TDR's matchmakers are part of the LGBTQ+ community.

That means we understand your individual needs. We combine innovative technology with in-person vetting to find you the perfect match.

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How It Works

  1. Fill out a private profile
    Help us get to know you better.
  2. Meet your personal matchmaker
    We'll assign you a matchmaker who will reach out within 72 hours.
  3. Get matched
    Tell us your preferences and we'll do the rest.

Talia Goldstein, CEO & Founder

Since I started TDR in 2013, it has been a dream of mine to create an LGBTQ+ focused matchmaking division to help singles in the community make meaningful connections. I am thrilled to finally bring that dream to fruition.

We have always been inclusive, but saw a real need to have matchmakers and dating experts specifically focused on the LGBTQ+ experience. With the legalization of gay marriage, our country took an amazing step forward. TDR is dedicated to helping relationship-minded singles in the community along their dating journeys. I'm so excited for you to get started with us.

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David Cruz, Dating Strategist

After years of coaching people within the gay and lesbian community, I've realized that there is a need for a platform to help singles find love. I'm thrilled to be a part of the future of LGBTQ+ dating with Three Day Rule.

David Cruz is a matchmaker and dating coach known for his work with the LGBTQ+ community. He is most famous for his roles on the hit Bravo TV show, "The Millionaire Matchmaker" and WEtv's, "Million Dollar Matchmaker". He is the founder of and the host of his own weekly podcast, "Finding Cupid Radio". David is a strong advocate, member, and proud influencer of the LGBTQ+ community nationwide.

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Three Day Rule is a more personal form of dating - more "quality than quantity". From the initial interview to setting up first dates, working with my matchmaker has been a great experience.
Ian, 33