Up to the point that I met Kara, I had been hoping and praying to meet the right person. There was something within me that felt stuck, that perhaps wondered if I deserved such love or if such love existed. Then, I accepted a meeting with Kara and that in itself is unusual as I normally was not be open to reaching out to a coach. But I did and the moment I spoke to Kara I felt she was genuine, authentic, and sincere. She asked me all the right questions and shared all the right insight that opened something up in me. I left my conversion with her feeling more hopeful than ever and knowing that I deserve amazing love. I recently met someone who has filled my life with love, lots of affection, and faith for the future. Sometimes in life we need that one person to set us up to receive miracles. Thank you Kara for being that person to unblock my doubts, wounds, and give me a tiny push to continue to believe that love is really possible.

Veronica, 44

Working with Kara has been one of the highlights of my year. Kara’s positive effervescence and bounding energy have buoyed me through the dating experience. She has been my wing-woman, cheerleader, a solid shoulder to cry on and constant source of encouragement and light! Throughout the last 3 months, she’s been my dating rock, always there to listen with an empathic ear and offering up wise advice to help me get back on track. Kara enabled me to do some soul-searching and personality digging that I will cherish and pull from for years to come. I am filled with deep gratitude for having met Kara and I am now hopeful and confident that I will indeed find my person – with patience and a deeper sense of self-esteem having known and worked with Kara. I would more than highly recommend Kara to anyone that is looking for a quality relationship/connection (and I actually have told a few friends, and one of them has connected with her). I will truly miss our video chats and email connection, but I know she will keep me top of mind as she helps others find their person. Kara has left an indelible mark on my heart and soul that will sustain me going forward. Thank you Kara for absolutely EVERYTHING! You are the very best – and you truly have found your life’s mission/calling.

Monique, 61

I've never been as optimistic and adventurous about dating as I am working with Kara. She is an exceptional listener and coach – and I have very high standards. Kara is smart and delightful; she pushes me, gives me excellent strategies and provides inspiring support for me to find my rest of my life partner and enjoy myself in the seeking. Kara's coaching provides a wise and generous point of view, quality guidance and delightful companionship that makes possibilities possible on the dating journey. Working with Kara is money well spent in terms of keeping me on the path with a hopeful and enthusiastic state of mind. Yay! We are doing this!

Karen, 63

I sincerely think that Kara's coaching helped me realize the great potential of my long distance relationship at its earliest stages. Throughout our sessions, Kara has brought out my best game and performance, now reaching a secure relationship point. I feel confident this is leading to the realization of a mature long standing wish for companionship. I can’t thank Kara enough for her insight, sensibility and professionalism.

Gama

More than anything else this review is for Kara Laricks, whom it has been the greatest blessing and gift to work with over the last two years. I have worked with all kinds of professionals in various fields -- counselors, therapists, life coaches, personal trainers, physical therapists, tutors, experts in my own line of work, you name it -- but Kara is the single most amazing person that I've ever worked with. In her very kind, humble, sweet, down-to-earth, personable, sincere, genuine, intuitive way, she gets to know you and truly *see* you like no one else. I relished our sessions as a chance not only to explore dating and relationships, but also to talk about everything going on in my life, like two friends catching up. I experienced a lot of personal growth over the time I met with Kara. I went through a lot of ups and downs over the past two years, and with that came moments when we laughed together, cried together, and analyzed life events both big and small to learn some important life lessons. Through it all Kara was my rock, showing me unwavering support, encouragement, and compassion. She has always seen the best in me even when I couldn't see it in myself, and I am humbled by her tremendous faith and belief in me. Even when we weren't in session, she made herself available through text and email. She also went out of her way on numerous occasions to make sure I felt remembered and seen on special days like my birthday, holidays, etc. I am forever grateful to have worked with Kara. Since meeting her I have not known anyone with a greater heart.

Ben, 39

I wanted to take the time to acknowledge Kara Laricks' outstanding work and express my gratitude for our 1-on-1 coaching sessions. Kara is professional, communicates well, and is genuinely concerned with my overall wellness and personal goals. Not only has Kara helped me with reframing a mindset or understanding the value of my experiences, but our conversations are always full of laughter and positive energy! I really appreciate her infectious optimism and I definitely wouldn’t have the confidence to take the leaps & bounds forward without her unconditional support. As a retired military member and government employee, I’ve always prioritized high standards of performance and value. Kara exceeds these expectations and does so with humility and authenticity. Kara is a rockstar and I wanted to give her a shout out because she’s worth her weight in gold.

Sharon, 43

Working with Kara has been so life enriching, educational, and fun! She is truly gifted. If you are in search of a passionate guru who is also well connected in the LGBTQ+ community, she is the best out there. Thank you Kara for guiding me through my dating journey, I am forever thankful for the trust and friendship we’ve built along the way

John F, 44

I am so incredibly grateful of Kara's dedication & talent to finding me my soul mate! I couldn't be happier and it only took 2 matches!

Liz, 35

Kara is the best Matchmaker I can imagine. Originally, I only planned to outsource matches. I hadn't thought of the benefit of coaching during the process. Instead of blindly finding matches for me, Kara was able to discover my inner issues deep down in my heart. She is so kind, warm and patient that I gradually opened my heart to her, talking openly about life, relationships, and spirituality. Thanks to her, I gained power and made several big steps including coming out to my family, becoming a Buddhist, and the most important, finding myself and my confidence. I am far more ready to fully open myself up to any chances for love in the future. My life has changed from a lonely, sad, closeted gay man to a man with strong confidence who is actively seeking love.

Silas, 30

When Kara first reached out to me to sit down for coffee and discuss what I was looking for with regard to dating, I almost thought it was too good to be true. Having an in-person conversation is truly a luxury in the world where swiping reigns supreme. Kara is so passionate about getting to know her clients and her warm personality and excited "Eeee's" made her so easy and fun to talk to. I really felt like she got to know me and exactly what I was looking for and she always has incredible insight and dating advice. Being in the Three Day Rule pool has given me the peace of mind that there is a chance for a genuine connection beyond swiping through filtered photos on an app and I feel so lucky that Kara is always on the lookout for the perfect "fox". She is the absolute best and I would recommend her to anyone!

Kelly, 33

I wanted to thank you for sending me Kara, my wingwoman! Kara is a wonderful person and is such a joy - I cannot say enough great things about her. Kara is not only helping me navigate though the dating process, but I am also growing as a person because of her insight. She has been such a positive influence for me. Three Day Rule is so very lucky to have her - she is an asset for any company!

Lea, 56

When I felt ready to open my heart once again after a significant break-up, I stubbornly refused to follow my friends’ advice to join online dating apps or pursue matchmaking services. I was determined to find love the ‘old-fashioned’ way Surely my meet-cute was on the horizon! When I happened upon a podcast episode of Dyking Out featuring Kara, my dating outlook shifted instantly. Despite my best efforts of resistance, Kara’s warmth, humor, and infectious positive attitude about queer love melted away my stubbornness and skepticism. I signed up with Three Day Rule the next day! My follow-up conversation with Kara did not disappoint. Her enthusiasm and insightful questions provided me with much needed clarity about what I want and need from a partner. Will Kara connect me with the woman of my dreams? I certainly hope so! But even if a love connection isn’t made, I am ever grateful to Kara for expanding my romantic horizon restoring my faith in the possible.

Anika, 47

I had originally reached out to Kara for matchmaking, but after an initial meeting with me, Kara recommended doing a 10 session coaching package instead. In retrospect, this was definitely the right way to go for my personal situation, and I really appreciate that Kara prioritized what she felt was the right fit for me over the more expensive matchmaking option. Some bullet points: - Really good listener, seemingly remembering every small detail that I had quickly mentioned in passing. - Really good at reading people. I thought she had a pretty accurate sense of who I was within our first 1-2 meetings. - Super encouraging. I felt like she was always on my side and rooting for me throughout the process. - Listened to how my dates went, and provided actionable feedback that I was able to apply the next time around. - Helped me redo my pretty pathetic wardrobe. I've always felt like it would be helpful for someone to give me a makeover, and Kara helped me find a style that fitmy personality. She did a bunch of online shopping and helped me find specific items to buy in my area. She even offered to be available over text if I wanted to get opinions on items I was trying in the dressing room. - Reviewed my online dating profile, and suggested some very effective edits that I think really made it much better. Also, set me up with a local photographer to update the photos, and helped me pick out outfits and final photos for the online profile. Looking back, I am really happy with the coaching sessions with Kara and am honestly sad that they are over, but I'm optimistic about my own dating future coming off of those sessions. Kara just has this awesome energy that I'm going to miss seeing every week. I really feel like I learned a lot from her, and do hope our paths cross again at some point. Thanks Kara!

Amy, 37

Kara has an innate ability to connect with people on a spiritual level with ease and embodies a perpetual sense of empathy. When I talk about my difficulties with dating and the things that make me both happy and frustrated, she "just gets it." She seems like an old friend who has seen you in all those rough spots in your life, who can see right inside you through all the walls and defenses. I knew that no matter in what emotional state I arrived at our meetings, I would always feel better by the end. That doesn't mean everything was fixed and perfect, but I always had a better perspective about them and action items to work on. Perspective was the key, understanding what I want and what motivated me and how it lines up with how others feel and act, and how the challenging process of finding someone special can help me get better as a person. She taught me how to learn from each date, each person I encountered, and not put any blame or judgement on myself -- or on others for that matter, which I found refreshing. Her genuineness and commitment to really listening is intoxicating and I cannot thank her enough for the gifts she has given

Hugh, 52

Kara is the real deal. She is more than a matchmaker. She is a coach, mentor, therapist, and consultant who does it all through the safety and comfort of feeling like you are being matched by a true friend. Kara takes the time to get to know you as a full human. No need to hold back on your wants and must haves as Kara will guide you in uncovering your true needs while also embracing your unique desires. I could not have asked for a better partner to go on this journey of finding forever love with. Thanks, Kara, for being authentically and unapologetically you and allowing me to do the same. I am a better person and partner through this process!

Derrick , 40

I worked with Kara, and we recently completed our session. I am very happy to have worked with her and have her as my coach and a wingwoman. She was there with me throughout my dating journey. I started off in a shell, and now I am back in the pool with intention. She worked with my pace and was very understanding and compassionate. She's amazing! <3

Anna, 35

Kara,at 3 Day Rule, is beyond amazing! She actually knows you better than you know yourself after 1 interview and she knows exactly who will be a good match for you. My advise, really listen to what she says!! She personally interviews every potential candidate to ensure that they are a good fit for you, based on your criteria. She really hears you. My journey, with Kara, has been wonderful. I know what I should be looking for, how to present myself more favorable and how to dress for success. Thank you, Kara!!

Anu, 58

Kara Laricks is an amazing person and dating coach! I am so thankful to have met her. Kara spent the time to get to know me and what I was looking for in a potential partner. She has a very kind and thoughtful way of asking questions and listening to understand. She helped me rewrite my profile and pick out pictures that would highlight my personality. Then she laid out a plan on how to approach the online dating world, even helping me with some first messages to people I found interesting . I didn't find instance success, but during that time Kara remained positive and encouraging. I stayed the course and eventually I did meet someone that I am very excited about. Kara is the BEST wing woman a person could ask for!!

Maria, 57