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I’m thrilled I did TDR; it was probably the best investment I’ve ever made. Going through emails and winks online at the end of a long day of work felt like torture. Having a TDR matchmaker meet me and understand my past, my goals, and what I like felt very thorough. I think it is far better to have a group of worldly and savvy matchmakers vet men for me. Thanks so much for introducing me to Corey (who I'm now married to) and for changing our lives!
Wendy, 38
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Corey & Wendy. Married, 2017.
I liked TDR because it went a step beyond what you can get with online matching engines. My dates on regular sites weren't terrible but I didn't feel like I was doing much more than randomly meeting people who liked the beach and reading books too. How you see yourself versus how you appear to other people gets in the way. With TDR I wanted another person to sit down and get to know me from an objective, unbiased point of view and have them say, "I think you'd at least have a great conversation with this person." I got that. My dates with TDR were definitely of better quality and I met my wife. It worked for me.
Corey, 38
My favorite part about Three Day Rule is the openness of its members.  Everyone I've met is very honest and forthright about who they are and what they want.  I think most people dislike the "game-playing" that happens in dating, and I've experienced none of that here.  Also, the people I've been matched with are intelligent, motivated and professional; exactly the types of people and qualities I would look for on my own.
Edward, 37
Callie was great to work with! She was very respectful and worked around my busy work schedule. She paid close attention to what I was looking for and has a natural talent for knowing what makes two people connect. On the second date, Callie ended up matching me with someone that could not be more perfect for me. We’ve moved in together, are getting married in May, and are both so happy I joined TDR!
James, 32
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Beth & James. Married, 2017.
Sherri & Adam. In a Relationship, 2016.
Meeting Jaime was the best decision I ever made. I was able to tell her everything about what I wanted and she wanted to hear it all! When Jaime followed up a couple of days later to introduce me to Adam, I was excited. I couldn't be happier or more in love. Adam is the love of my life. Unlike other guys I met, he was serious about being in a relationship and knew what he wanted. I feel so incredibly grateful to be with Adam and it's all because of Jamie and TDR.
Sherri, 32
Initially signing up for TDR was exciting, but I wasn't exactly sure what I was getting myself into. Jaime made the entire experience as wonderful as it could possibly be. Throughout the whole process I not only was able to meet and learn from each match that Jaime provided, but I was also learned about myself. Looking back on the entire process, the constant feedback from Jaime not only helped my dating life, but also helped me grow as a person. I cannot thank Jaime enough for everything , including setting me up with a woman that I have created something special with and call my best friend.
Adam, 28
I'm very selective in regards to education and looks, and have a very particular type. I thought the probability of meeting such a person through TDR was low, but I found Carla to be very personable and confident, and decided to give it a try. Working with Carla was great, and over time, we found someone who exceeded expectations and that I am really excited about, and who I would have never otherwise crossed paths with. This could have been the best investment of my life!
Max, 37
Good things come to those who wait. Although it took a little time to find the right match, I have to thank TDR for finding Greg! We are two plus years into our relationship and currently living together. We would have never met without TDR!
Karen, 51
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Greg & Karen. In a Relationship, 2016.
I thought the difference between having a matchmaker and doing self-directed dating would be like the difference between recruiting employees yourself and using a professional recruiter.  But after experiencing TDR's matchmaking, I realized it's a much bigger difference because TDR eliminates a lot of stress, anxiety & decision points. The user experience for your personal matchmaking is incredibly delightful. I couldn't be more satisfied with the whole process.
Ron, 47
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Jack & Jessica. Married, 2015.
Erika has a gift. She wasn't just checking off boxes and answering pre-made questionnaires-- she was actually really focused on getting to know what makes me different, and beyond all the details and demographic requests, she really came to 'get' me as a person. She introduced me to some really remarkable and beautiful people. And there is absolutely no way that I would have met these women on my own or by swiping right on some app. They are the kind of people that you imagine must be out there, but you never meet. Erika could probably do a lot of different things professionally, and she'd be good at them all. But I really think that this is her calling, because she has the rare ability to actually change someone's life profoundly.
Stuart, 43
I was trying to move on from a break up that had left me heartbroken. From my first meeting with Heather, I knew she was the perfect person to help me find someone special. Heather is very open, honest, and an amazing listener. I think what makes Heather so successful is that she truly cares about her clients and was genuinely interested in finding out who I was as a person and what motivated me. She introduced me to several wonderful women, and I went on many fun and exciting dates around Chicago. I would recommend anyone who is curious about TDR to at least meet with a matchmaker to find out what they are all about!
Randy, 28
After several unsuccessful attempts using other matchmaking services, It was an understatement to say I was not particularly interested in trying another. I spoke with Jaime several times over a 3 week period, including a long session to cover the failures of the past and my concerns moving forward. Jaime was encouraging, had excellent questions, and presented different scenarios so that she could determine a truly exceptional match. I was impressed with the profile of my first date- but still slightly skeptical. While Melanie and I have only been out on two dates (planning our third), I am extremely optimistic. TDR was able to introduce me to wonderful women who is a match intellectually, emotionally and athletically, and is truly beautiful on the inside and out. I see a very bright future!
Matt, 53
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David & Adelle. Married, 2015.
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Rick & Allie. Married, 2012.
Three Day Rule singlehandedly changed my life for the better! I used to be fixed up constantly, but with all the wrong men. Then, thanks to the spot-on instincts of Talia, TDR's founder and matchmaker extraordinaire, I met the man of my dreams and finally went on my LAST first date! We've been married now for over a year, and not a day passes where I don't think about how grateful I am for Talia and TDR. I've never been happier, and still, to this day, can't believe how lucky I was to meet such an incredible man. I now encourage everyone I know who's single and hoping to meet someone special to look into TDR matchmaking ... you have nothing to lose and everything to gain!
Allie, 39
Talia and her team are genuinely gifted at what they do. They are courteous, professional, and kind. Talia really took the time to listen to the type of man I wanted to meet and truly paid attention to all details, concerns, hopes, and long-term goals. She is extremely thoughtful, knowledgeable, and realistic - providing a sense of security and positivity throughout the dating process. Give it time, be patient, and learn from every experience. It WILL happen! Three Day Rule is the perfect boost for anyone looking for true, long-term love. I'm so incredibly happy and grateful as I’ve met the man of my dreams.
Jade, 31
There is no other matchmaking company that compares in terms of authenticity and curated service. Brittney is a true asset to Three Day Rule. She is a genuinely kind person which makes it easy to trust her from the get go. I also felt that she served as my advocate as opposed to simply sending me on dates with just anyone to check off some list, as friends have experienced with other companies. Brittney is a true professional with impeccable follow through and an innate ability to ask the right questions to develop a real understanding of my goals and needs. Her positive outlook and insight definitely helped allay anxiety with the process. All of my dates were a positive experience.
Sarah, 46
TDR basically provided a monthly-man-in-my-inbox! Callie was so good about checking in, providing feedback, and sending encouraging thoughts. Callie found me an amazing relationship. I fell in love! It didn't work out, but I now know what I want..and know love is possible again!
Martha, 36
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Ashley & Harrison. Married, 2013.
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Chris & Roni. Married, 2014.
I think every single person who has a busy professional life should give Three Day Rule a try. For me, Pre-TDR dating in New York City was like getting lost in the ocean - it is exhausting, aimless, and stressful. I got serious burnout from endless swipes and dead-end conversations online. I am so grateful that I acted upon the advice of a friend and took a leap of faith to meet with my matchmakers Becky and Caitlin. They are extremely thoughtful and communicative and always remember to check in to see where I stand in the process. When I received my first match - I was like "Wow I think these ladies really get me!" I feel like now I can focus on getting to know the person in front me without the constant FOMO that I have to attend every social event in order not to miss the "one"! I can't wait to receive my next match from Becky. With the help of my matchmakers, dating has finally become personal and fun again for me!
Ashley, 33
After working overseas for a few years and coming out of back-to-back long-term relationships, I found myself in a dating world I hardly recognized. As a single woman verging on forty, I felt the rules and how couples meet and connect had changed dramatically since the last time I was single. I couldn't figure out how to connect with men swiping right or left and all of my friends had long coupled off and were out of the game. I clearly needed some help and started looking into matchmakers. Fairly early on, Callie introduced me to Chris and we've been together for about four months! In addition to having good instincts and an amazing network, Callie was the objective set of eyes and ears that I needed. I recommend Callie and TDR to anyone who does need a little extra nudge or looking to recalibrate their dating life and strategies. Having Callie help me navigate the possibilities has been invaluable and I'm grateful for her help!
Alicia, 39
I couldn't be more happy that I signed up for TDR. Nora is incredibly sharp, personable and thoughtful, and she did a great job of really getting to know me and what I was looking for in a match. After meeting numerous potential matches, she carefully selected the ones she thought would be a great fit, and she couldn't have been more spot on. My second match quickly turned into a real relationship with an amazing person. When I consider the countless hours and energy I would have wasted on dating apps and on mediocre dates, TDR turned out to be a great investment!
Tommy, 30
Talia set me up with some amazing women. She knew exactly what I was looking for, and she was able to find women who were looking for someone like me. I went out with four different women through Three Day Rule, and I wound up going out on multiple dates with all of them. That's unheard of with other dating services, where both people are walking in almost blind not knowing about significant characteristics about the other that would prevent a relationship from happening. TDR's pre-screening is a major help. Talia also told me some things that I was doing wrong on my previous dates through other avenues, which I had no idea were a problem. She was quickly able to decipher some of my strengths and coached me on how to utilize them in the first few dates when things can be a bit awkward and you're worried about moving too fast or too slow. The TDR batting average was easily the highest of any dating service I tried, and I'm grateful that I was able to meet my current girlfriend through Talia's service.
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Phil and Sarah. Engaged, 2017.
Jennifer & Kern. Married, 2015.
I'm so grateful for the women of Three Day Rule and their ability to successfully put people together. They took the qualities I was looking for, listened to the type of guy I wanted in my life, and like magic, found a perfect match! They pick your brain and dedicate their time to you. I'm madly in love, completely fulfilled and incredibly happy. I highly recommend letting these ladies get to work to find your soul mate!
Jennifer, 31
Erika has not only done an unbelievably good job of introducing me to a string of amazing women, but she has also done a great job of listening to my feedback and nudging me to expand my horizons. Overall, it's been a very healthy balance for me, and I'm excited to continue working with her.
Joe, 40
My experience with Heather and the TDR team has been nothing short of terrific. From the first interview I had with them, to numerous contacts in presenting dates for me to meet, to their always-professional follow up, I’ve greatly valued my relationship with TDR. Importantly, they worked hard to understand the kind of person I am, and the kind of person I would best match up with. I’m happy to say that a couple of the introductions I’ve had via TDR have led to on-going relationships that I’m still enjoying.
Tom, 62
Working with Marisa and Three Day Rule changed the course of my life. Suddenly widowed with children, I was a full time working parent with no time or emotional energy to actively keep up with dating apps, singles cruises or meet-ups. Before Marisa found Darcell for me, I had started giving up on finding anyone. In a beautiful way, Darcell and I connect on every level - we play music together, enjoy going to classical music concerts, the theatre, great restaurants and cafes - he has made me believe in love again! We are the same age and truly understand each other. I’m so grateful to Marisa for being so positive and encouraging through this whole process. For any busy professional, especially someone who has been widowed, Three Day Rule is a wonderful way to move forward in life.
Mona, 50
Mona & Darcell. In a Relationship, 2017.
I scoured the New York area's matchmakers very diligently and after careful thought decided to go with TDR. What struck me right away was the matchmaker's genuine interest in me, really diving deep into who I am and what I require from a match. They were very patient as I was walked through the process, and very flexible as I negotiated what worked best for me. The most valuable part of this process has been my personal matchmaker, Becky, who has truly become a guide, wing-woman, friend and soul-sister. She is accessible, honest, and truly cares about me and what I desire. She is clearly interested in quality not quantity, and has very quickly figured out what resonates for me. Most importantly her feedback for me is delivered with the utmost care. She has found a way to gently point out a fresh perspective when needed, as well as to fight fiercely to represent me and my values if the situation calls for it. It feels amazing to have her by my side as I navigate finding a life partner. This has been a truly worthwhile experience for me, because of TDR's highly personalized approach to matchmaking... not found easily in NYC. :)
Sabiha, 39
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Stephanie & Tom. In a Relationship, 2017.
Tom and I look at each other frequently and remark, "I can't believe we met; we are so grateful." I am thankful that Jaime brought this wonderful man into my life. As single parents with busy careers, meeting the right person was proving to be impossible for both of us. Neither of us enjoyed the typical bar scene and with a high-visibility position in my profession, online dating was not an option for me. Jaime listened to what I was hoping to find in a partner and guided me with thoughtful questions--really helping me to see how my needs for partnership have changed since I was last single. And then Jaime found for me a person who is my complete compliment in every way! We have been together for a year and half now, our collective children are all family and we are planning the rest of our lives together. I cannot thank Jaime enough.
Stephanie, 40
Durrah & Ian. Dating, 2017.
I don't know why I didn't find TDR sooner as it was the best thing that ever happened to me. They were so committed to finding love for me. The seamless process from meeting with my Matchmaker Marisa, to her following up with me even when I was traveling illustrated their dedication. Through the process I realized that my priorities were all in the wrong order - I needed that extra boost and TDR was there to give that to me. Marisa was always professional and committed through the entire process, she ensured that I was comfortable, and made me feel open to share my concerns and questions about finding a match. I loved having the photo shoot which made me feel more confident. I also really enjoyed the relationship coaching with Anna - it opened up my eyes to allowing myself to be vulnerable. The resources and tools recommended by TDR were priceless. Marisa still follows up to see if everything is going well with Ian and I. I would recommend TDR to everyone, you really have nothing to lose.
Durrah, 33
When I first came to TDR, I was in a negative place in terms of dating. I knew I needed to try something different. From the beginning, I knew this experience was special. My relationship with Callie grew beyond simply “client” and “matchmaker.” She was always available if I needed to chat, and she really tried to understand the essence of who I was and what I needed in a partner. Callie listened to the feedback I provided after each of my dates and actually applied it to the next match she would present me with, providing an objective lens in my dating life that you just can't get from an app. This led to her matching me with some remarkable people and eventually with Brian, who I felt an instant connection with. When I signed up for this I never expected to meet anyone as special as Brian. Heck, when I first separated from my ex, I was convinced nobody would ever date me at all. I absolutely never thought I would ever love again, or feel loved back -- AND I HAVE!!! Thank you, thank you, thank you, Callie! This experience was worth every penny and more.
Nicole, 36
I signed up with TDR with some hesitation. Like many people, my life does not necessarily lend itself to meeting new people -- I work (a lot!), most of my friends are in long-term relationships or married, and I am just too old to hit the bars. But, I was interested in finding a new relationship. A matchmaker sounded like just the ticket. My first match Callie sent me looked like an odd fit based on my past relationships, but I swore I would be open-minded about doing this, so I agreed to meet Evan. After the first date, I thought he found me uninteresting. But, since I enjoyed meeting him, I said I would see him again if he wanted to. Callie got feedback (invaluable to us meeting again), and Evan said he would like to so we went on date two. This time went better. And, every time since has been better still! We’ve been seeing each other for over a year now and are spending the holidays together. So, Callie was right and we were wrong about whether we made a good match—we do!
Marie, 50
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Marie & Evan. Dating, 2017.
I started working with Erika after 6 months of being single. I had some dating fatigue from the apps and thought it would be a nice to have someone on the lookout for me. There were three parts of the process that I really enjoyed. Number one - the feedback: Erika gave me honest feedback about my pictures and image which turned out greatly magnifying my success with the apps. It's the honest feedback that people close to you won't always give. Erika also knew a lot of people on the apps so I could ask her advice before going out with them. Number two - the support: dating can get stressful and she always responded quickly and positively when I wanted to discuss my dating life. It's also nice after a bad date to know you have a friend in your corner that is extremely qualified to get you an amazing date. Number three - the Dates: all the dates were what I was looking for and good matches with my personality. With the apps you can go on a lot of dates and only be excited for a few, I was excited for pretty much all the dates she set me up on. It's pretty hard to get a perfect match each time, so I would suggest being patient. 6 dates didn't seem like much when I started working with Erika, but I'm glad I spent the extra money and did 6 instead of 3. Overall, Erika became a friend and someone who I will keep in touch with. So far, I haven't met the love of my life, but she put me in a good position to do so.
Dan, 35
I had been single for over 8 years when I met Heather at a networking event. I was really excited to meet with her to see if Three Day Rule would be able to help me get past some of my dating roadblocks and meet a great man. We sat down for an hour and she asked me all sorts of great questions that made me uncover many of the things that I didn't know I wanted and needed from a partner. Because of that conversation, I let go of some things that I had focused on attracting and started to think about the new qualities that I didn't even know until Heather asked! Three months later when I was on a dating site I found a man that I would have never thought was a good match for me but ended up being everything that I needed!! We have been together for 1 1/2 years now and are talking about getting engaged soon. Thank you SO much Heather for taking the time to ask the right questions so I could truly uncover the qualities for a partner that was perfect for me.
Natalie, 35
I joined TDR in late 2014. I was extremely skeptical of the process and fell more into the idea simply based on the energy, optimism, and positive attitude of my matchmaker, Erika. She was a pleasure to work with and made the process feel more like two friends gabbing, which inherently made me more comfortable! By February of 2015, I met my current boyfriend through TDR and am still very happily and exclusively dating him. The experience itself was eye-opening and helped me out of my comfort zone and on dates I may not have pursued through an online dating profile.
Madeline, 37
After recently getting divorced, I tried the online dating thing. I found that I wasn't meeting the caliber of women that I wanted to meet or date. After filling out an application for TDR, I met up with TDR matchmaker, who worked to set me up on a date with an awesome woman that I am currently dating. Thanks, TDR!
Mark, 46
Working with Carla, my Three Day Rule matchmaker, was the best! She spent the time to get a sense for who I was and introduced me to great matches. Her feedback and advice after dates were always spot on. Out of all the matchmakers I worked with, she had the most genuine sense of empathy and professionalism.
Bryan, 33
The past few months with TDR have been great. Danika, the matchmaker I worked with, was really professional throughout. I know that she was always rooting for me. I had more confidence as I went through the dates with the matches she found and I felt a lot of anxiety and stress taken off of my shoulders. Before signing up, I had zero experience in dating. I think I've gotten more confident as I have gotten more feedback - utilizing the two free date coaching sessions also helped. The matches got better progressively and I could feel that I was getting better too! My last match seems to want to go on a second date. Great progress in my opinion. It was a good experience and I would definitely recommend it.
Suhil, 26
Working with Jaime has been a very enjoyable experience. She did an excellent job of listening to my thoughts and was always willing to give advice and feedback that was extremely helpful. Throughout the whole matchmaking experience, Jaime was able to introduce me to women that were each more amazing than the last. If I had to do it all over again, there is no doubt that I would work with her again.
James, 26
Working with TDR was great. It was a serious decision for me to work with a matchmaker and Nora put me at ease right away. Her sincerity and dedication to helping others find love came through in my first meeting with her. She listens to what you want and focuses on compatibility in her matches. She also helped me to be more open minded! Nora introduced me to who I'm dating today and it's been a great experience! I'm very thankful to TDR and highly recommend working with Nora.
Callie, 40
I wanted to take a moment to thank Adelle for everything so far. I was a bit skeptical on the whole process, but went with my instinct, which told me Adelle knew what she was doing. I'm glad I did. Dating in LA is crazy, and while it's easy to get dates, it's difficult to find quality people - and nearly impossible to find quality people that have similar interests and values. Yet Adelle has delivered on two of two occasions. Not only has she delivered, she has knocked it out of the park! I'm extremely impressed with the quality of the matches and their similarity to what I described I was looking for in a partner.
Colin, 37
At first, it was a little nerve wracking because you're letting someone else go through a database of potential matches - what if they missed or overlooked the perfect match? But, at the same time, it took a lot of pressure off by not having to go out there and meet people at bars or doing the online thing (I've never experienced anything more miserable). I'm currently dating my last match from Jaime. We met 3 months ago and we're beyond happy and excited. I would definitely recommend working with TDR and Jaime.
Jasmine, 35
I had a very good experience with Adelle. I'm busy and it's very easy for me to not think about dating, and it was great to have the feeling that someone else was working on that for me while I could go about my daily life. A lot of the anxiety about dating comes after the date, and I was pleasantly surprised about how helpful Adelle was with that.
Christine, 37
I was hesitant about matchmaking, but once I met Erika I knew I was in good hands. She was easy to talk to and really took the time to get to know me and what it is I am looking for. She didn't just throw matches at me, she took the time to make sure my matches were with quality men. I met some great guys that I would not have met otherwise. If you're sick of the online dating world, I would definitely recommend Erika and TDR.
Sandy, 28
After a friend's suggestion during a dating slump, I met with the TDR team and told them what I was looking for in a match. After just one meeting, they definitely understood what I wanted and set me up with great guy. We are going on date 5, and I'm really excited for more to come. I am grateful I took my pal's advice so take mine: reach out to the women of 'Three Day Rule' if you are ready to get serious about meeting your match.
Erin, 27
Thanks to Erika for being a kickass matchmaker. I've learned a great deal about myself and what I put out there to men in the journey. It's been a unique purview for me into myself, really, and I'm glad I worked with TDR. Marco was a complete gentleman and I really enjoyed speaking to him. I think there is definitely compatibility so would be open to another date. He was super and only right to be the last match as he's met my criteria pretty well.
Sheree, 33
Three Day Rule's events are great. Rather than being formal, matchmaking functions, they are more laid back and there is no pressure to walk out with a phone number. You can literally go to an event with the sole purpose of having fun with your friends and there is a good chance you will just end up in a conversation with a like-minded member of the opposite sex. That's what happened to me. I met an interesting girl at a TDR event and we are now engaged!
Dan, 35
I made the best choice by joining Three Day Rule. I recently got matched, and couldn't have asked for someone more amazing. I trust my matchmaker, Marisa, and my experience has just been amazing so far. I can't wait to see what the future brings.
Paul, 26
I’ve gotten a few messages from other matchmakers (though I’ve unsubscribed from them now), and I have to say your profile descriptions, profile building, and your whole process was so much better. Everything about my TDR experience seemed so much more personal and genuine, whereas their messages felt very formalized/templatized. If I know anyone in the market in the future, I will definitely not hesitate to refer them your way.
David, 42
Being part of the free pool, I have been so impressed with my experience working with TDR! Heather really took the time to get to know me. Dating can be so exhausting, especially when using the dating apps. TDR does the initial legwork for me by introducing me to really great men who have been hand-picked based on our mutual interests, values, preferences, etc. I can count on TDR to thoughtfully match me with someone who has good intentions, is actually looking for a relationship, and who just may be the man of my dreams!
Kara, 36
TDR is a welcome respite from the world of swiping and clicking. It is a more personal form of dating that seems to be lacking in our modern world, a more "quality than quantity". From the initial interview, to setting up first dates, working with my matchmaker Brianna has been a great experience. Anytime I have any questions, Brianna is there to answer them. From potential date ideas to updates on our search, it's like a guided hand through the seas of dating.
Ian, 33
I had the pleasure of working with Caitlin as a client in 2016. She struck me as highly personable, upbeat, and genuine. It was easy to relate to her and talk about even very personal details. Within minutes, I found myself thinking that she was perfect for her job. My admiration for her only grew during the following months. Not only did she show great care, diligence, professionalism, and ingenuity in making arrangements for me, but her follow-ups showed a serious commitment to her job and, even more importantly, to her client. I have been lucky having been able to work with her, and I congratulate everyone who will be fortunate enough to do so in the future. She is outstanding at her job, and will be highly successful in the future.
Wayne, 48
You know that feeling of confidence, when there’s a successful and beautiful woman in your corner? It’s the same feeling as having Casey McDonald as your relationship consultant. It can be difficult to rationalize hiring a matchmaker in these days of seemingly unlimited electronic means of meeting people, but once I committed to TDR, I could tell the difference immediately. There’s a great feeling of relief, knowing that Casey is behind the scenes, considering my attributes and comparing them to potential partners in her database. The time savings alone, of not scrolling randomly through profiles, makes TDR worthwhile. Another noteworthy benefit to Casey and TDR is that the women who are enrolled are interested in committed relationships. And since there’s a financial commitment to the service, the women I’m meeting through Casey are interesting, thoughtful, women of substance, which is exactly what I’m looking for in a partner.
Sam, 51
It was amazing having Allison as my matchmaker and looking out for me through this experience. Going through this experience has taught me to invest in personal relationships, which had previously been on hold as I focused on my career. It was a great experience and can only say good things about having someone on your side looking for your match in life. This was especially important to me given that I personally did not have time and was out of the country so often. Allison was amazing and on top of everything and it felt like she was personally invested in the success of matches. Keep doing what you are doing, and looking out for those seeking a lifetime partner!
Max, 35
I've been working with Caitlin for some time and have always been deeply impressed by her amazing way of being empathetic with other people's situations and full of positive energy. The following qualities make her especially good at her job -- being understanding, fully relating to her clients, and being able to give great insights. I really enjoy working with her and she has become a dear friend of mine.
Jen, 27
I truly believe that I needed to go on the dating journey I did with TDR to find my match, and Nora supported me through that journey. I appreciate that Nora was always willing to listen and offer support, and the time she put into finding me matches and helping me through those dates and decisions as well. I think so many people would benefit from the experience Nora provided, and I continue to share my story of working with her to friends.
Rosa, 36
Meeting Callie was like meeting a friend over coffee. We talked about what kind of things I like, and what kind of things to look for in my future partner. When I read the description of me that was sent to my now husband, Jason, as an introduction, I was surprised at how correctly Callie captured me in a few sentences, and delivered who I was in a meaningful and hopeful tone. It is absolutely true that without Callie and TDR, I would not have met Jason - a warm-hearted, goofy, hard-working guy that is my better half. We are both doctors with busy schedules who were living in different cities. For that I'm deeply grateful, and I've been recommending TDR for all my single friends!
Natalie , 41
What I appreciated most about working with Caitlin was how expertly and honestly she was able to zero in on what I wanted, and then introduce me to exactly that type of person. But Caitlin and I didn't arrive at my type overnight. We invested a lot of time to determine that over the course of several weeks with numerous meetings and calls. It was a true team effort. And never once did I feel judged, rushed, or unfairly treated. Caitlin had my best interests in mind at all times and I met several fantastic women I would never have met on my own. I am truly grateful to have met and worked with Caitlin.
Ryan, 45
Simply put - Michal was meant to be a matchmaker. Michal’s warm and energetic personality immediately enabled me to feel at ease and open up. In our first meeting, I felt as if I knew her for years - telling my journey and the type of person I’m looking for to share my life. She has a natural ability to connect with people and you can feel her passion for bringing people together to find love and companionship.
Jared, 35
Working with Brittney has been an absolute pleasure! As a founder of a start-up, time is extremely valuable, and it's important to work with highly efficient people. Brittney not only goes above and beyond when it comes to finding an appropriate match, but does so in an expedient manner. I highly recommend working with her!
Matthias, 38
Carla is such a dedicated, committed, and insightful matchmaker who worked hard to make my dream relationship come true! She really worked to understand what is important to me, and has done such a great job working towards making it happen!
Jasper, 48
I am very happy that I took the plunge and started working with TDR. I have had a great experience working with Brianna. Brianna’s matches have shown thought and effort to meet my needs. I can tell she puts effort in and that she truly cares about me being happy with my match. She is always available to take calls, provide advice and is easy to talk to. I highly recommend her!
Ben, 37
Morgan was always easy to reach and responded to all my questions and concerns very quickly and thoughtfully. She made me feel at ease through this nerve-wracking process, and even chatted with my friends to get a clearer picture of who I am and who I’m looking for. Morgan clearly puts her heart and soul into matchmaking.
Rachel, 32
After trying everything that most singletons have in terms of dating (from doing the online programs to being set up when the only commonality is that we are both single), my dear friends found out about Callie and TDR and convinced me to try it out. And I'm sure glad they did - meeting Callie is like a breath of fresh air! She takes the time to really understand you, while at the same time, you are learning more about yourself from answering her questions and talking with her. During my time working with Callie, I met interesting, eligible, quality men, but didn't quite find a connection with someone. But a few months after we stopped working together, Callie reached out and mentioned that she had a great guy in mind for me. And that's Callie - even after my contract ended, she's still looking out for me and kept me on her radar! It's only been two months of dating this guy, but I've enjoyed every moment. Thank you, Callie!
Leigh, 39
Three Day Rule is quite awesome. If you are ready to jump in with your whole heart, you absolutely will find love, and be on a rocketship with positive emotional growth in all aspects of your life. Natasha does an amazing job of listening to a client's needs, both spoken and unspoken, and she helps you hone in on what you are looking for, through a very interesting process where you get to really examine whether what you ask for is exactly right for you, or if you need to make a few modifications about what you want. I met someone quite amazing about a month after I started with TDR... and while in my case I met this person through my church, TDR's process and their coaching really helped with making sure I fully jumped back into life and became my best self, every day. I also really admire the values of all of the TDR employees - Talia has really set up a kind, thoughtful, amazing company that embodies the best in humanity and the entire TDR staff. Natasha and Carla, the two matchmakers I have been paired with have amazing hearts, a depth of compassion that you feel with your very best friends. Quite honestly, if you've made the commitment to be your best self and you listen to their advice, Three Day Rule will add rocketfuel to your emotional growth process and there is a pretty high probability you will find love along the way. :)
Aidan, 36
I have thoroughly enjoyed my time working with Three Day Rule in general, and Christie in particular. After being married for 28 years, I was terrified about trying online dating. I know I am too shy to go to bars or parties and sell myself, but I have been thrilled to find TDR and know they are such an easy and successful alternative. My "Yenta" Christie has made great efforts to get to know me and to really learn what I want and need; often talking with and treating me more like a friend than a client. I truly feel like she is on a personal mission to find me that perfect person. I have had several great matches so far, and though none have blossomed romantically, a few have remained friends, and the matches feel like they are getting closer to perfect each time I get one. Christie respects my personal style and pace of dating, and seems to have such a great handle on how to work with me gently and successfully. I feel totally safe and protected in her hands as I go through this process. I think in today’s age where meeting quality people can be so difficult, Three Day rule is a great alternative to the harshness of online dating. I am thrilled with the quality of people I have met so far, and I have full faith that through Christie and TDR, I will find the next true love of my life. After years of relationship trauma, true happiness feels like it is just around the corner.
Stuart, 55
I truly enjoyed working with Krissy. She developed very early on a good sensibility about the types of guys I would match with. I appreciated not having to go through profiles and profiles of guys after work or on weekends and being able to relax or catch up on other personal activities I had put on hold. Krissy was extremely responsive and good at following up with me about dates as well as providing feedback from my matches. Over the few months that I worked with Krissy, I was able to focus more on the fun side of dating and of searching for a significant other. I'm still dating a couple of my matches and have really enjoyed my time with them so far. I'm so thankful for Krissy's help.
Betty, 43
I have had a great experience working with Michal and TDR. As a young professional with a busy schedule who was sick of the online dating scene, TDR seemed worth a try. Once I started working with Michal I knew I made the right decision. Michal took the time to actually listen to what I was looking for, and was always available to chat. Through the process and with the feedback I received after each match I was able to gain a much better understanding of what I’m looking for in a match, which wouldn’t be possible without Michal. I can tell Michal truly cares about finding the right person for me, and I would highly recommend working with her!
Brooks, 29
Working with Erika has been such a pleasure. It has been a really comforting and uplifting experience knowing that I had someone in my corner finding me intelligent, attractive, kind-hearted potential partners with similar goals in life. Erika was understanding when I needed to take some time to myself and as enthusiastic and upbeat when I was ready to come back to the process. That was when I met the love of my life. He was my last match and I was his first. Without Erika, I'm not sure this could have happened. I have never been so happy in my life! And I'm grateful to Erika and the TDR process.
Megan, 33
As someone who was totally disenchanted by the dating scene and no longer confident in my abilities to find myself a partner, Erika was the breath of fresh air I so desperately needed. She is like having a supportive best friend, cheerleader and dating coach all rolled into one. I felt completely at ease to discuss anything about my dating life with her. Knowing she had my back throughout our time together gave me the chance to relax a little bit and trust the process. Whenever I would start to overthink things and get anxious, I could always count on Erika to take the brunt of my frustrations and get my head back in the game. I honestly think if I didn’t reach out to TDR I would still be making the same mistakes and cheating myself of the opportunities that are out there, but I just couldn’t see. I am forever grateful to Erika and her team!
Amy, 31
Approaching the idea of hiring a matchmaker was a difficult but exciting concept for me. The challenges of balancing family, a busy career, and meeting people were daunting and I had not had much success with online dating. Michal made me comfortable with TDR and the matchmaking process right away and gave me the confidence to move forward. She took the time to learn about where I am in life and where I want to go. She investigated my preferences for appearance, personality, education, location etc, and has found fulfilling matches for me. Michal has offered meaningful guidance on ways to approach the dating process which have increased my comfort level and enjoyment dramatically. I am thrilled to have partnered with Michal and Three Day Rule on this journey and I can’t wait to see where it leads.
Jonas, 50
The dating coach they picked for me, Alexis Sclamberg, she is pretty awesome, extremely insightful, and quite delightful. Interestingly, because I met such an amazing woman and hit it off so well there wasn't much left to do in the way of 'dating coaching', Alexis and I even started addressing other aspects of my life, such as work and family, AND Alexis is so helpful to the point of being able to foreshadow things a week or so before they occur. Pretty remarkable.
Aidan, 36
My experience with TDR and Brittney has been fantastic. I was very hesitant in signing up for yet another dating site. However, TDR is different, and after meeting Brittney (who is a very genuine person) and talking about my goals and what I was looking for, it felt like the right thing to do. After my interview with Brittney, I was like; wow she really cares and is going to give 100%. Brittney takes the time to personally meet with my matches and ensure that they are the right fit. When I have questions about the process or potential matches, Brittney makes herself available to have a quick phone conversation and she also responds quickly to e-mails. It is a relief that I have such a great person helping me search for that special someone. I highly recommend the TDR process and Brittney as your personal matchmaker.
Nolan, 40
If you are seeking a great matchmaker, then I highly recommend working with Christie at Three Day Rule. At our first meeting, she truly impressed me with her keen understanding and intuition about dating and relationships. I really felt that I had someone in my corner, which was very reassuring. Christie is a very good listener, so she knew exactly where I was coming from, and gave me confidence that I was in able hands working with her to match me with someone truly special. As it turned out, she is so good at what she does that she matched me with someone perfect for me on the first try. I’ve never been happier than I have been in the past 4 months! Thank you, Christie!
Gavin, 37
Morgan is the bomb. I’m an extremely private person and had no interest in the very public dating apps. Morgan really demystified the dating process for me and made dating accessible, easy, and fun. I met nothing but extraordinary women. Meeting Morgan changed my life.
Brad, 55
Natasha has a gift with people. She possesses a unique blend of empathy, warmth, intuition, and commitment making her well suited for the delicate business of matchmaking. She’s an all-around pleasure to work with.
Victoria, 56
Every match I met through TDR was a great person who I got along with, and every date was enjoyable. It was a much different experience than the countless messaging and swiping of online apps. Mainly, I really felt the matchmakers took time to get to know people on a deeper level and introduce them to someone they would connect with. There was one particularly lovely women that I hit it off with, but after the first two dates, she had to move away. We have remained connected since then and I’m happy to report a year later she and I are dating and happy.
Travis, 43
Initially I wasn't sure about going through TDR to find the love of my life - after talking with Danika, I found her to be personable, intelligent, caring, and confident. Working with Danika was absolutely wonderful, we had great communication, and I got valuable advice from her. Shortly after I started working with Danika, she found someone who is truly special, loving, intelligent, and a great match for me, and whom I would have never otherwise crossed paths with. We are in a relationship and looking forward to many happy years to come. Working with Danika/TDR is one of the best investments!
Gwen, 49

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