TDR's matchmakers are part of the LGBTQ+ community.

That means we understand your individual needs. We combine innovative technology with in-person vetting to find you the perfect match.

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How It Works

  1. Fill out a private profile
    Help us get to know you better.
  2. Meet your personal matchmaker
    We'll assign you a matchmaker who will reach out within 72 hours.
  3. Get matched
    Tell us your preferences and we'll do the rest.

Talia Goldstein, CEO & Founder

Since I started TDR in 2013, it has been a dream of mine to create an LGBTQ+ focused matchmaking division to help singles in the community make meaningful connections. I am thrilled to finally bring that dream to fruition.

We have always been inclusive, but saw a real need to have matchmakers and dating experts specifically focused on the LGBTQ+ experience. With the legalization of gay marriage, our country took an amazing step forward. TDR is dedicated to helping relationship-minded singles in the community along their dating journeys. I'm so excited for you to get started with us.

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Three Day Rule is a more personal form of dating - more "quality than quantity". From the initial interview to setting up first dates, working with my matchmaker has been a great experience.
Ian, 33