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Anna Asefi

Anna Asefi's graduate education in clinical psychology with an emphasis in marriage and family therapy, along with her previous experience as a Lead Matchmaker provides her with a unique style of dating and relationship coaching. Her grounded, compassionate, light-hearted nature coupled with her direct approach makes her easy to talk to, and her guidance even easier to follow. She’s an extrovert in every sense of the word, and her passion for connection shines from the moment you meet her- especially when it comes to helping people discover and maintain lasting love.

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David Cruz

David Cruz is a Matchmaker and Dating Coach most famous for his role on the hit Bravo TV show "The Millionaire Matchmaker" and WEtv’s "Million Dollar Matchmaker". His obsession with love and romance led him to found Finding-Cupid.com, a website created to “remind people how to love again.” He has a strong opinion on what it means to date in today’s modern world and his work has been featured on the Huffington Post, The Advocate, and Frontiers Magazine LA to name a few. David can also be heard on his weekly podcast “Finding Cupid Radio”. The show, which is featured on iTunes and iHeart Radio, discusses all the latest in dating and relationship news and also features his interviews with celebrities, experts, and real daters. David is thrilled to work with TDR clients on their path to love and utilize his specific expertise to help others find love within the LGBTQ+ community.

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Rick Clemons

Rick Clemons is the Author of Frankly My Dear I’m Gay, Host of The Coming Out Lounge podcast, certified life and relationship coach, TEDx Speaker, world record holder, and a guy who’s helped 1000’s of people in over 50 countries across the globe make bold moves in their lives to be fully self-expressed in life, love, and careers. His specialty is working with individuals whose dating and relationships need a fresh start after major life transitions - divorce, coming out, empty nest breakups, widowhood, and relationships that took the back burner to career aspirations. Rick's holistic approach focuses on the whole person, not just the dating and relationship aspects of their life. Straight-forward, insightful, intuitive, Rick helps clients uncover their truths about love and relationships, redesign what's not working, and showcase what is working without apologies.

Alexis Sclamberg

Alexis Sclamberg is a coach, speaker, co-founder of a personal growth company, and author of the upcoming book "Tired of Dating and Sick of Waiting? Do This!". She contributes essays to publications including Cosmopolitan, Forbes, Shape, and The Huffington Post, and is regularly featured on the radio, including NPR. A former lawyer, Alexis has been called the “manifestation master of her generation” and is known for turning complex scientific facts into simple tools for manifestation. She is an Instructor at Barnard’s Athena Center for Leadership Studies and a magna cum laude graduate of the University of Pennsylvania Law School.

Jaimi Brooks

Jaimi Brooks’ passion is helping people to be the best versions of themselves while finding their best relationship. Her experience through her Master’s in Marriage & Family Therapy, research in UCLA’s Marriage Lab (a 30+ year study on what makes happy, lasting partnerships), as well as her work as a therapist in private practice highly informs her work. She has worked with both couples and individuals specializing in premarital therapy and dating strategy. She believes the key to a successful relationship is self-awareness and sharing yourself genuinely. Jaimi works with her clients to be better, choose better, feel better, and therefore love better, as they move into the next chapter of their lives.

Laurel House

Laurel House is a celebrity Dating Coach and Flirting Expert, 5x published Author, and has been a featured expert on The TODAY Show, E! News, Good Morning America, Nightline, Glamour, AskMen,Thrillist.com, and dozens of other print, online, and television outlets. She is the dating coach on the new E! reality TV show "Famously Single," premiering in May, where she will be working her magic on single reality stars including Brandi Glanville, DJ Pauly D, "The Bachelor" Josh Murray, Aubrey O'Day, and several others. Her 5th book "Screwing The Rules: The No-Games Guide to Love” was published in December 2014 with Running Press.

Thomas Edwards

Thomas Edwards founded The Professional Wingman® to help singles find long-term relationships by developing their social skills through experiential coaching. A leading expert in dating, relationships, and lifestyle development - peers and media have deemed him the “real-life Hitch.” His knowledge and unique perspective have been featured in over 400 international media outlets, including Men’s Health, the Wall Street Journal, GQ, Playboy, the New York Times, MTV and the Steve Harvey Show. He lives with his wife of 3 years and his baby girl.

Dating Strategy Services

  • Identify

    Work closely with an expert TDR dating strategist to identify your priority areas to become a better dater.
  • Strategize

    Learn the appropriate and most effective methods for overcoming your biggest barriers to having a fulfilling love life.
  • Apply

    Receive on-going feedback and coaching as you apply your learnings to your relationships and dating life and start to experience meaningful results.
"I'm not sure where I'd be without Alexis. Before I started working with her I was frustrated and exhausted -- I had been single for 7 years and was so over dating. It felt like I was doing something wrong but I didn’t know what. Alexis helped me get clear about what I wanted, and made me realize how I was standing in my own way. I honestly didn’t even realize what I was doing was sabotaging my own success. What I liked most about working with Alexis was that she gave me really clear strategies that actually worked. And they didn’t just shift things in dating but in my life in general. I think they made me a better person. I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year now and we just started shopping for engagement rings. Alexis told me in our first session that a few tweaks could really change things - I wanted to believe her…and she was RIGHT!!"
Allison, 41
I went to Anna to try to understand how two long-term relationships I had been in broke down due to a lack of chemistry. I was losing confidence in my ability to determine romantic chemistry where it existed. Anna helped me attune my communication with potential romantic partners. She also gave me more confidence to ask questions about lifestyle, romance, and family that I had become hesitant to ask fearing that they would push a potential romantic partner away. I am now happily in another long-term relationship thanks to these improved communication skills. Thanks Anna!
Max, 32

Dating Strategy Sessions

1 introductory session (50 minutes)
  • Introductory consultation to meet your expert dating strategist and experience a personalized dating strategy session first-hand.
2 sessions (50 minutes each)
  • Initial, in-depth consultation to determine priority areas to focus on.
  • One personalized strategy session with your expert dating strategist to begin addressing your needs.
10 sessions (50 minutes each)
  • Initial, in-depth consultation to determine priority areas to focus on.
  • One personalized strategy session with your expert dating strategist to begin addressing your needs.
  • On-going feedback and coaching to help you apply the theory into practice.
  • All sessions are done remotely (via Skype) to ensure flexibility in scheduling.

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