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Carla Romo

Dating Strategist

Carla is considered the love-life cheerleader. From finding “the one” to addressing toxic relationship patterns, she helps empower those who feel stuck and stagnant to build purpose and confidence in their dating lives. Carla's coaching approach of self-love guides her clients through discovering a deep sense of awareness and self-worth that they can successfully apply to their romantic relationships. Carla is the author of "Contagious Love" and leads nationwide talks on dating and relationships. She has been featured on BRAVO, Cosmopolitan, Bumble, Lifetime, The Knot, as well as many highly rated Podcasts. Carla holds a certification as a Certified Professional Coach (CPC).

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Kara Laricks

LGBTQ+ Dating Strategist

Kara is an educator, public speaker, writer, editor, and fashion designer - as well as a member and advocate of the LGBTQ+ community. She is passionate about the power of human connection, and her passion for the community's safety and happiness drives her to work with others in their journey toward fulfilling long-term relationships. Kara volunteers her time teaching yoga at her local LGBTQ+ Inclusivity Center. And as the winner of NBC's Fashion Star, she worked with H&M, Macy's, and Saks Fifth Avenue, before showing her private collection at New York Fashion Week. Kara provides genuine, compassionate, and honest guidance, building individuals' strengths both from the outside in and the inside out.

Alexis Sclamberg

Dating Strategist

Alexis Sclamberg is a love coach, speaker, co-founder of a personal growth company, and author of the upcoming book "Tired of Dating and Sick of Waiting? Do This!". She contributes essays to publications including Cosmopolitan, Forbes, Shape, and The Huffington Post, and is regularly featured on the radio, including NPR. A former lawyer, Alexis has been called the “manifestation master of her generation” and is known for turning complex scientific facts into simple tools for manifestation. She is an Instructor at Barnard’s Athena Center for Leadership Studies and a magna cum laude graduate of the University of Pennsylvania Law School.

Rachel Perlstein

Dating Strategist

Rachel is a Dating & Relationship Coach, Licensed Psychotherapist, and former Matchmaker for Three Day Rule. Rachel's secret to dating success is helping clients turn insight into action. Rachel works with people to embrace their authentic self and overcome the obstacles and dating patterns that have kept them from actualizing their relationship goals. She has seen time and time again that once clients feel confident, identify the obstacles that stand in their way and adapt a growth-oriented mindset, they achieve dating success. Rachel truly believes that everyone deserves to find the relationship they want, and she loves putting people back in control of their dating lives. Rachel has been featured in Brit & Co, Bustle, Fatherly, Upjourney, Zoosk, and PsychologyToday.com.

Caitlin Cooper

Dating, Health, and Wellness Strategist

Caitlin Cooper is a dating strategist, licensed health coach, meditation teacher, and NLP + hypnosis practitioner. She used her experience as a TDR Matchmaker to create a unique blend of these skills for her relationship ready course and methodology. Her straightforward approach guides the modern dater through the shifts in online dating, the differences between men and women, and focuses her clients on becoming the best version of themselves so they can get exactly what they want. She has contributed to publications like ELLE, Mind Body Green, Elite Daily, Refinery 29, Bustle, Thrillist, and lives with her husband in NY.

Bree Jacoby

Stylist - LA and NYC

Bree Jacoby is a Los Angeles native with a splash of East Coast mentality and spunk. She specializes in personal brand consulting for busy, successful men and women. Bree's been an entrepreneur since she was 13 years old, and by 20, she was managing and building up retail businesses in Los Angeles and New York City. Bree fiercely believes her clients shouldn't have to think about how to dress. Her goal is to increase her clients success while helping them to look their best - giving her clients the confidence to own any situation they walk into, whether it be a business meeting or casual drinks.

Dating Strategy Services

  • Identify

    Work closely with an expert TDR dating strategist to identify your priority areas to become a better dater.
  • Strategize

    Learn the appropriate and most effective methods for overcoming your biggest barriers to having a fulfilling love life.
  • Apply

    Receive on-going feedback and coaching as you apply your learnings to your relationships and dating life and start to experience meaningful results.
"I'm not sure where I'd be without Alexis. Before I started working with her I was frustrated and exhausted -- I had been single for 7 years and was so over dating. It felt like I was doing something wrong but I didn’t know what. Alexis helped me get clear about what I wanted, and made me realize how I was standing in my own way. I honestly didn’t even realize what I was doing was sabotaging my own success. What I liked most about working with Alexis was that she gave me really clear strategies that actually worked. And they didn’t just shift things in dating but in my life in general. I think they made me a better person. I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year now and we just started shopping for engagement rings. Alexis told me in our first session that a few tweaks could really change things - I wanted to believe her…and she was RIGHT!!"
Allison, 41
I went to Anna to try to understand how two long-term relationships I had been in broke down due to a lack of chemistry. I was losing confidence in my ability to determine romantic chemistry where it existed. Anna helped me attune my communication with potential romantic partners. She also gave me more confidence to ask questions about lifestyle, romance, and family that I had become hesitant to ask fearing that they would push a potential romantic partner away. I am now happily in another long-term relationship thanks to these improved communication skills. Thanks Anna!
Max, 32

Dating Strategy Sessions

1 introductory session (50 minutes)
  • Introductory consultation to meet your expert dating strategist and experience a personalized dating strategy session first-hand.
2 sessions (50 minutes each)
  • Initial, in-depth consultation to determine priority areas to focus on.
  • One personalized strategy session with your expert dating strategist to begin addressing your needs.
10 sessions (50 minutes each)
  • Initial, in-depth consultation to determine priority areas to focus on.
  • One personalized strategy session with your expert dating strategist to begin addressing your needs.
  • On-going feedback and coaching to help you apply the theory into practice.
  • All sessions are done remotely (via Skype) to ensure flexibility in scheduling.

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