figured I couldn’t keep doing the same thing over and over and expect the results to be different. I was apprehensive at first. I didn’t really know what matchmaking was nor how it would work. I did my research and narrowed my options to a few matchmaking companies. Then I met with Three Day Rule and my Matchmaker patiently explained how the process worked. I had a lot of questions. During that meeting I got a good sense that this was more than just a paycheck to her. She really seems to enjoy her work of bringing people together. She asked me a lot of questions about who I was and what I was looking for; drilling down pretty deeply to fully understand me. I thought she would put a lot of thought into who I was and what kind of woman would be compatible for me. I was not disappointed. All the women my Matchmaker set me up with were charming and full of life. She spent a lot of time looking for good matches for me. So instead of an algorithm searching keywords and grouping people based on distance and age, I got a perceptive and empathic human who put real thought into what would work for me. I’m really happy with how the process is turning out. I am currently in a relationship with one of my matches. It has been going well. I’m excited to see where it leads.
Shinji, 40
Jaime is a true Matchmaker, her expertise ranges from providing valuable feedback and insight to hand selecting quality matches. I am now in an awesome relationship with someone I would have never met had it not been for Three Day Rule. Emily and I are so happy and plan to move in together soon! I would highly recommend working with Jaime and Three Day Rule to any singles out there!
Jay, 36
I was trying to move on from a breakup that had left me heartbroken. From my first meeting with Heather, I knew she was the perfect person to help me find someone special. Heather is very open, honest, and an amazing listener. I think what makes Heather so successful is that she truly cares about her clients and was genuinely interested in finding out who I was as a person and what motivated me. Three Day Rule introduced me to several wonderful women, and I went on many fun and exciting dates around Chicago. I would recommend anyone who is curious about Three Day Rule to at least meet with a Matchmaker to find out what they are all about!
Randy, 28
I chose Three Day Rule for two reasons - I was too busy at my job to find dates and I realized that I kept dating the same type of disastrous guy. I am glad I did! The whole process was easy, which is exactly what I needed. I was able to focus on my job and still pursue love. More importantly, Jaime didn't set me up with "my type". Instead she set me up with someone compatible - my husband. We are partners in every sense of the word. I am so glad Three Day Rule helped us find each other!
Cecilia, 40
Krissy was such a pleasure to work with, she made me feel comfortable throughout the entire process. She really understood what I was looking for in a relationship and helped me find exactly what I wanted. I’m in an amazing relationship thanks to Krissy, and I would highly recommend Three Day Rule to anyone who is looking for a deep connection. Bob, my boyfriend, said I should say that "Krissy lit the match in matchmaking" - he cracks me up, one of his many charming qualities that I love!
Amanda, 38
When Kara first reached out to me to sit down for coffee and discuss what I was looking for with regard to dating, I almost thought it was too good to be true. Having an in-person conversation is truly a luxury in the world where swiping reigns supreme. Kara is so passionate about getting to know her clients and her warm personality and excited "Eeee's" made her so easy and fun to talk to. I really felt like she got to know me and exactly what I was looking for and she always has incredible insight and dating advice. Being in the Three Day Rule pool has given me the peace of mind that there is a chance for a genuine connection beyond swiping through filtered photos on an app and I feel so lucky that Kara is always on the lookout for the perfect "fox". She is the absolute best and I would recommend her to anyone!
Kelly, 33
I’ve entered a new phase of my life where I’m looking for a serious, lasting relationship, and I turned to Three Day Rule after struggling with online dating. Finding women to date casually was easy, but finding women ready for something deeper wasn’t. Although I had reservations about working with a Matchmaker initially, Callie made the process easy and exciting. Callie went out of her way to get to know me and what I’m looking for. I can’t say enough about the amount of time she’s spent with me, the careful consideration she’s given to what I’d like to find in a partner, and the importance of what I’ve learned from her guidance. Most importantly, Callie found me amazing matches whom I never would have met on my own – including a wonderful woman I’ve been dating for several months! Callie’s an incredible Matchmaker and I’d recommend her (and Three Day Rule) to anyone looking for a fresh approach to finding the right person.
Joshua, 40
Three Day Rule basically provided a monthly-man-in-my-inbox! Callie was so good about checking in, providing feedback, and sending encouraging thoughts. Callie found me an amazing relationship. I fell in love! It didn't work out, but I now know what I want..and know love is possible again!
Martha, 36
Up to the point that I met Kara, I had been hoping and praying to meet the right person. There was something within me that felt stuck, that perhaps wondered if I deserved such love or if such love existed. Then, I accepted a meeting with Kara and that in itself is unusual as I normally was not be open to reaching out to a coach. But I did and the moment I spoke to Kara I felt she was genuine, authentic, and sincere. She asked me all the right questions and shared all the right insight that opened something up in me. I left my conversion with her feeling more hopeful than ever and knowing that I deserve amazing love. I recently met someone who has filled my life with love, lots of affection, and faith for the future. Sometimes in life we need that one person to set us up to receive miracles. Thank you Kara for being that person to unblock my doubts, wounds, and give me a tiny push to continue to believe that love is really possible.
Veronica, 44
Kara is the best Matchmaker I can imagine. Originally, I only planned to outsource matches. I hadn't thought of the benefit of coaching during the process. Instead of blindly finding matches for me, Kara was able to discover my inner issues deep down in my heart. She is so kind, warm and patient that I gradually opened my heart to her, talking openly about life, relationships, and spirituality. Thanks to her, I gained power and made several big steps including coming out to my family, becoming a Buddhist, and the most important, finding myself and my confidence. I am far more ready to fully open myself up to any chances for love in the future. My life has changed from a lonely, sad, closeted gay man to a man with strong confidence who is actively seeking love.
Silas, 30
Working with Three Day Rule has taken the pressure out of dating and has made finding the right person fun again! There’s nothing better than knowing that there’s someone out there looking for your right match for you. You will instantly feel at ease when you meet Kelsey - each time I met her I felt like I was meeting up with a very close friend. Working with Kelsey through this whole process has been nothing but the best experience and I would recommend it to anyone who’s looking for help to find their right match. Kelsey is so kind, genuine, positive, and is truly passionate about getting to know her clients and helping them to find a quality person looking for the same things that they are. I only wish I had done this sooner. The Matchmakers really get to know you, they know what you are looking for and they take the time to get to know your potential matches to ensure that there’s a great first date! I would recommend Three Day Rule to anyone who’s burnt out on all the apps and who’s really serious about meeting some really great quality people! I’m so grateful to Kelsey & Three Day Rule for making dating fun again!
Sierra, 30
Moving from the Midwest to Los Angeles was a huge culture shock, specifically when it came to dating. Being a client of Three Day Rule was an amazing experience that helped me gain confidence in meeting guys, better understand myself, and become genuine friends with my Matchmaker through the process. I was so impressed by their efforts I began recommending friends to Three Day Rule.
Winston, 30
I was extremely skeptical of the matchmaking process and fell more into the idea simply based on the energy, optimism, and positive attitude of my Matchmaker, Erika. She was a pleasure to work with and made the process feel more like two friends gabbing, which inherently made me more comfortable! Within a few months, I met my current boyfriend through Three Day Rule and am still very happily and exclusively dating him. The experience itself was eye-opening and helped me out of my comfort zone and on dates I may not have pursued through an online dating profile.
Madeline, 37
After recently getting divorced, I tried the online dating thing. I found that I wasn't meeting the caliber of women that I wanted to meet or date. After filling out an application for Three Day Rule, I met up with a Three Day Rule Matchmaker, who worked to set me up on a date with an awesome woman that I am currently dating. Thanks, Three Day Rule!
Mark, 46
Working with Jaime has been a very enjoyable experience. She did an excellent job of listening to my thoughts and was always willing to give advice and feedback that was extremely helpful. Throughout the whole matchmaking experience, Jaime was able to introduce me to women that were each more amazing than the last. If I had to do it all over again, there is no doubt that I would work with her again.
James, 26
I wanted to take a moment to thank Adelle for everything so far. I was a bit skeptical on the whole process, but went with my instinct, which told me Adelle knew what she was doing. I'm glad I did. Dating in LA is crazy, and while it's easy to get dates, it's difficult to find quality people - and nearly impossible to find quality people that have similar interests and values. Yet Adelle has delivered on two of two occasions. Not only has she delivered, she has knocked it out of the park! I'm extremely impressed with the quality of the matches and their similarity to what I described I was looking for in a partner.
Colin, 37
At first, it was a little nerve wracking because you're letting someone else go through a database of potential matches - what if they missed or overlooked the perfect match? But, at the same time, it took a lot of pressure off by not having to go out there and meet people at bars or doing the online thing (I've never experienced anything more miserable). I'm currently dating my last match from Jaime. We met 3 months ago and we're beyond happy and excited. I would definitely recommend working with Three Day Rule and Jaime.
Jasmine, 35
I was hesitant about matchmaking, but once I met Erika I knew I was in good hands. She was easy to talk to and really took the time to get to know me and what it is I am looking for. She didn't just throw matches at me, she took the time to make sure my matches were with quality men. I met some great guys that I would not have met otherwise. If you're sick of the online dating world, I would definitely recommend Erika and Three Day Rule.
Sandy, 28
After a friend's suggestion during a dating slump, I met with the Three Day Rule team and told them what I was looking for in a match. After just one meeting, they definitely understood what I wanted and set me up with great guy. We are going on date 5, and I'm really excited for more to come. I am grateful I took my pal's advice so take mine: reach out to the women of Three Day Rule if you are ready to get serious about meeting your match.
Erin, 27
Thanks to Erika for being a kickass Matchmaker. I've learned a great deal about myself and what I put out there to men in the journey. It's been a unique purview for me into myself, really, and I'm glad I worked with Three Day Rule.
Sheree, 33
I’ve gotten a few messages from other Matchmakers (though I’ve unsubscribed from them now), and I have to say your profile descriptions, profile building, and your whole process was so much better. Everything about my Three Day Rule experience seemed so much more personal and genuine, whereas other Matchmakers' messages felt very formalized or templated. If I know anyone in the market in the future, I will definitely not hesitate to refer them your way.
David, 42
Being part of the free pool, I have been so impressed with my experience working with Three Day Rule! Heather really took the time to get to know me. Dating can be so exhausting, especially when using the dating apps. Three Day Rule does the initial legwork for me by introducing me to really great men who have been hand-picked based on our mutual interests, values, preferences, etc. I can count on Three Day Rule to thoughtfully match me with someone who has good intentions, is actually looking for a relationship, and who just may be the man of my dreams!
Kara, 36
I wanted to thank you for sending me Kara, my wingwoman! Kara is a wonderful person and is such a joy - I cannot say enough great things about her. Kara is not only helping me navigate though the dating process, but I am also growing as a person because of her insight. She has been such a positive influence for me. Three Day Rule is so very lucky to have her - she is an asset for any company!
Lea, 56
It was a pleasure working with my Three Day Rule Matchmaker. From the moment we met I knew we would get along well. She listens and seeks to understand with true authenticity. We quickly and easily engaged in meaningful discussions about my goals and wish list for a relationship. She personally met with potential matches and screened thoroughly for the person who presented himself as the perfect fit for me. My Matchmaker never settled and had my best interest in mind during the entire process. In summary, Three Day Rule is caring, authentic, and goes above and beyond for their clients.
Lena, 56
Simply put - Michal was meant to be a Matchmaker. Michal’s warm and energetic personality immediately enabled me to feel at ease and open up. In our first meeting, I felt as if I knew her for years - telling my journey and the type of person I’m looking for to share my life. She has a natural ability to connect with people and you can feel her passion for bringing people together to find love and companionship.
Jared, 35
Working with Brittney has been an absolute pleasure! As a founder of a start-up, time is extremely valuable, and it's important to work with highly efficient people. Brittney not only goes above and beyond when it comes to finding an appropriate match, but does so in an expedient manner. I highly recommend working with her!
Matthias, 38
I have had a great experience working with Michal and Three Day Rule. As a young professional with a busy schedule who was sick of the online dating scene, Three Day Rule seemed worth a try. Once I started working with Michal I knew I made the right decision. Michal took the time to actually listen to what I was looking for, and was always available to chat. Through the process and with the feedback I received after each match I was able to gain a much better understanding of what I’m looking for in a match, which wouldn’t be possible without Michal. I can tell Michal truly cares about finding the right person for me, and I would highly recommend working with her!
Brooks, 29
I have been divorced for over two-years and initially started using the standard dating apps. I spent countless hours seeking out matches, then talking to many women and planning dates through the week that ended up as dead ends because I didn’t have the time to conduct proper due-diligence. I was initially impressed with Devyn's enthusiasm and professional attitude she brought to the dating process. She took the time to learn about me and quickly understand the important attributes that I was seeking in a partner. Prior to Three Day Rule, I was exhausted by spending many hours prospecting and planning dates - once I signed up for Three Day Rule, Devyn spent time conducting the due diligence for each date. She presented to me an amazing match from the outset that was better than anyone I met prior. Thank you Three Day Rule!
Garrett, 52
I would highly recommend Three Day Rule to anyone who is starting over or for whom it’s been a while. As a widow, I was I nervous about getting back into dating. I felt like Jaime really took the time to get to know me, was incredibly insightful in answering my many, many questions, and was compassionate and supportive throughout the entire process. An added bonus of working with Three Day Rule are the professional photos, which make a huge difference in today’s dating world. Jaime and the entire Three Day Rule process had a big impact on boosting my dating confidence and helping me take those important first steps.
Pam, 56
After trying everything that most singletons have in terms of dating (from doing the online programs to being set up when the only commonality is that we are both single), my dear friends found out about Callie and Three Day Rule and convinced me to try it out. And I'm sure glad they did - meeting Callie is like a breath of fresh air! She takes the time to really understand you, while at the same time, you are learning more about yourself from answering her questions and talking with her. During my time working with Callie, I met interesting, eligible, quality men, but didn't quite find a connection with someone. But a few months after we stopped working together, Callie reached out and mentioned that she had a great guy in mind for me. And that's Callie - even after my contract ended, she's still looking out for me and kept me on her radar! It's only been two months of dating this guy, but I've enjoyed every moment. Thank you, Callie!
Leigh, 39
I truly enjoyed working with Krissy. She developed very early on a good sensibility about the types of guys I would match with. I appreciated not having to go through profiles and profiles of guys after work or on weekends and being able to relax or catch up on other personal activities I had put on hold. Krissy was extremely responsive and good at following up with me about dates as well as providing feedback from my matches. Over the few months that I worked with Krissy, I was able to focus more on the fun side of dating and of searching for a significant other. I'm still dating a couple of my matches and have really enjoyed my time with them so far. I'm so thankful for Krissy's help.
Betty, 43
I’m incredibly grateful for Devyn’s warmth, insight, and guidance after a lengthy hiatus from dating. What I most appreciate about her approach is her down-to-earth nature and responsiveness to individual needs. Not only did she support me in developing a more open attitude towards meeting and evaluating potential partners, but also she helped me reflect on past relationship patterns and clarify what I value most at this stage in my life. I never would have imagined that dating could be fun, but I met some great people and am currently in a new relationship with a terrific man.
Ella, 42
As someone who was totally disenchanted by the dating scene and no longer confident in my abilities to find myself a partner, Erika was the breath of fresh air I so desperately needed. She is like having a supportive best friend, cheerleader and dating coach all rolled into one. I felt completely at ease to discuss anything about my dating life with her. Knowing she had my back throughout our time together gave me the chance to relax a little bit and trust the process. Whenever I would start to overthink things and get anxious, I could always count on Erika to take the brunt of my frustrations and get my head back in the game. I honestly think if I didn’t reach out to Three Day Rule I would still be making the same mistakes and cheating myself of the opportunities that are out there, but I just couldn’t see. I am forever grateful to Erika and her team!
Amy, 31
Approaching the idea of hiring a Matchmaker was a difficult but exciting concept for me. The challenges of balancing family, a busy career, and meeting people were daunting and I had not had much success with online dating. Michal made me comfortable with Three Day Rule and the matchmaking process right away and gave me the confidence to move forward. She took the time to learn about where I am in life and where I want to go. She investigated my preferences for appearance, personality, education, location etc, and has found fulfilling matches for me. Michal has offered meaningful guidance on ways to approach the dating process which have increased my comfort level and enjoyment dramatically. I am thrilled to have partnered with Michal and Three Day Rule on this journey and I can’t wait to see where it leads.
Jonas, 50
The dating coach they picked for me, Alexis Sclamberg, she is pretty awesome, extremely insightful, and quite delightful. Interestingly, because I met such an amazing woman and hit it off so well there wasn't much left to do in the way of 'dating coaching', Alexis and I even started addressing other aspects of my life, such as work and family, AND Alexis is so helpful to the point of being able to foreshadow things a week or so before they occur. Pretty remarkable.
My favorite part of working with Elisa was definitely the coaching on wardrobe, texting, and boy secrets - those were definitely helpful things to me. Elisa was always positive on the phone and I know she worked hard to find matches for me. What I have gained from this experience is knowing what I’m looking for and what I’m not. I appreciate all Elisa's coaching during these couple months.
Debbie, 30
Every match I met through Three Day Rule was a great person who I got along with, and every date was enjoyable. It was a much different experience than the countless messaging and swiping of online apps. Mainly, I really felt the Matchmakers took time to get to know people on a deeper level and introduce them to someone they would connect with. There was one particularly lovely women that I hit it off with, but after the first two dates, she had to move away. We have remained connected since then and I’m happy to report a year later she and I are dating and happy.
Travis, 43
I’m very thankful I got the opportunity to work with Natalia Genevieve for my Three Day Rule experience. She definitely took the time to get to know me as a person to figure out what was important to me in a relationship.
Susan, 35
Initially I wasn't sure about going through Three Day Rule to find the love of my life - after talking with Danika, I found her to be personable, intelligent, caring, and confident. Working with Danika was absolutely wonderful, we had great communication, and I got valuable advice from her. Shortly after I started working with Danika, she found someone who is truly special, loving, intelligent, and a great match for me, and whom I would have never otherwise crossed paths with. We are in a relationship and looking forward to many happy years to come. Working with Danika/Three Day Rule is one of the best investments!
Gwen, 49
This is a quick note to thank my Matchmaker Erika. The last time I ended a relationship, I felt panicked and kinda hopeless. This time, I'm genuinely excited to see who else might be out there. I have so much more confidence (and plain competence) going into dates now, and already have a second date lined up with a really awesome girl tomorrow. Thanks so much for the "tough love",I hated it at the time, but there's no denying the results.
Cameron, 27
My experience with Three Day Rule was nothing short of remarkable, after getting past my initial hesitation of engaging with a matchmaking service, I met my Matchmaker for coffee. She was very friendly and made the experience enjoyable. One of the highlights was the true depth of getting to know me and what I was interested in finding in a potential match. I was skeptical that they would be able to find anyone that came close to my laundry list of qualifications. To my surprise, I was matched with Karina, who exceeded all of my expectations. To say that we hit it off would be an understatement; these days we even talk about our six children! Haha, jokes aside, working with Three Day Rule was a stellar experience as they are a dedicated group of professionals who truly want the best outcome for their clients.
Javiar, 31
What a wonderful thing to have Callie as a partner in searching for the love of my life! Callie took time to get to know me and, with each match, she and I both learned a little more about the person I was seeking. Everyone I met through Three Day Rule was lovely but my final match from Callie was a match to last a lifetime. Marisa is one of the most generous, loving, honest and gorgeous people I’ve ever met. We are delighted to have found one another by way of Three Day Rule and are making lots of plans for the life we want to build together. Callie still checks in on us, and I can tell she's genuinely delighted to have helped me to find so much love and happiness. My heart is full and I am immensely grateful.
Rachel, 37
I was a bit skeptical about using a matchmaking service to begin with. After meeting Natalie in person, I was more excited about the process, she seemed to understand what I was looking for and noted that she already had some potential matches in mind. Javiar was my first match and things couldn't be going better. The best part of the process was that I felt like one of my best friends set me up. After our first date, Natalie followed up with both of us to see how the date went. It was so reassuring to know that Javiar felt as excited as I did. For the next few months Natalie continued to follow up and was anxious to hear about how our relationship was progressing. The process couldn't not have been more comfortable and I couldn't be happier to find someone as wonderful as Javiar.
Karina, 32
Erika was a great help and advisor in my quest for a mate. I was uncertain where to look and what to look for. Her predictions and suggestions were right on. Thank you.
Steve, 72
Three Day Rule was incredible to work with. They were proactive, patient, and had my best interests in mind at all times. Best of all, they set me up with an amazing woman whom I wouldn’t have found anywhere else. I am really excited about our future together!
Thomas, 39
I am beyond impressed with the professionalism and quality of Three Day Rule. From the first email, to the first meeting, to the interaction throughout my dates, Three Day Rule was incredibly respectful and helpful throughout the process. Not only did the man I meet through Three Day Rule impress me with the quality of the personnel that Three Day Rule interacts with, but Three Day Rule helped me to find my soulmate. From my first date with Three Day Rule, I was engaged within 7 months, and we are now planning our wedding. I could not be happier and Three Day Rule helped me find someone that I cannot imagine my life without. I am extremely grateful for Three Day Rule and highly recommend its services to anyone looking for true love.
Daia, 33
Elisa is an excellent Matchmaker because everything she says and does feels seamless, authentic and always heartfelt. She is always incredibly understanding, empathetic, sympathetic and always looking out for the bigger interest of her relationship with you - which might not be necessarily be solely about finding you a match. What I'm repeatedly reminded of in speaking with her is that the path to relationship is indeed a journey and the turmoils you face along the way - small or big - with either a guy you just started dating, a guy you have been dating or perhaps even a guy you're considering NOT dating anymore - should help you understand and realize more things about yourself and what you ultimately are seeking from a partner and life in general. I feel very lucky to have been paired with her, have the utmost respect for her, and trust that she has my best interests at heart. She is a gem!
Karisa, 34
When I signed up for Three Day Rule, I was coming off a self-imposed 5 year break from dating. My first date was, in a way, with Michal herself. Michal is a great listener - she really takes things in and made a great effort to get to know me and tease out what I wanted in a potential partner. Over the next few months we would spend hours talking over not only my matches and dating, but also our lives. Michal struck a tricky balance between addressing what I said I wanted and what I was not saying explicitly, but needed anyway. As an example, my first match did not satisfy all the "criteria" I had outlined in the beginning, but he was extremely personable and so incredibly kind - a perfect first date for someone getting back into the dating scene after a long absence. Michal guided me through that entire relationship, from the morning we chatted about that first date, to helping me come up with replies to ambiguous texts. Each subsequent match was clearly carefully deliberated. I could tell Michal made an effort to use my feedback from prior matches in selecting the next one. As the months passed, my idea of what was truly important to me in a partner had crystallized into something slightly different and more defined than the original; I'm not sure I would have gotten there without Michal's help. I'm thankful that she made dating feel fun and safe again.
Rachel, 35
I’ve been a Three Day Rule client for a few months and to date I’ve had a great experience with the company and my Matchmaker Jaime. After trying a dating service with online Matchmakers in other cities and finding that too impersonal, I found Three Day Rule through researching DC Matchmakers. The website’s detail about how the process worked, the Matchmaker’s role, and testimonials piqued my interest. I appreciated that we could schedule an initial coffee meeting, during which I really connected with her and got the sense that she’s passionate about her role and would genuinely listen to what I want and advocate for me as my Matchmaker. One thing that is tremendously important to me is my Christian faith. It was clear she’d had other clients with similar religious backgrounds - she knew all the right questions to ask. I also especially liked that she promised to give honest advice throughout the dating process. I’ve found Jaime to be responsive, wise, and most pertinently, great at what she does. I’ve had three matches to date, and each has been quality - the latest the best yet! After each introduction we’ve debriefed as I’ve wanted, and her advice after those debriefs has been so helpful; I’ve felt they’re improving my dating skills. I’m looking forward to continuing to work with Jaime and praying and hoping I find love! I’d recommend Jaime and Three Day Rule to anyone who’s tired of having unsuccessful, fruitless experiences with online dating and other informal attempts to meet quality potential mates. You’re not guaranteed to find love, but I believe it’s a proactive, worthwhile investment you can make in an effort to get there.
Sade, 37
My experience with Three Day Rule has been very rewarding! Although none of the matches ended up working out, I learned a lot about myself and about what I'm looking for through the feedback process. I feel a lot more confident on dates now! I was also impressed with my Matchmaker Krissy's ability to hone in on what I am looking for. As we gathered feedback, we learned more about which qualities are the most important to me, and the matches became more aligned with those qualities. This process also saved me a bunch of time compared to using apps. Since the vetting is done by Three Day Rule, I didn't need to go through the effort of viewing profiles, messaging in apps, and going on first dates to discover whether I would be emotionally compatible with someone. I just got to go on fun dates with some pretty like-minded people!
Dean, 26
I can't say enough great things about Three Day Rule. I became a paid member in October of 2018. After my first match, my Matchmaker had to move to New York because of family concerns. I was so impressed with how Three Day Rule handled the transition. Not only did they make sure there was a continuity of care, but they handed me over to Michal, who is (in my personal opinion) the best Matchmaker out there. Michal was so thoughtful in getting to know me, in understanding what I was looking for, and in pushing me to go deeper and rethink my approach to dating. I've tried other matchmaking services before, but Three Day Rule is by far superior. The personal, caring, committed approach is second to none. While none of the matches have led to a relationship, the men Michal set me up with were a breath of fresh air. I had met so many men through online dating, but none of them were even remotely compatible. I simply could not see a long-term relationship with them. It had been so long since I met people that I actually wanted to see for a second or third time. On the other hand, the men I met through Three Day Rule were looking for serious relationships. They were ready to start their lives and were willing to date with some intention. They were complete gentlemen and, although we weren't ultimately suited for each other, were so much fun to get to know. I also truly appreciated the conversations I had with Michal after every single date. She listened intently to my feedback and challenged me or comforted me, depending on the situation. It is like having a best friend whose only concern in life is to find you love. If you are on the fence, I hope you take the plunge!
Aleena, 30
Jaime was wonderful. She gave me a lot of tips before my dates, talked through plans with me, and found great matches. I was especially happy to hear actual feedback after each date.
Sam, 42
I liked Three Day Rule because it went a step beyond what you can get with online matching engines. My dates on regular sites weren't terrible but I didn't feel like I was doing much more than randomly meeting people who liked the beach and reading books too. How you see yourself versus how you appear to other people gets in the way. With Three Day Rule I wanted another person to sit down and get to know me from an objective, unbiased point of view and have them say, "I think you'd at least have a great conversation with this person." I got that. My dates with Three Day Rule were definitely of better quality and I met my wife. It worked for me.
Corey, 38
I am deeply grateful that I was able to work with Christie. She's more than qualified to be a Matchmaker in terms of her educational background. She has an Ed.D from USC. She's also a licensed marriage and family therapist (LMFT). More important than her impressive pedigree though, is her wisdom and insight when it came to love and dating. In the 6 months of our time working together, not only did she introduce me to the love of my life, with whom I'm currently engaged and soon to start a family (yes! we have a bun in the oven!), I also learned a lot about myself and my patterns when romantically relating to a potential partner (whether good or bad). I'd say the best thing about working with Three Day Rule is getting to outsource the physically, mentally, and emotionally exhausting process of searching for a life partner. We seek professional help in other aspects of our lives, why not this crucial one as well? My life has completely changed for the better thanks to Christie and the Three Day Rule team. No more lonely nights binge watching Netflix, wishing that my love will come my way. Instead, my future husband is in the kitchen preparing a lovely meal for baby and me while we listen and enjoy music offering from public radio together.
Sunny, 40
Talia has an exceptional ability to read people and figure out what they want in relationships. Her open, supportive, judgment-free manner puts you at ease immediately. She sent me many excellent matches that I would have never met on my own.  I attended several Three Day Rule events and across the board, the guys were smart, attractive, and successful professionals (which is not easy to find in LA!) Having Three Day Rule in my back pocket also took away the pressure of "having to meet someone." Knowing that Talia had my back and was working to find me matches actually helped me enjoy myself when I went out and put me in a better mindset to meet men organically. I'd recommend Three Day Rule without hesitation to any of my single friends.
Kiera, 32
I am very grateful that I met Talia.  Her matchmaking service is so wonderful and personable.  I originally had a great deal of hesitation about being fixed up through a matchmaking service because I felt there was a stigma attached; however, it has been one of the best experiences!  My FIRST match was with an amazing guy whom I'm still currently dating. I'm extremely happy, and I owe it all to Three Day Rule!
Jenny, 35
Working with Erika has been such a pleasure. It has been a really comforting and uplifting experience knowing that I had someone in my corner finding me intelligent, attractive, kind-hearted potential partners with similar goals in life. Erika was understanding when I needed to take some time to myself and as enthusiastic and upbeat when I was ready to come back to the process. That was when I met the love of my life. He was my last match and I was his first. Without Erika, I'm not sure this could have happened. I have never been so happy in my life! And I'm grateful to Erika and the Three Day Rule process.
Megan, 33
Recently at a celebratory dinner, Jon and I thought to look back to the emails where we were introduced to each other (by Erika) sent January 28, 2015. Wonderful representations of us both and it happens to be that we will be getting married April 28, 2018, 3 years and 3 months from our “introduction”. Anyway, thank you, we are both so happy and whatever it was that propelled you to match us we will forever be grateful.
Marge, 39

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