Three Day Rule changed dating for me in LA. I was a working professional in my 30s, who was ready for a serious relationship. Every guy I'd meet on my own either didn't have his stuff together professionally or hadn't had many serious relationships prior. I'd constantly hear from those in my life, "HOW ARE YOU STILL SINGLE?" I'd then ask if they knew anyone with whom they could set me up, and the response was always something along the lines of, "Every guy I know is either taken, or there's a reason he's still single." I'd smile, and say, "That's why I'm still single." While I know that question was meant as a compliment, it got very frustrating hearing it over and over again.
The dating apps were very time-consuming, and I got turned off to those very quickly after seeing multiple guys sharing topless selfies or photos with tigers. Then I signed up with Three Day Rule... I figured people use headhunters to find quality jobs, why couldn't I use one to help find quality dates? My Matchmaker really took the time to get to know me, and even set me up with someone I ended up dating for 7 months. When that didn't work out, I was devastated, but the team stayed in touch and helped me stay hopeful that Mr. Right was still out there. The facts remained that my contract was up, I had spent all this money, and yet I was still alone, which was really tough to swallow at times. My Matchmaker and I would touch base throughout the year, and she assured me that she was always looking out for me, and she would let me know if she had a bonus match for me. Then the pandemic hit, and I figured, how can I possibly meet someone now? Much to my pleasant surprise, my Matchmaker told me she had someone in mind for me. He and I chatted on the phone, then did some virtual dating, and then we met in person...and we just fit. Now we are engaged! I feel so incredibly grateful to the whole Three Day Rule team for helping me find happiness, especially during an extremely tough year.
Jana, 40